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Please pray for the restoration of my marriage and family.

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Posted by: moderndayfreak

Please pray for my marriage. Me and my wife have been separated for a month 1/2. I am hurting big time. I have been crying out to the lord to please restore my marriage. I don't know why this is happening to me. I am hurting. I have cried so much that I can't cry out anymore tears. I don't know where she is staying at nor where my children is staying at.

I have been seeking Gods face even when she was living with me. I was serving the lord, she didnt want to. When I would come home from work, she would leave to go out with her friends. It would hurt me because I wanted to be with my wife. She wouldn't come home until 3- 4 in the morning. I conitinously lifted up my wife and marriage to the lord and did everything that I could possibly do to save my marriage. My wife is very beutiful, and she knows that she can get whoever she wants, which is why she is th eway she is. We have been with each other for almost 6 years. Our wedding anniversary was on the 5th of Feb, which made us being married for a total of 5 years. In my heart I feel that my wife is with someone else. This is like the 8th or 9th time my wife left me since we been with each other. I totally dedicated and devoted myself and my life to her. It would hurt because I had to beg and cry to my wife just to hold her in my arms or hug her. I had to also cry to her to be intimate with her which if I was lucky it would be once every 4 months. Its embarrassing to share this with you, but I am hurting bro. I want my marriage to work. I want the lord to use us as a married couple and pray that he is preparing a special ministry for us, if thats his will. The only way I am able to talk to her is if she calls me which is rare, and normally falls on a monday. I know that she is currently not working, so it's possible that someone is taking care of her. Shes basically doing what she was doing with me when she was living with me. Is it not Gods will to restore marriages and broken relationships? I go to "Church on the Way" in Van Nuys with Pastor Jack Hayford. I talked with him and the asst. pastor last Sat night and they told me that God gave us our own free will. But that we can pray that God will break her will and for the Lord to let go of his hand of protection off from her so she can wake up. I hate going home after work, because the apt where I stay at is so quiet and lonley. I am always constantly in prayer lifting my marriage, my wife and children up to the father. I am not asking from him for riches, or money, etc. I am just asking the Lord to restore my family unto me. I don't want my wife to be with another man or woman. It's nor right, it's not fair. I gave my whole heart to her. I devoted myself to her. She betrayed me. I love her. I love my wife with all my heart and soul.

I just got off the phone with her as I was writing this email to you. She finally called me. I told her that I loved her and missed her. I asked her to come home and she told me that's not going to happen. She just called wanting more money. She sounds like a different person. I know that the people that she is staying with are influencing her. She has no intentions in wanting to work out our marriage. She also mentioned that she's going to hang out with whoever she wants to, including her gay friends. I asked her if there was a possiblity of us getting back together, she said that she didnt know. It hurts me bro because I don't know if my wife is bisexual and even if she was she would never tell me. I am going through some crazy trials and some crazy emotions. Can you please lift me, my wife, my 2 children- Lil Farita and lil JoJo, my marriage and family up in prayer? By the way that it look like- my wife has no intentions in changing or wanting our marriage to work out. She's not willing in letting me know where she and the babies are staying at nor wants to see me. Can the Lord change her heart? I dont want my marriage to end up in divorce nor want to be seperated from my wife. It hurts bro- I cant sleep nor eat and I am so lonely without her. The problem with my marriage is that she no longer wants to be committed. She wants to hang out with her friends and party, etc. I asked her to come home. She started mentioning that she has no money, no bed to sleep in and that my babies needs clothes. This angers me because she has everything that she needs at the our apt. All she needs to do is to go home.After awhile she started to gbet frustrated and eventually let me go. The last thing that I wanted to do was for her to start getting irratated and wanting to let me go. I want her to to want to call me, but she always ends up getting frustrated. I just pray that God will change her heart. That he will open her eyes and bring her back home. I asked her to at least if I can see her and take her out or at least lets see each other at church. She doesnt want to go to church nor serve God. What do I do? DO I keep on fighting the good fight by believing and professing that the Lord wil bring me back my wife and restore my marriage? Do you think that a month 1/2 is a long time to be seperated? I get upset because she also mentioned to me on the phone that I can have my kids this weekend, only because its convient for her because she wants to party and go out this weekend with her friends. Please pray that the Lord will heal my heart. To take the pain away. I totally give her to the Lord. What hearts me is that I used to cry to my wife to be with her only to be rejected by her, but knowing that she is giving herself freely to someone else. I'm hurting bro big time. Please keep me in your prayers. I pray that the Lord will restore my marriage and bring my wife back home. I have 2 babies now. A son thats 3 years and a lil girl thats 5 years. God can change her? God can wake her up right?

Also please pray that the Lord will move in my life with my calling for him. I am a musician. That's how I met my wife. I was jammin in the Hollywood area and my wife and her friends used to come see us. I just pray that God will use me to reach out to a hurting world and that his will be done in my life. I am praying that once I keep my eyes focused on the Lord and start doing my calling for him that he will bring my wife back. Maybe its my fault for letting her knwo how much I care and love her. I dont know. It just hurts being seperated from y family. When I first met my wife I knew that she was my wife. I didnt even know her. When I seen her I felt it in my heart and knew that she was my wife. I didnt know how things were going to fall into place, but just knew. Me and my wife was on the streets for about a year living in different hotels. At that time I was making chump change only enough to pay for the next week to pay for the motel. We come along way. I know times change and so does people, but I know God doesnt. I could keep on going on forever. Can you continously lift me and my situation up in prayer?


God Bless,

Your friend and brother in Christ,

Joseph Valdez

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Posted by: cgirl

Thank you Jesus. We love you Lord. We ask in agreement for this marriage to be restored. We rebuke and bind this rebellion and party spirit from off of her. We pray a hedge of protection around her and the kids. Lord, draw her to you. Holy Spirit, tug at her heart strings and bring her into the kingdom. We plead the blood of Jesus on behalf of this family in Jesus name. Lord, raise this woman up to be a woman of God. Let her submit to her husband. Let her see how blessed she is with this family. Lord, bring her to her senses. We loose restoration, healing, forgiveness and unity with love to take it's place in Jesus name, amen and amen.

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Posted by: Theophilus

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Originally Posted by cgirl
Thank you Jesus. We love you Lord. We ask in agreement for this marriage to be restored. We rebuke and bind this rebellion and party spirit from off of her. We pray a hedge of protection around her and the kids. Lord, draw her to you. Holy Spirit, tug at her heart strings and bring her into the kingdom. We plead the blood of Jesus on behalf of this family in Jesus name. Lord, raise this woman up to be a woman of God. Let her submit to her husband. Let her see how blessed she is with this family. Lord, bring her to her senses. We loose restoration, healing, forgiveness and unity with love to take it's place in Jesus name, amen and amen.

http://www.annointed.net/Community/...read.php?t=5153


Amen!
i will most certainly pray for you and your wife and children. perhaps you may take comfort in an example from the Bible. the prophet Hosea married a prostitute and he loved her. but she left him to commit her many adulteries. God restored that marriage. he can restore yours.
God bless,
theophilus


Posted by: moderndayfreak

Thank you for your prayers. I talked with my wife this morning, she has no intentions in wanting to make our marriag work. Everytime I talk with her on the phone she becomes more and more disrepectful and told me that she longer wants to talk to me. I have my children so thank the Lord but I dont see how the Lord can restore my marriage with my wife already living with this woman and has no intentions in wanting to make our marraige work. WHat hurts me even more is that whenever I ask my children if thery want to see there mommy or talk to her on the phone, they tell me that they dont want to. I try talking my daughter into it but she starts throwing a fit telling me that she doesnt want to. This really trips me out. But I thank the Lord that my babies always tell me that they want to live with me and that they want to "hurry" and get a new home so mommy cant find them and take them away. For a 5 year old and 3 year old to tell me this, I trip out on it. I dont want to take my babies away from there mom, becasue I want there mom to be with us to, but I definitley wanted to take them away from that household and that lifestyle which I did, and it doesnt bother me in how much my wife curses me out or disrespects me becasue I took my babies away. I just asked her that if she loved my children as much as she professes then she better back them up when she goes to court. Becasue if she backs up that girl instead of my babies about that girl touching my daughter, then I wont know what to do other than to keep moving forward with my children.


Posted by: Deacy

Joseph, What beautiful family pictures you submitted! I just want to let you know I understand fully what the pain and frustration of being separated from your spouse is like. I'm a new member to this site as of last Saturday (thread listed under "My Marriage.")--Please know you, your wife, Farah and little children will be in my prayers. Not just tonight, but after tonight as well. I'm praying for the complete restoration and healing of your marriage. That the Lord through His precious Son, Jesus Christ will renew your wife's heart, mind and spirit immediately.

I rebuke the devourer and other evil entities that have come in and pushed your wife away from you. I pray that God's tender mercy and grace will be upon you and your children and that the demon of homosexuality, bisexuality and rebellion will flee from your wife immediately in the name of Jesus Christ. I pray that God will form a hedge around your wife so strong that NO evil can enter in nor get out! I pray that our Heavenly Father will anoint Farah's eyes right now so she may see clearly his divine will for her life and so she may also recognize the true love and commitment you have for her and your children.

I pray that God will also put truly spiritual, anointed people in Farah's path right now, no matter where she is and that God will touch her and bless her to be willing and open to reconciling with you. I pray that what the devil has tried to steal and use for evil against you, that God through Jesus Christ will turn it around and use it for good. The complete and total restoration of your marriage! Please keep yourself occupied with your own personal interests to take your mind off of the waiting. Just keep praying for it states in Holy Scripture that God is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him!

A good book and website I was led to in the early stage of my husband's separation from me are "Divorce Remedy," written by Michelle Weiner-Davis and her website is www.divorcebusters.com--You can get free advice & tips on the website that are proven to help even the most difficult situation. They even have testimonials and an actual telephone number you can call if you want personal assistance from a licensed Counselor. The advice given from what I've read is "faith-based" and gives different step by step accounts of what other couples, who were on the verge of divorce did. It's pretty interesting. Even if only one person seems interested in keeping the marriage, the tips given going by other couples' accounts, have helped them a great deal. In the meantime, keep praying, keep believing and keep knowing in your heart that God does hear and answers prayer.

In Christian Love,

Deacy