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Posted by: Randy_40

Hi my name is Randy, I am in need of a miracle. I wish to reconsile my marriage to Heather and need prayer for this. Over the last several onths she and I have become very good friends, buddies. I have helped her in everyway she has needed, money, taking care of her when she was sick, watching her girls when she had to work or just needed time. But I can't take it anymore. So I told her to stop calling me when she is upset and the bills need paid, or when she is crying and needs a shoulder to cry on. I told her it hurt me to much to be in that she is in love with someone else. I am ready to give up, I prayed about this for so long and I felt like god was telling me to be there for her and the girls. All I know now is that I can't do it any more. This is my second divorce and I don't know it I can take this. I have lost everything. Even the ability to support myself. Shortly after Heather and I met she decided she wanted to go back to college, and I supported her decision 100%. we were married in July and moved to OKlahoma in Aug so she could go to school there, I gave up a great job and my kids from my first marriage to support her and help fulfill her dreams, while in Oklahoma I crushed the last disc in my back while working, I have had three surgeries and my pain is worse now than before. 3 months after she graduated she left me. I try not to thik that all she did was use me but alot of my friends seem to think so, I and just so confused, and with the finances being the way they are I just want to kill myself.


Posted by: akabezalel

Suicide is not an answer. Stop feeling sorry for yourself, there are ALWAYS possibilities! This is a great time to start a new career! Go back to school! Find reasons to live! Go hug a puppy! Go purr a cat! Pray for Heather and her girls and your children... for them, not about them. Speak GOOD things over them! Have a conversation with Jesus! Give your family to God and leave them in HIS lap!

Father, please give Randy the wisdom to know what to do about his relationship with Heather. Father I ask for Heather's Salvation and Randy's also. Holy Spirit, I release them to You to that purpose. In the Name of Jesus, AMEN!


Posted by: punkysmom4

I will pray for you, Randy. You are right to give up on the situation, but only in the sense that you should "give up" on it because you have given it to God and you are letting him have complete control over it. There is a reason you are going through this trial, ask God to reveal that reason to you. I don't know all of the specifics, but I can't help but be bothered by your comment that you gave up your children from your first marriage. That is not for me to judge, but you are responsible to them before you are responsible to your step-children. If you are hurting as much from the pain of rejection as you say you are, think of how your children are feeling. I honestly am in no way judging you, and I am sorry if it sounds that way....please forgive me if it does. I guess it's just because I am raising my child as a "single parent" while my husband "finds himself", and I see how much pain my child goes through. Children are very resilient by nature, but does not mean that they don't feel the pain and hurt of when their father, one of, if not the, most important person in their life, decides they no longer want them.

Please, dear heavenly Father, make yourself known to Randy and in his life. Shower him in truth, mercy, love and forgiveness. Show him YOUR will for his life and lead him down the path of your choosing. Bring Godly counsel across his path to minister to him and let him find peace and tranquility in his life. Please heal him physically as well as emotionally. You are the only one who knows the specifics of his situation, but YOU are all he needs. I thank you and praise you in Jesus name. Amen.

Peace and God be with you, Randy! Teresa


Posted by: Randy_40

Thanks for your support


Posted by: hlb1109

Randy,
Trust in God to solve this. He will take care of all of your needs and worries. I will pray that God helps Heather, and if in his will he shall reconcile your relationship. I pray that he gives you stregnth to get through this. I pray this in Jesus name Amen


Posted by: Nessa

Randy, years ago, I too was left by the man I loved. Seemingly a man of the church, he deceived me mightily, and I was very, very naive. I, too, wanted to kill myself. Then another man came, in a not so nice manner, and found out about it, and do you know what this not so nice man did? He turned to me and said "I know My Plans for you, plans for hope, for a future, for peace." Jeremiah 29:11. And then he continued: "you did not ask to be on this earth, but you are, you've no right to take yourself out of it or design a plan which eliminates you because it isn't about you, it's about Him."
Thank the Lord for that man. Now I am with (7 years later, a year of personal jubilee) a man who loves me, who is humble before the Lord (I watched him bow and be annointed prior to going to Iraq, who respects me and does not use me. He is rough around the edges and, while a believer, admits he needs prayer and work. The exact opposite of the other, but everything I ever desired.
Now, I am a "nice" woman but I say to you "The Lord knows His Plan for Randy, plans for Randy's hope, for a future, and for peace." Dwell therein Randy, seeking renewal and regeneration.

Lord, bless Randy, lift him up with a blessings that are new every morning, bring him a friend whom he can trust. In Jesus Name. Amen.


Posted by: FriendOfGod

O dear gracious God, please step in mightly with your fist. Please give this man wisdom on what he should do. Give him the strength to get through this. Help him to do the righ thing. Have your way in this relationship. In Jesus name I pray, Amen.


Posted by: MarkSentMe

Randy, I do not want you to kill yourself and neither does God.
Things are hard now and I cannot guarantee that they won't be in the future. As someone who once held a loaded gun to my head only to have God reach down and cause the slide to jam as I pulled the trigger, God has bigger, BETTER plans for you than to turn you to dust! This marriage may not have been the answer. Maybe, just maybe, God is trying to tell you that your children need you. You have left unfinished business and you have left your children. A check in the mail is no substitute for a Dad. You may not be able to reconcile with Heather, BUT you CAN reconcile with God. It is never too late for that. I feel in my heart that if you reconcile with God, everything will fall into place and be renewed. Go in peace and be blessed! I am praying for you.
Sharyn