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Miserbly Married

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Posted by: Sean

Please pray for me. I am on the brink of going to an attorney to get a divorce from my wife. Ever since our baby she has turned into the worlds biggest nagger. She doesn't work but complains, gripes demeans me and calls me names.

I am at the end of my rope. I love her but I hate the complaining and nagging. The nagging is just nagging .. today's big blow up was because I raised the garage door open all the way to the top instead of stopping it half way. I cannot live with this constant nagging anymore.

I love my 3 year old with all my heart but I am growing to actually dislike my wife. I have asked for counseling and she gets more bitter. I literally am hoping she is having an affair so I can leave.

Please pray for me.

Sean


Posted by: Vicky42

Sean - First you need to ensure you are communicating with your spouse. There is a reason she is feeling this way. You should sit down and discuss the issues at hand. An attorney is NOT the answer. I am married to a man who refuses to discuss issues. He has now filed for a legal separation and it is tearing both myself and our 9 year old up. We are hurting. Satan is trying to destroy your marriage. Do whatever it takes to save the marriage. Suggest counseling if you feel it is needed. Remember the vows you made to one another.

Father, I come before you and I ask for you to heal this marriage. Father, please do not let this marriage fall apart like so many of our marriages. Father, open the lines of communication between these two spouses. Remind them of the vows they made before you. Father, I ask you to place your loving arms around this marriage. I thank you in the mighty name of Jesus. Amen


Posted by: JesusSweetJesus

Quote:
Originally Posted by Vicky42
Sean - First you need to ensure you are communicating with your spouse. There is a reason she is feeling this way. You should sit down and discuss the issues at hand. An attorney is NOT the answer. I am married to a man who refuses to discuss issues. He has now filed for a legal separation and it is tearing both myself and our 9 year old up. We are hurting. Satan is trying to destroy your marriage. Do whatever it takes to save the marriage. Suggest counseling if you feel it is needed. Remember the vows you made to one another.

Father, I come before you and I ask for you to heal this marriage. Father, please do not let this marriage fall apart like so many of our marriages. Father, open the lines of communication between these two spouses. Remind them of the vows they made before you. Father, I ask you to place your loving arms around this marriage. I thank you in the mighty name of Jesus. Amen


I come into agreement with vicky42. I pray Lord Jesus that you will open up the communication between Sean and his wife. Lord, from what Sean says he still loves his wife. This is very important LORD, keep it this way in his heart. LORD, send forth a pastor who will be able to help cousel them in their marriage, and not an attorney. This marriage is binded through your grace and love, so be it LORD. Help Sean's wife see how much her words are hurting her husband. Please LORD help this marriage to stay together and open all communications between this husband and wife. Especially, with YOUR LORD JESUS in the center of their marriage. In Jesus name I pray, Amen.


Posted by: Rachel R

Sean, you are to love her as Christ loved the Church and gave his life for it.

I'd get her a medical checkup.


Lord, bless this sweet family. Help Sean discover what his wife is trying to say.

Help his wife express herself clearly.

Thank you, Lord, for Sean and give him courage to set boundaries.

In Jesus' Name, Amen.


Posted by: garciadl2

Father,
I come in agreement with Vicki and Rachael for our brothers marriage and its salvation. Father give this brother the insight and wisdom to why his wife if so unhappy and complaining so much. Bring in their path one of your angels, a Doctor, counselor, minister, teacher, friend who will be able to bring about the physical and emotional healing that needs to occur. Father as head of the house my brother comes in asking for prayer for his marriage. Give him the tolerance and patience that is needed for this marriage to prosper. Give him supernatural insight to why and what is occuring with his wife. Help him to seperate his own hurtful and angry feelings so that he may minister to his wife. Bless him
Father for seeking your guidence. AMEN/
Donna.
PS I need to take my own prayer advice. sometimes it is easier to pray for others than for ourselves. Praying for you has lifted me up it was as it was a prayer for me too!


Posted by: Glory2God

FAther I come in agreement with my brothers and sisters for Sean and his marriage. Father, we bind the spirit of depression that has taken hold of Sean's wife. Father we know you can heal her of this ......also LOrd, we ask that you deal with the root of the matter from unresolved issues from her past that are surfacing now. We command that those things that were done in the dark will come to the light so that they can be dealt with. (This is coming from the LOrd, not me).

Also father, we pick up the seeds of Seans desire for her to be having an affair and we cast them into the fire so that no fruit will be born from those thoughts. Often we say things in anger or out of frustration not realizing that we set things in motion. Help him to repent of his desire for this in Jesus name and cast that idea into the fire.

Father we pray for your love and mercy in this marriage. We pray a shield around this marriage now in the name of Jesus. Thank you Lord for delivering Sean and his wife from the plot of the enemy. In Jesus name.

Amen.

AB


Posted by: provenance

[Please, Lord, help these two people see where their errors are toward one another and foster an understanding between them. Bless their marriage and their child. All of us who have stayed married have experienced this, Lord, and we pray that you will speak directly to these two people, separately and together, to help them save this marriage. Sean has submitted his desperate request, Lord. Please intervene before they both make terrible mistakes. Amen.


Posted by: Sean

Thak you Vicky for your prayers. Please think about me once in a while. I said a prayer for you too.

Sean
Quote:
Originally Posted by Vicky42
Sean - First you need to ensure you are communicating with your spouse. There is a reason she is feeling this way. You should sit down and discuss the issues at hand. An attorney is NOT the answer. I am married to a man who refuses to discuss issues. He has now filed for a legal separation and it is tearing both myself and our 9 year old up. We are hurting. Satan is trying to destroy your marriage. Do whatever it takes to save the marriage. Suggest counseling if you feel it is needed. Remember the vows you made to one another.

Father, I come before you and I ask for you to heal this marriage. Father, please do not let this marriage fall apart like so many of our marriages. Father, open the lines of communication between these two spouses. Remind them of the vows they made before you. Father, I ask you to place your loving arms around this marriage. I thank you in the mighty name of Jesus. Amen



Posted by: Sean

Somehow it is just nice to have a thought that someone is thinking about you.

- Sean

Quote:
Originally Posted by JesusSweetJesus
I come into agreement with vicky42. I pray Lord Jesus that you will open up the communication between Sean and his wife. Lord, from what Sean says he still loves his wife. This is very important LORD, keep it this way in his heart. LORD, send forth a pastor who will be able to help cousel them in their marriage, and not an attorney. This marriage is binded through your grace and love, so be it LORD. Help Sean's wife see how much her words are hurting her husband. Please LORD help this marriage to stay together and open all communications between this husband and wife. Especially, with YOUR LORD JESUS in the center of their marriage. In Jesus name I pray, Amen.



Posted by: Sean

I appreciate the kind words. I really do. Keep me in your thoughts.

-Sean

Quote:
Originally Posted by Rachel R
Sean, you are to love her as Christ loved the Church and gave his life for it.

I'd get her a medical checkup.


Lord, bless this sweet family. Help Sean discover what his wife is trying to say.

Help his wife express herself clearly.

Thank you, Lord, for Sean and give him courage to set boundaries.

In Jesus' Name, Amen.



Posted by: fifi37

Sean,

I will pray for you, and your wife. I know how it feels to be her, and I know what it cost me, but today, 5 months after my love left me, God has turned me into a new woman. Don't give up on her, but commit it to God. He wont let you down.

Fiona


Posted by: Lynn7

Father you said that a man who finds a wife finds a good thing. There are so many people who long for what Sean has been blessed with. Father I ask you to preserve Sean's marriage. I ask you to step in the mist and show them both the love that has brought them together. Remind them that love takes work. Show Sean what he can do as the husband to repair what he feels is broken. Show him that first he must work on himself and then allow God to work on his wife. God he is a good man because he is coming to you asking for you help. Grant him your mercy. You are able to answer in the blink of an eye. We know that all things work for the good for those who love the lord and he loves you Father. Heal his marriage in the name of Jesus. Thank you Father for it is already done. Amen


Posted by: mariposa

Heavenly Father,
I stand in agreement with all the other prayer warriors in asking for Sean's marriage to be healed. God, You gave this couple love for each other, please show them how to rediscover it. May the Holy Spirit open all doors to communication between Sean and his wife. Lord, if you think it's necessary, lead Sean and his wife to godly counselors who can give them Christian guidance on their marriage. Place angels around the little one who is caught in this mess--the one person who has no choice in the situation. Remove anything that is standing in the way of this couple having the loving, respectful marriage You intended. Father God, You who made the lame walk, blind see and Red Sea part can heal this marriage. May we soon hear a praise report in regards to this marriage. In Jesus' name I pray. Amen.


Posted by: JesusSweetJesus

Quote:
Originally Posted by Lynn7
Father you said that a man who finds a wife finds a good thing. There are so many people who long for what Sean has been blessed with. Father I ask you to preserve Sean's marriage. I ask you to step in the mist and show them both the love that has brought them together. Remind them that love takes work. Show Sean what he can do as the husband to repair what he feels is broken. Show him that first he must work on himself and then allow God to work on his wife. God he is a good man because he is coming to you asking for you help. Grant him your mercy. You are able to answer in the blink of an eye. We know that all things work for the good for those who love the lord and he loves you Father. Heal his marriage in the name of Jesus. Thank you Father for it is already done. Amen


Father God, please restore Sean's marriage. Help Sean to put his whole trust and faith in you Father God and asking that a miracle blessing will be upon him. May your will be done Father, and may you heal the pain and hurt of this marriage. Thank you Father for I know and trust you will bring Seans marriage back to reconciliation. In Jesus name I pray,
Amen.


Posted by: Yvette@Ivoryint.com

[Father God we come before you this morning in the precious Name of your Son Jesus, we ask father for all sins removed, cleanse us Father.
Father I come into agreement with many that are praying for Seans marriage to be restored. Father God we leave everything in your mighty hands, give the both of them the spirit of compassion for one another, what you have put together no one shall take apart.
I know you are able of mending what we cannot do ourselves, You are Awesome Father God, we give you all the praise and glory for you alone are worthy.
God Bless you Sean, keep the patience, God's got everything under control.


Posted by: manda

dear Lord Jesus in heaven, we come before You to lift up sean and his wife into Your loving and healing hands. Jesus You've seen what's going on between this couple o Lord. pour out Your abundant compassion and forgiveness between them and in them. send down Your Holy Spirit into Sean's heart calm his heart, spirit and mind in facing his wife. bind o Lord whatever unclean spirit in her with Your Holy Blood, wash her clean o Jesus and bind her heart, thoughts and tounge as well as mouth with Your Holy Blood. heal her o Lord and heal this marriage, bring peaceful and open communication and listening ears towards one another. guard their hearts, thoughts and tounges towards one another Jesus we pray. whatever stress, depression and mood swings in sean's wife o Lord due to nurturing the baby, wash them all clean and refresh her spirit and soul with Your loving touch and tender mercy. consume them with Your Holy Spirit from within and between them. strengthen, renew and bring abundant patience and wisdom to Sean's heart and thoughts in facing his wife. bring unity thru the power of Your Holy Spirit in their life and marriage Lord we pray. we entrust them in Your healing and protecting hands. thank you Father for hearing our prayers that we humbly say in the name of Jesus our Savior and Healer, amen.


Posted by: mothersheart

Sean, I am feeling the pain with you. I have been going through some hard issues with my husband of 26 years. (We have 5 Children) I have to confess there were moments when he threatened to leave me that I wanted him to go, so I wouldn't have to deal with the pain any more.

Deep in my heart I knew this was not Gods way; I was just tired of the pain. God has brought me to a place of reliance on his word and a hope for a turn around in my marriage.

I keep having this scripture stare me in the face: But to the rest I say, not the Lord, that if any brother has a wife who is an unbeliever, and she consents to live with him, he must not divorce her. And a woman who has an unbelieving husband, and he consents to live with her, she must not send her husband away. For the unbelieving husband is sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified through her believing husband; for otherwise your children are unclean, but now they are holy. Yet if the unbelieving one leaves, let him leave; the brother or the sister is not under bondage in such cases, but God has called us to peace. For how do you know, O wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, O husband, whether you will save your wife? I Cor 7:12-16

I know your pain, and I am not saying it is easy but with a daily reliance on God and his word we can do it.

I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.


Posted by: JesusSweetJesus

Quote:
Originally Posted by Yvett**Ivoryint.com
[Father God we come before you this morning in the precious Name of your Son Jesus, we ask father for all sins removed, cleanse us Father.
Father I come into agreement with many that are praying for Seans marriage to be restored. Father God we leave everything in your mighty hands, give the both of them the spirit of compassion for one another, what you have put together no one shall take apart.
I know you are able of mending what we cannot do ourselves, You are Awesome Father God, we give you all the praise and glory for you alone are worthy.
God Bless you Sean, keep the patience, God's got everything under control.



Thank You Lord, for I know that You are working on Sean's marriage and releasing all evil spirits that is trying to destroy their marriage. Thank Your Lord Jesus, for we trust and believe that if Sean's eyes are focused on You that all that is hurtful, unforgiving, and unloving in his marriage is will all come to pass, and YOU LORD will bring joy, peace, and everlasting happiness in his marriage that is being restored right now. In Jesus name I pray, Amen..


Posted by: Sean

I read all these posts for help one year ago I have been praying for a breakthrough for so long.

Now we are separated because we have not been able to reconcile.

I look back and see how miserable these last 2 years have been.

I wonder if this Divorce has been long in coming. Is God trying to give me the breakthrough I asked for?

I have come to realize why our marriage has so many problems and I have repented again and again for my part but my wife is so cold and brutal. It has drained me of my energy. Finally when I could handle it no more I asked to move out.

Now that I am out - I miss my daughter and my wife.

I was miserable in my marriage, now I am miserable outside of my marriage. I have asked god to forgive me for what I have done wrong in our marriage. I have forgiven my wife for the things she has done wrong.

I am so lost.


Posted by: Shadow

Go to church with her. Seek counseling and prayer.

May sound old, but a family that prays together stays together.

Divorce is not an option in God's eyes.

You're supposed to stay together for better or for worse, even if you're in misery.

Why? Because it will draw you closer to God if you do the right thing and pray for your family and turn to Him, no matter how long it takes, instead of turning to man by way of lawyers and court.

Sure, you can divorce and find a little happiness down the road.

But real happiness comes with God and sticking it out.

Remember your child also, and help him out too.

May God lead you, and my prayers are that you will go with His ways.


Posted by: Sean

Divorce is not something I want to do; but I am out of the house now and she won't see me.

I will continue to pray.


Posted by: Samuk

Hi Sean,

I've been through alot worse than this. My wife used to hit me and criticise me constantly - non-stop.

I had fights with her and have hated her guts while she has hated mine I'm sure.

NEVER GIVE UP. Does God give up on you? I know it must seem that way.

I pray that God makes you happy. I pray that you find such love and intimacy with Jesus that your life becomes enviable. Maybe your wife is jealous of you you STAR.

God bless
SAM