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Wife leaving marriage for Lesbian affair
About a year ago my wife told me that she had fell in love with a lesbian woman that she was trying to minister to. At first she was open and honest with me and I prayed with her and tried to be as understanding as possible. After about 6 months she said that God woke her up and she stopped seeing this woman. At that point I thought that God had restored our marriage and things were never better. She said that she loved me and promised never to see her again. To make things short, she really never let go and started texting her on Facebook. That then led her back to a full blown affair again. I know that I didn't love her the way I should and never conpletely met her needs. She is a very needy person and at one point I even gave up. I know now that that was wrong. For the last year I did learn how to love her the way Christ entended, but it wasn't enough. I have learned that a husband cannot love someone away from sin, only Christ can do that. Now I can only pray for her. We also have a 14 year old son who attends a Christian school. Please pray that Satan will release his grips on her. On the other hand, God has and is working in my life in ways that I cannot even believe. He is molding me into the man he always intended me to be. For years she prayed for this, yet now she wants no part of it. God really does work is strange ways. She has left our house now and living with her lesbian "friend". Please pray that God convicts her of her sin (she is twisting scripture) and that He brings her home and restores our marriage. Also pray that He continues doing a good work in me and that she truely sees that in my words and actions. I love this woman and would be willing to lay my life down for her.
God bless, David Last edited by David 4120; 11-27-2011 at 05:19 PM. |
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I want you to realize that while God may be working in You
This twist of events is not him working in mysterious ways It is purely the timing of each of you choosing to go your own way/sin rather than follow him. I highly recommend getting the Book "Love Must be Tough" by James Dobson. Here Tough means strong. Normal means may not bring about her change. She needs a wake up call Jesus I pray for this marriage to be healed of all wounds I pray that they both repent and seek forgiveness Open this womans heart and eyes to her sin Remove this lesbian from her life God wake her up to her family wake her up to the abomination that is homosexuality. Lord bring her to her knees In the name of Jesus
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Christy |
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Lord, we thank You that You are the All Knowing One, yes, the One WHo sees all things, even the deep recessive of the heart. And whatever the foothold that caused an open door for the destroyer to come in, may You reveal it to David. And dear Lord, may David too, take this time to increase his commitment and devotion only to YOu alone for You are his sure strong Foundation of his faith and hope, in Jesus' Mathcless Name, amen.
Dear David I have known of a christian couple (through a christian show) who went through a similiar situation where this christian wife consciously went into a full blown lesbian affair. They have a marriage ministry now and wrote a book titled 'Marriage on the Mend' by Penny and Clint Bragg. Just be strong in Him no matter what faithope |
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