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Posted by: 2tired
please pray for me. i was hoping for a christmas miracle between the man i love. we had a relationship until i said no more sex. we have an aalmost three year old daughter. steve has a new (old) girlfriend and has told me not to communicate with him again. it is my 4th bad relationship. i am heartbroken and feel without value. ask god to heal me, vindicate me, help me. it hurts through every part of me. thanks.
Posted by: Teddybear68
I am praying for you sis.... If you need anything at all please know that I'm here for you anyitme day or night. God Bless You & I Love You!!
Posted by: hlaurenzano
Dear 2Tired:
I just did what you did about the "no-sex" thing. It is my third try in the same relationship. Before I would always bend my boundaries. This time I am staying strong because the Lord kept speaking to me when I continued in premarital relations. (The guy is a boyfriend I've had for about 8 months. He is saved, but isn't convicted in this area.) The Lord told me he has big plans for me. I also take solace in the fact that He knows the desires of my heart that I would like to get remarried someday.
Is the father of your baby a Christian?
It's tough, because he's the father of your baby. Does he visit her?
I assume he never asked you to marry him.
I say, good for you that you said no more sex. That really gets in the way of God working in our lives. It's a total distration away from His purpose. Not to mention, it's a sin that grieves the heart of God. I'll pray that God makes you strong in Him and that He'll show you that you made the right decision, and the reasons why your decision was right. He's doing that for me. Sometimes it gets lonely, but I just remember that I'm pleasing the Lord and that's all that really matters. What really matters in NOT myself or my flesh or my boyfriend or my boyfriend's flesh.
FYI: I have a 5-year-old daughter. Her father is my ex-husband.
FYI2: My boyfriend is being stand-offish with me now that I've said no more sex.
God bless you and your daugher. The Lord has big plans for you, too, and will bless you for taking this stand.
Posted by: pickone
Father, in the Name of Jesus I ask You to touch this one who is 2tired and heal her from this bad relationship. I ask that she be receptive to the teaching of Your Spirit and give her discernment to know what is Your will for her life. Bless her and keep her under Your eye, which sees all things and keep Your arm stretched out toward her in Jesus' Name.
Father, we ask that You bless her boyfriend to come to know more about Your ways and if he is the father of this child, let him learn to be responsible. We pray that whatever needs to happen to draw him to You, let it begin now in Jesus' Name. Thank You, Lord. Amen.
Posted by: 2tired
things have always seemed to go from bad to worse in my life. this was a man who was working at change when we met. our last conversation, last night, was full of hatefulness and threats. he isn't going to pay child support (he is a dr. and if i take him to court, he will take our daughter away from me. we went to see the passion and his response was "it's just a movie." we have been in relationship for six years and for about a year of that, he was my best friend. now i don't know what to do. i need to be free from the obsession. i need healing in my heart. i need god, but i cannot seem to find him. thank you for your support. he says he won't see sierra unless he can have his girlfriends around and he claims i got pregnant to ruin his marriage and trap him. he has never been faithful in his life, never been commited to anything, but he will tell you he is a good man. i feel like i am bleeding to death./LEFT]
Posted by: jms
It is a familiar story almost anywhere in the world, so much so, it becomes a familiar "sight". It is very sad that tears are shed for some one who doesn't deserve it. You might have made the mistake of giving in to the charm of a predator. But there is no point to regret. You have to be strong and go on living. You have a life to live and if you have learnt enough to detect predators, it can be a better life. Christain friends a praying for you. Don't envy him, or be jealous of him, because he is not having a raving good time as you may imagine. He is discontented with life, that is why he is unsettled. He is going to victimise some more trusting hearts. I think you are actually lucky to be free from him. Take good care of your innocent child and make new quality friends. Get back to those who are praying for you here. True Christains are good people. They can be your new quality friends. Don't let your emotional stress forments inside you - talk to friends to feel better. All the best.