Sheala stole 4,000 from grandmother

[diamondcreates]

Father God, I tried to reach back out to Sheala, she's been calling all weekend long and I didn't respond. Please forgive me for not answering her when she wanted me to but she is in a very toxic atmosphere that it comes through the phone.

Lord, I ask that YOU touch her heart in such a way that she knows it is YOU entering her life. I ask Lord, that she put these advice to good use dear Lord. To stop upsetting her grandmother, and take responsibility of her actions. to contact the bank and start to make some type of payment arrangement so when it is time for her to go to court she has proof that she is trying to do the right thing in a bad situation. She didn't want to hear that I wasn't going to 'help' her get the necessary information that she needs, but that she would have to do the foot work all on her own.

Father God, until Sheala change the 'atmosphere' she is in she will have no peace in her life. I continue to lift this situation up to YOU dear Lord, to handle in the best possible way YOU see fit Lord. In the blood of JESUS I pray, Amen, Amen, Amen....

[Christian Commando]

Dear Sis in Christ.

You have nothing to be forgiven by God for here. Yes, its incredibly hard, but Sheila is going to apparently have to learn the hard way. Some kids are like that. It hurts us as much as authority over them to do it, but we cannot let that hurt buckle us to aide and abet thier actions.

Rather, stay strong for God in doing this right, by letting God work on her heart and mind while she is being ignored, so she can possibly be reached by God with remorse and repentance. Love is the hardest when punishment is required sometimes. And have something brought against her for punishment of some kind, so it "sets in" for a "maturing realization" of learning responcibility for one's actions.

Lord-

We pray you will get thru to touch Sheila's heart and mind to grow up in learning to be responcible for her actions, that she realizes its better to follow your example thru Christ, rather than Satan's thru the world. Help her to learn thru this without it being too difficult, but still stiff enough she learns, remembers and changes her thinking and operating. In Jesus Name-Amen!!

[diamondcreates]

Originally Posted by Christian Commando

Lord-

We pray you will get thru to touch Sheila's heart and mind to grow up in learning to be responcible for her actions, that she realizes its better to follow your example thru Christ, rather than Satan's thru the world. Help her to learn thru this without it being too difficult, but still stiff enough she learns, remembers and changes her thinking and operating. In Jesus Name-Amen!!

Thank you brother in Christ for your heart felt words of love and compassion.

Sheala's biggest problem is not owning up to her responsibilities. She's always had someone to clean up her mess because she was pittied because of her mother not being here. Now this is something she still wants someone to not just help but to clean up her mess. But then where will the lesson be taught?

I spoke to her the other night and I said to her that this was her first offense, and she didn't answer right away, and when she did she gave me reasons that she has been in trouble that we don't know about and the courts probably gave her a smack on the hand and told her she better not get in trouble again or else she will serve some jail time. She's not concerned about her child's well being and social behavior. She's not concerned about paying people back and being remorseful but more so about going to jail. She's not trying to make sure she starts a line of communication with the bank to start repaying the bank back. But don't want to do this or that because of jail. She has no remorse questioning what is her grandmother going to do with 4,000 I told her it was none of her business and that isn't her place to decide what her grandmother whom isn't working nor receiving anytype of funds from Sheala to care for her child. She didn't like that. I told her that she needs to get in contact with a lawyer of what to do. And start establishing some type of communications with the bank to say she's going to pay it back. But she didn't want to hear that -- she wanted to hear me say I'll get the information for her. This is her mess that she has to own up to, not me.

Father God, I have tried on numerous accounts to get this child to think clearly and understand what she has done is not funny. Lord, I know evenutally our words will be replaying in her mind, heart and spirit Lord, that what she did was not cool at all and was very hurtful and she has to become the adult she screams that she is and do the right thing with this situation. That it shouldn't matter that the bank will pay Mary back -- its the princpal of it all. the responsibility of owning up to her own actions something she's never had to really do even when she got pregnant at the age of 16.

Anoint her with understanding dear Lord. that what she did was totally wrong and not to be remorse by it, is not cool either. In JESUS' name i pray, Amen, Amen, Amen...

[diamondcreates]

Father God, I pray that Sheala does the right thing in this matter. Yesterday the detective whom is investigating this case contacted Sheala and told her that there is a bench warrant out for her arrest and her best thing to do is to bring herself in. Something she is not going to do. So now she is going to avoid SC like the plague not caring her daughter and elderly grandmother is there.

This morning Sheala called Dion and he told her that he nor I can get involved with this mess between her and Mary. Especially more so now that reality is hitting both Mary and Sheala with Sheala stealing the money. Mary is getting 'soft' and wondering why the police had to do a bench warrant before they spoke to Sheala to get all the information. And Sheala not having anytype of remorse of taking the money.

Father God, only YOU know the best possible outcome for all whom are involved, Mary, Sheala and the bank. In JESUS' blessed name, Amen, amen, amen...


God bless family of God.

[christythompson]

Michelle,
I am pleased that something is being done
They will let Sheala explain in her day at court.
I hope people let her sit in jail till her court time.
Jail is not prison and even my son learned a lesson there in his youth.
Its better that she spend any time given to her there
than to actually go to prison.
A month or two will not hurt.
They have christian ministries there with daily bible study.
That is almost the only extra activity beyond TV that they have.
This may be a blessing in disguise.

Jesus
Move quickly to pick up Sheala
God come into her life in a powerful way
In Jesus name

[diamondcreates]

Originally Posted by christythompson

Michelle,
I am pleased that something is being done
They will let Sheala explain in her day at court.
I hope people let her sit in jail till her court time.
Jail is not prison and even my son learned a lesson there in his youth.
Its better that she spend any time given to her there
than to actually go to prison.
A month or two will not hurt.
They have christian ministries there with daily bible study.
That is almost the only extra activity beyond TV that they have.
This may be a blessing in disguise.

Jesus
Move quickly to pick up Sheala
God come into her life in a powerful way
In Jesus name

The sad part about this sis is that Sheala don't think that anything is going to happen because of the two states. But Dion and I have spoken about how the crowd she is surrounding herself with will eventually be pulled over by the police for something and when they check her id they will see the bench warrant from another state, and then that particular state have 48 hours to get her or else all charges will be dropped.

Father God, move mighty in this situation. For Sheala still have not learned her lesson is not sorry, nor remorseful of her sins. She continues to lie, and be deciteful. Father God, no words will sink into her unless it comes directly from YOU dear Lord. Touch her in a way that her eyes shall be opened and her heart shall be receptive of what YOU have been trying to warn her for years. In JESUS' precious name I pray, Amen, Amen, amen..

[christythompson]

Why would a warrant be dropped?
I can not imagine that being correct.
She is in the realms of a federal felony with the amount.
She also has theft and bank fraud under her belt.
You think we are set up with a 48 hour get out free card
with a federal felony?
Michelle I can not imagine.
This girl does need to be saved.
I hope if you know where she is or have a
landline phone number that she is calling from.
Pray about reporting that to the police
I feel sorry for the grandmother being robbed
by an insolent girl who wishes her dead
Personally I would be swift before she does worse and with whom?

[ninababy73]

Christy, you are correct....there is NO such thing with regards to a 48 hours release regarding a felony arrest warrant and stealing $4000 is a felony crime.

Michelle, this girl needs to face her punishment. She needs to be held accountable for her crimes.

This may sound harsh, but jail could do her some good.

My heart just breaks for Mary. I am praying for her and for Saniah. This poor grandmother, who opened her home to Sheala and is raising her daughter, should not have to be upset over this any longer. Sheala made a choice to steal and she should face the consquences of her actions.

I remain praying for her salvation, but I am also praying for her to face the consquences of her actions. Hiding and calling is not that. She needs to go through the court system to be held accountable for stealing that money. Perhaps, after she is held accountable, she will finally grow up and be responsible...not just for her herself, but also for her daughter.

[diamondcreates]

Originally Posted by ninababy73

Christy, you are correct....there is NO such thing with regards to a 48 hours release regarding a felony arrest warrant and stealing $4000 is a felony crime.

Michelle, this girl needs to face her punishment. She needs to be held accountable for her crimes.

This may sound harsh, but jail could do her some good.

My heart just breaks for Mary. I am praying for her and for Saniah. This poor grandmother, who opened her home to Sheala and is raising her daughter, should not have to be upset over this any longer. Sheala made a choice to steal and she should face the consquences of her actions.

I remain praying for her salvation, but I am also praying for her to face the consquences of her actions. Hiding and calling is not that. She needs to go through the court system to be held accountable for stealing that money. Perhaps, after she is held accountable, she will finally grow up and be responsible...not just for her herself, but also for her daughter.

Hey ladies, I was floored when Mary told Dion that so called fact about the 48 hour hold.

I too agree that Sheala finally needs to be held accountable of her actions or else who knows the length she would go to get the funds she needs to get her high. The money Sheala took we all thought the broker for the house next door to Mary had cashed and when she returned the check back to Mary last Monday saying there wasn't enough funds in the account is when and how we found out Sheala took the money. So now -- because of Sheala's actions we aren't able to continue to move down south at this present time.

Dion said things works in mysterious ways because if we was living next door Sheala's mess will be rolling onto our door steps. And besides if she is so callous of stealing money from someone whom has been there from day one what in the world would she do to us? We know how she would take stuff from our place -- cds, cloths,make up, video games, she's even went into the boys piggy bank the other year, and a container I had hid away when she came of 'spare change'. She claimed that she only took that to go to the store to get something for the kids. But when asked them they said something else.

I don't know where she is staying at -- she continues to lie about that. And she only have a cell phone. Me personally is scared to call in her cell phone number to the police because they might tell her it was me, and she had threaten Dion years ago to burn down our home because she was mad at him for moving on with his life after her mother's death. She said this to him a few years ago, that she was thinking how she can burn down our home. So I'm trying to keep my family safe and no harm brought to them by this very unstabled child.

Father God, YOU know what it is going to take for this young child to see YOUR holy face and to hear YOUR holy voice dear Lord. She is going to be at the wrong place at the wrong time, surrounding herself with unsavory people, the same unsavory people whom condones this behavior of her's to leave her child behind, and to steal from her grandmother. Lord, open up Mary's eyes to see that she needs to give some tough love to this child or else who knows what Sheala would do next either to herself or to another person to get what she wants for her high. In JESUS' name I pray, Amen, Amen, Amen...

God bless family of God.