please pray for my new relationship to make it for the long term!

[tc7]

Please pray that my new relationship makes it through our first 'icky challenge' which happened Friday night (involving a moment of mistrust and insecurity on my part), and every other challenge that comes our way. My boyfriend, 'S' has backed right off and gone into his proctective cave. I've had no contact from him since Monday night. I stopped texting yesterday afternoon (Tuesday) to give him space etc. because he was not responding to my positive texts during the day. On the wkd I did my best to apologise and resolve the issue through healthy discussion, however he was not a keen participant. He knows that I love him and that I want to be in the relationship. I know he loves me because he told me twice on Sunday and first thing Monday morning. However, I know he feels afraid and does not know whether he wants to stay in the relationship or not now. For some reason he can't seem to handle 'issues' about us, or talk to me to resolve. Please pray that his fears are cast out, and replaced with courage and confidence in our relationship. I miss him and want him back. This silence is a killer and I'm suffering because of it. I feel rejected. He is a wonderful man even though he isn't great at communicating and resolving 'issues' about us yet. I have not experienced the silent treatment before and am not sure how to cope with it. All your prayers are appreciated. God Bless.

[Christian Commando]

Lord-

We pray, according to your Will, if this relationship is condoned by you, that you would see all things work out as you know best for this couple. In Jesus Name-Amen!!

[tc7]

Thank you Christian Commando for your prayer. I feel so low today, and I'm wondering if I'll ever have the relationship I desire.

[Christian Commando]

tc7-

Fear not. For God declares, if we put Him and living for and serving Him first, He will answer all our desires- "seek ye first the Kingdom of Heaven and all these things shall be added onto you."

Yes, it can be hard for us at times as we grow older, to stay focused on God and not let seeking a marriage partner become too focal. But, with God's help, this will be answered sooner, if we sacrifice all our wants, for His will totally.

Jesus did not sacrifice only a part of Himself for us, but all of himself. First He suffered physically thru beatings. Then when died, His Spirit went to Hell for 3 days and nights also, to suffer the weight of the sins of the world and all men, so when the Father raised Him, overcame the main obstacle keeping us seperated from the Father.

There is no reason we as His Children, cannot also sacrifice all we are and have, as Job had, for God then, in return as well, to see God Bless us with our desires appropriately, as Christ recieved Life everlasting transfigured as well, to be the "First Fruits" of the Ressurrection, to sit once again at the Right Hand of God in Heaven again.

God Bless!!

[JeriRose12]

He SAYS he loves you, but what do his actions say? Something to think and pray about.

God has the right guy for you -- unless He is calling you to be single. You don't have to accept less than His best or settle for someone just because he showed an interest.

Proceed with caution, that's what I advise.

With sincere love in Christ,

Jerena