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Pray for Gods will

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Posted by: Deanne

I am in need of knowing Gods will in my life. My husband left me the day after Christmas. Our marriage was so miserable I prayed he would leave. Leaving has become a game to him. He left me 2 years ago for another woman we even got a divorce but as soon as the woman left him he said he loved me and wanted to come home so I took him back. We remarried and this time he was so distant and cold he made the marriage unbearable. I finally asked him if he was ever going to talk to me or continue acting like we weren't living under the same roof. He said he didn't love me and he said that he never loved me the whole time he remarried me and as soon as Christmas was over he was going to leave me. He packed up and moved out the day after Christmas. Since this seperation I have been seeing someone else actually it is the same man I starting seeing the first time he left me. Since this seperation we also signed papers on a malpractice settlement for our daughter. Since I have custody of our daughter our attorney made him sign any rights he had to this settlement over to me. Last night late he called me and told me that he doesn't want this divorce and he wants to come home. The truth is I don't trust him and I do think he will leave again. On the other hand I want Gods will in my life more than anything else. We are supposed to meet today at 1:00. Please I beg you help me pray for the Lords direction and will in this situation. Thank you !! Deanne


Posted by: mastenjulie

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Originally Posted by Deanne
I am in need of knowing Gods will in my life. My husband left me the day after Christmas. Our marriage was so miserable I prayed he would leave. Leaving has become a game to him. He left me 2 years ago for another woman we even got a divorce but as soon as the woman left him he said he loved me and wanted to come home so I took him back. We remarried and this time he was so distant and cold he made the marriage unbearable. I finally asked him if he was ever going to talk to me or continue acting like we weren't living under the same roof. He said he didn't love me and he said that he never loved me the whole time he remarried me and as soon as Christmas was over he was going to leave me. He packed up and moved out the day after Christmas. Since this seperation I have been seeing someone else actually it is the same man I starting seeing the first time he left me. Since this seperation we also signed papers on a malpractice settlement for our daughter. Since I have custody of our daughter our attorney made him sign any rights he had to this settlement over to me. Last night late he called me and told me that he doesn't want this divorce and he wants to come home. The truth is I don't trust him and I do think he will leave again. On the other hand I want Gods will in my life more than anything else. We are supposed to meet today at 1:00. Please I beg you help me pray for the Lords direction and will in this situation. Thank you !! Deanne




Deanne

Father In the Name of Jesus- I ask that you reveal you perfect way to Deanne and that she will lay all her emotions to your feet. Father let you glory fall upon her so she can hear what your saying according to your word to trust and obey you and seek you first and to love you with all her heart. In the Name of Jesus I come against the spirit of confusion I bind you up now. Lord I ask you bring a dryness in both them and bring them to there knees so they can truly see your perfect will. Father bring a healing to this family in mightly way I ask in Jesus Name. Also Father show her your wisdom when she see him today that her hearing is clear and your way is life. Let her see the the old patterns of bondage. In Jesus Name.


Posted by: christythompson

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Originally Posted by Deanne
I am in need of knowing Gods will in my life. My husband left me the day after Christmas. Our marriage was so miserable I prayed he would leave. Leaving has become a game to him. He left me 2 years ago for another woman we even got a divorce but as soon as the woman left him he said he loved me and wanted to come home so I took him back. We remarried and this time he was so distant and cold he made the marriage unbearable. I finally asked him if he was ever going to talk to me or continue acting like we weren't living under the same roof. He said he didn't love me and he said that he never loved me the whole time he remarried me and as soon as Christmas was over he was going to leave me. He packed up and moved out the day after Christmas. Since this seperation I have been seeing someone else actually it is the same man I starting seeing the first time he left me. Since this seperation we also signed papers on a malpractice settlement for our daughter. Since I have custody of our daughter our attorney made him sign any rights he had to this settlement over to me. Last night late he called me and told me that he doesn't want this divorce and he wants to come home. The truth is I don't trust him and I do think he will leave again. On the other hand I want Gods will in my life more than anything else. We are supposed to meet today at 1:00. Please I beg you help me pray for the Lords direction and will in this situation. Thank you !! Deanne

Lord help this sister to keep her dignity, not to be used like a rug. Father help them to seek counseling and after trust is built to come together again. She is not a temporary hotel stay that he can come in and out of at will. I pray for his salvation that he might submit to you Amen
There are those who think you need to submit "no matter what" to him. I don't know any scripture supporting this no matter what claim. I do believe in submission but not like this. I do think Focus on the family, James Dobson is correct in his Love must be Tough book is right. The ultimate goal is to repair the family. Letting him come and go and abuse you while he is home does not repair the family. He can't be allowed to damage the family with his self centered comings and goings. My sister insisted her husband go to counseling and give his life to the Lord for their marriage. He did. If its God's will you be together, he can wait to come home until after counseling. You need healing of your marriage with help and if he doesn't intend that. I wouldn't let him back. That may be the wakeup call for his bad behavior. Right now he has no incentives to change. Put him in God's hands as you stand for your values. God will work this out. Bless You