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Posted by: piuku

Dear,Jesus thank you for the all good things that you have done our lives and please take all bonds of satan away from our family.I need you to pray to salvation for my boyfriend.I have asked this many times before and I am asking again untill he is saved by God.Take away bonds of drinking and lying and don't let him cheat me and please open his eyes so he could see the meaning of the married.Please let me marry him.And bless our son. and give me streght to pray for his salvation everyday and be in faith!!!I love you Jesus and I wann fallow you.And I don't wanna live in sin so that's why and cause I love my boyfriend I wanna marry him.

Thank you and amen.


Posted by: StarChilde

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Originally Posted by piuku
Dear,Jesus thank you for the all good things that you have done our lives and please take all bonds of satan away from our family.I need you to pray to salvation for my boyfriend.I have asked this many times before and I am asking again untill he is saved by God.Take away bonds of drinking and lying and don't let him cheat me and please open his eyes so he could see the meaning of the married.Please let me marry him.And bless our son. and give me streght to pray for his salvation everyday and be in faith!!!I love you Jesus and I wann fallow you.And I don't wanna live in sin so that's why and cause I love my boyfriend I wanna marry him.

Thank you and amen.
PIUKU...this may sound harsh but until your relationship is in line with God's will and God's word, there won't be a blessing on it for you are willingly and knowingly trangressing what you know is truth! The sin of fornication, sex outside of marriage, is a very serious offense...it will bar the way into heaven to anyone caught in it! And if you are Christian, and not married to him...you should not even marry him if he remains unsaved... we are not to be unequally yoked with nonbelievers.

, II Corinthians 6:14-18) 14. Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?
15. And what concord hath Christ with Belial? or what part hath he that believeth with an infidel?
16. And what agreement hath the temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple of the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be my people.
17. Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you.
18. And will be a Father unto you, and ye shall be my sons and daughters, saith the Lord Almighty.
and from THE MESSAGE the same passage:
2Co 6:14 Don't become partners with those who reject God. How can you make a partnership out of right and wrong? That's not partnership; that's war. Is light best friends with dark?
2Co 6:15 Does Christ go strolling with the Devil? Do trust and mistrust hold hands?
2Co 6:16 Who would think of setting up pagan idols in God's holy Temple? But that is exactly what we are, each of us a temple in whom God lives. God himself put it this way: "I'll live in them, move into them; I'll be their God and they'll be my people.
2Co 6:17 So leave the corruption and compromise; leave it for good," says God. "Don't link up with those who will pollute you. I want you all for myself.
2Co 6:18 I'll be a Father to you; you'll be sons and daughters to me." The Word of the Master, God.

1 COR. 6 15- 20) 15. Know ye not that your bodies are the members of Christ? shall I then take the members of Christ, and make them the members of an harlot? God forbid.
16. What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh.
17. But he that is joined unto the Lord is one spirit.
18. Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.
19. What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?
20. For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's.


I and from THE MESSAGE, the same passage...
1Co 6:15 Until that time, remember that your bodies are created with the same dignity as the Master's body. You wouldn't take the Master's body off to a whorehouse, would you? I should hope not.
1Co 6:16 There's more to sex than mere skin on skin. Sex is as much spiritual mystery as physical fact. As written in Scripture, "The two become one."
1Co 6:17 Since we want to become spiritually one with the Master, we must not pursue the kind of sex that avoids commitment and intimacy, leaving us more lonely than ever--the kind of sex that can never "become one." .
1Co 6:19 Or didn't you realize that your body is a sacred place, the place of the Holy Spirit? Don't you see that you can't live however you please, squandering what God paid such a high price for? The physical part of you is not some piece of property belonging to the spiritual part of you.
1Co 6:20 God owns the whole works. So let people see God in and through your body.

You bring sin into the Body of Christ as a believer who remains in sin... God cannot have this happening... we, as His children, the Body of Christ, are not to allow it either... harsh? It IS BIBLICAL.

I COR. 5-13) 5. To deliver such an one unto Satan for the destruction of the flesh, that the spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord Jesus.(THIS MEANS TO STOP FELLOWSHIPPING WITH THE PERSON FORNICATING, SO THAT SATAN MAY DEAL WITH THE PERSON, BETTER THAT HAPPENS, THEN THEY GO TO HELL FOR FORNICATION)
6. Your glorying is not good. Know ye not that a little leaven leaveneth the whole lump? ( A LITTLE SIN AFFECTS THE WHOLE CHURCH)
7. Purge out therefore the old leaven, that ye may be a new lump, as ye are unleavened. For even Christ our passover is sacrificed for us: (CLEAN OUT THE SIN FROM THE BODY AS GOD, KEEP PURE THE BODY OF CHRIST AS SHOULD BE)
8. Therefore let us keep the feast, not with old leaven, neither with the leaven of malice and wickedness; but with the unleavened bread of sincerity and truth.
9. I wrote unto you in an epistle not to company with fornicators:
10. Yet not altogether with the fornicators of this world, or with the covetous, or extortioners, or with idolaters; for then must ye needs go out of the world.
11. But now I have written unto you not to keep company, if any man that is called a brother be a fornicator, or covetous, or an idolater, or a railer, or a drunkard, or an extortioner; with such an one no not to eat.
12. For what have I to do to judge them also that are without? do not ye judge them that are within?
13. But them that are without God judgeth. Therefore put away from among yourselves that wicked person.
AND FROM THE MESSAGE:
1Co 5:5 Hold this man's conduct up to public scrutiny. Let him defend it if he can! But if he can't, then out with him! It will be totally devastating to him, of course, and embarrassing to you. But better devastation and embarrassment than damnation. You want him on his feet and forgiven before the Master on the Day of Judgment.
1Co 5:6 Your flip and callous arrogance in these things bothers me. You pass it off as a small thing, but it's anything but that. Yeast, too, is a "small thing," but it works its way through a whole batch of bread dough pretty fast.
1Co 5:7 So get rid of this "yeast." Our true identity is flat and plain, not puffed up with the wrong kind of ingredient. The Messiah, our Passover Lamb, has already been sacrificed for the Passover meal, and we are the Unraised Bread part of the Feast.
1Co 5:8 So let's live out our part in the Feast, not as raised bread swollen with the yeast of evil, but as flat bread--simple, genuine, unpretentious.
1Co 5:9 I wrote you in my earlier letter that you shouldn't make yourselves at home among the sexually promiscuous.
1Co 5:10 I didn't mean that you should have nothing at all to do with outsiders of that sort. Or with crooks, whether blue- or white-collar. Or with spiritual phonies, for that matter. You'd have to leave the world entirely to do that!
1Co 5:11 But I am saying that you shouldn't act as if everything is just fine when one of your Christian companions is promiscuous or crooked, is flip with God or rude to friends, gets drunk or becomes greedy and predatory. You can't just go along with this, treating it as acceptable behavior.
1Co 5:12 I'm not responsible for what the outsiders do, but don't we have some responsibility for those within our community of believers?
1Co 5:13 God decides on the outsiders, but we need to decide when our brothers and sisters are out of line and, if necessary, clean house. I do say this in a loving way... I don't want to see anyone who has accepted Christ as their Saviour going to hell for the sins that they are in...
Please.... pray about the whole situation, confess to God that you have sin, and then repent...meaning turn away from that sin...stop the sinning! ESPECIALLY the fornication... you are joining in one spirit with one who as satan as his father! Yes... all who are not God's children, are the children of the evil one.


Posted by: StarChilde

I pray that this relationship line up in accordance with what God sees as acceptable! If the bf has had faith before, was it in Christ Jesus? Do you know if he has been saved? If he has, then we can pray for God's Holy Spirit's power to convict him mightily with his straying and backsliding.
I understand you love your bf, I do... I understand that you want your child's father to be a part of your family.. I do understand that as well... understanding it does not make it right!
I am NOT condemning you... I am sticking to the Bible! If you think God has done good things for you already... He can do a WHOLE LOT MORE if you would just walk in obedience to Him! It says if we delight in Him, He will give us the desires of our heart! How can you pray to have the bonds of satan removed, if you are willingly walking in ways that are not Christian! Any ministry that would pray a blessing over your relationship as it is now... they are going to be accountable to God! They are not listening and obeying God!
I am guessing that this bf has lied, and drinks, and has cheated on you from your post... YOU DESERVE BETTER!!! YOU DESERVE a man who will love you like Christ Loves the church! THAT IS HOW A MAN IS SUPPOSE TO LOVE HIS WIFE! Does he honestly love you if he is cheating on you? Or does he know he will do whatever he wants and you will take him back? Sister, it is time to examine your own heart! It is time to decide who you are going to serve... who you are going to listen to... is it God, or is going to be your flesh? You want his eyes opened so he can see the meaning of being married.,..sister he does not even see the meaning of having a relationship period if he is cheating on you! Who knows what diseases he could be in contact with? Do you want the possibility of that in yourself? You are risking it!I cannot pray for him to marry you until he falls down on his knees, and asks God to forgive him, confesses his sins... knows Christ as His Saviour, and then asks you to forgive him for the creep he has been to you!
This is direct! YES IT IS! God has been leading me in this area... to not namby-pamby coddle someone who is not walking in God's will! HE WANTS PURENESS IN HIS CHURCH....IN THE BODY OF CHRIST! Is that so hard to understand?


Posted by: JC_FREAK

Hi piuku, I really don't mean to be harsh and maybe sound legalistic but do you think it is a good idea to be dating a guy who is unsaved, you have already made your feelings for him pretty clear that you really do like him and that you would like to marry him. Emotionally you are already unequally yolked and this is not what God wants for you sweetie. Maybe you should rethink a few things. Also I really feel that you deserve so much better than some guy who perhaps doesn't even love you and would prefer to cheat on you and is maybe just using you. I am sorry to sound harsh and I don't want to tell you what to do cause that is entirely up to you. I just want to share something with you. A friend of mine is a very strong christian and has been saved since the age of 6. She met a guy who was not saved, he professed to be but he wasn't. In the end, they fell in love and got married. The marriage went well for a while but eventually they ran out of things to talk aout as they were both very different. He didn't share her love for Christ. She then can home to see her grandad before he died and went back to her husband to find that he had packed his bags and left after changing the locks, taking the car. He had been having an affair and he left his my friend for his mistress. The problem here was that she got attached to him when they started going out. I feel that dating is the step before marriage, it isn't just to have a bit of fun, I feel that if you are going to go out with someone, you should see them as a possible husband or wife, this may sound extreme but do you understand my point. This is why I feel that the people, you should be dating should be Christians (if you are saved-this is a necessity as the bible says "do not be unequally yolked") Not only should they be saved-ie have their ticket to heaven and thats it. They should also have as much passion for God, more if they are male, girls we should be looking for guys who are stronger in their faith as he is the head of us in marriage. Really think about this before you start dating. Sorry if this seemed very judgemental, I really didn't mean it to be.

Heavenly Father, I lift up piuku to you and pray that you would should your will in this situation. Lord please help her with this. I pray Lord that you would save her bf, Lord humble him, take away his pride and convict him. Lord I pray that he would realise the error of his ways. Lord do you will in this situation. Father I lift up the child in this family and pray that you would surround him with your angels, protect him and blesss him. Lord I also pray that you would heal any wounds, pain, hurt in this family, fill the sores with your love, peace and joy Lord. I thank-you for what you have already been doing, I pray that you would finish that work. Amen