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God..Please help!

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Posted by: JGailey

Brothers and Sisters in Christ,
Pray with me. I have sooo screwed up. Satan has come into my life and marriage. I turned away from my Lord and my marriage and fell into the evils of phone sex and tempted by phone datelines. I made a date to meet another woman and God intervened before I met her and had her 'tell' my wife that I was scum and had her listen to some very distasteful messages I had left her. My wife was crushed. This has destroyed my marriage and her trust. She is preparing to buy a house and move with my 3 children without me but has no problem with me also moving into the neighborhood by myself to help with the kids.. The first house she wanted was sold before her offer was made. We are communicating and I am seeking GOD and GOD's healing for my demons. She says she still loves and has forgiven me BUT could NEVER stay married. I hurt to my soul.

I pray God will give you insight and wisdom into my situation. Please advise me where you see the Holy Spirit leading you to. You may email me.

Let's Pray:
Lord,
I pray that YOU would give Kristin Gailey the ability to trust me again in all things. Most of all, I want her to trust Your Holy Spirit working in me and through me. Where I have not been worthy of trust and violated it, show me, and I will confess that before you as sin. HELP ME to not conduct myself that way anymore. Make me always be worthy of her trust. SHOW ME HOW to convince her that I am in partnership with YOU and will do all I can to be trustworthy. Help me to be the kind of spiritial leader in our home and family that YOU want me to be. Heal my marriage in YOUR glory and return me to my place in our home! You are our GOD, and in YOU will we trust!
In Lord Jesus Christ mighty name we pray!
Amen




Posted by: FriendOfGod

My heart is with you, dear o­ne. I believe if you are truly repentant, the good Lord by his grace will mercifully give you another chance. It really looks as if you have truefully learned your lesson. It may take your wife time to heal, but I believe if you stand firm and keep asking in faith, putting God first, committing to have God as the foundation of your marriage, putting her needs first etc., the good Lord will annoint your wife's heart with the fruits of the Holy Spirit, so she will do her part and welcome you back into her heart, life, and home. Put it in the Lord's hands, o­nce you have prayed earnestly in faith. It is now his battle. I have read many stories about 360 degree turnrounds in marriages because one or both partners trusted the Lord to heal their marriage. You will also need to be patient. It will take time. God will heal your marriage in his good timing in accordance with his will.  

Oh Lord Jesus, work a miracle in this precious marriage. Oh God, you are a God of miracles. This dear man has truefully repented of his sins. Jesus, you died o­n the cross for him and for these sins. I trust you oh dear Lord that you mightly and mercifully intervene in this marriage. Touch her heart O God. Fill it with love, peace and forgiveness. Give your dear son the strength and wisdom to do his part to reconcile with his wife. Oh gracious Lord, heal their marriage and bring them back together, so that they may be in each other's loving arms again and working together as partners in Christ to serve you. In the mighty name of Jesus . Amen.  


Posted by: sewart

Your wife has been through alot. You have to give her some time. My heart goes out to you though, for your honesty and your desire to get right with God, he will bless you for that.