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too lonely and sad,coz I cant marry(physical disorder)

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Posted by: alivebutdead

Dear friends,
Im a man whose a strong believer in Jesus and a true born again christian but a physical disorder prevents me from getting married.Ive never been involved in a relationship with a woman all my life.The only relationship I have is with Jesus and he has really helped me a lot but im sure that he will and can heal my physical disorder which prevents me from getting married.bcoz,he said"aske,seek,knock and the door will b opened.Believe me when I say that im the most loneliest and love starved person in the world and it really really really hurts.Many of u may say that Jesus is all u need and I agree,but didnt God make Eve for Adam and dont I deserve my wife.Please pray 4 me,that God will heal me and restore my happyness and joy.Ive never even touched a woman,(4get about asking her 4 marriage,bcoz of my physical disorder).If any of u would intercede 4 my healing,God would bless u abundantly.
Love,
Anonymous lonely ,sad man


Posted by: alexx

Dear Alive...i Dont Know What Your Disorder Is But Whatever It Is It Shouldnt Keep You From Having A Wife....honey There Is Someone Out There That Is Female That May Think That She Can Never Have A Husband Either....the World Is Full Of Lonely People And Our Father Knows Where Each One Of Them Is........father...lord Please Search Your People For Someone Who Needs This Man As Much As He Needs Them...lord Bring Her Into His Life...just Like You Gave Eve To Adam...so That He May Be Happy And Father I Just Pray For This Mans Disorder To Be Healed If It Is You Will...lord Give Him His Hearts Desire..i Ask All This In The Name Of Jesus...amen


Posted by: joy4

Father,
In your Mighty Name I pray that you will give this brother comfort. His heart is aching for compaionship. Bring someone into his life, Lord, that will fill this need. As he has dedicated his life to you , I ask that you would take away the pain in his heart and replace it with JOY.
Thank you , Father , for the sweet sister in Christ you have already prepared for him.


I will continue to hold you up in prayer. I really feel that the Lord does have some very special things in store for you .
God Bless


Posted by: gemmy

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Posted by: JeriRose12

It's good you "never touched a woman." I have never touched a man, either. I don't have a physical disorder that would keep me from marrying, but I am single. I am not the most lonliest person alive because of this. Well, I did have a relationship, sort of, but we never touched. He was not the right person for me, so I am glad we never got serious or stopped it as it was about to get serious. God has preserved you, so you didn't get mixed up with the wrong person. Take heart! You can be single and happy. Even though I feel there is someone out there for me and have no idea where he is, I am not sad about this to the point of "the most lonliest person alive." So, I just wanted to encourage you with that. People get upset with me for saying Jesus is all you need . I know it can sound pat, but He REALLY HAS become everything to me. I am not being fake and it's not wishful thinking. I KNOW no-one can satisfy like Jesus can. He is so dear and special to me, I can not even begin to explain....

I also know He created Eve for Adam. So I am not glossing over the need you feel. I used to so desparately want to be married, and, now, well, I do feel the desire, but it's not all consuming like it was for a while. Anyway, I pray that God will uphold you and heal you. But when you do get in a relationship, I pray you can realize that NO PERSON can do it for you. If Jesus is not YOUR ALL, marriage can't work. Too many people end up draining their mates emotionally (I have seen it first hand in my family), because they want their mate to do things for them that only God can.

Because I am single and univolved in a relationship, I felt to share with you. But I know in your pain, it may be hard to really hear anything I'm saying. So many people accuse me of not understanding. From one single to another, I am trying to encourage you out of my own experience and testimony. I am 42, and I have only "dated" one man (like I said we stopped before it got serious). I just wanted you to know it really is possible to be single and happy.

Lord, I pray that You will bring him the EMOTIONAL healing he needs! Fill up every empty place in him with You! Oh, Lord, You are so wonderfu, and I pray he can know You as his all. Lord, I am so thankful for how You have helped him. I remember those times when I got so focused on wanting a husband, that I forgot You and Your goodness. Lord, it's hard being single. And especially, in his case, when he feels no woman would ever marry him or he can't marry. At least, I can think that when I find "the right guy" I can marry. Lord, I pray that You will shower him with Your love and grace EVERY MINUTE. I pray this intense desire for a woman will become, day by day, less as he focuses on You. Teach him how to keep his mind stayed on You, that he may be in peace.

Lord God, I pray for physical healing. But until he is ready to handle the physical healing, please heal him mentally, emotioanlly and spritiually. I pray he is totatlly integrated, not just suddenly physically well, and not sure how to proceed. He is so desparate for a woman, and I think he needs much healing in his mental, emotional and spiritual being first, so he proceeds wisely in relaitonships. You know what needs to happen, Lord, and I pray that You work on the ENTIRE person of him. Lord, I pray You cause him to understand what I mean by being totally healed. Make all things plain to him, and let him feel Your healing touch upon Him from this day forward. In Jesus Name and for Your Glory, Father, I ask it, amen.

~JeriRose~
Seeking YOUR Glory in 2004


Posted by: HEHEARS

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Originally Posted by alivebutdead
Dear friends,
Im a man whose a strong believer in Jesus and a true born again christian but a physical disorder prevents me from getting married.Ive never been involved in a relationship with a woman all my life.The only relationship I have is with Jesus and he has really helped me a lot but im sure that he will and can heal my physical disorder which prevents me from getting married.bcoz,he said"aske,seek,knock and the door will b opened.Believe me when I say that im the most loneliest and love starved person in the world and it really really really hurts.Many of u may say that Jesus is all u need and I agree,but didnt God make Eve for Adam and dont I deserve my wife.Please pray 4 me,that God will heal me and restore my happyness and joy.Ive never even touched a woman,(4get about asking her 4 marriage,bcoz of my physical disorder).If any of u would intercede 4 my healing,God would bless u abundantly.
Love,
Anonymous lonely ,sad man


I'm deeply sorry to hear of your delemma and as I read I could and can feel your burden I'm here to tell you that I'm gonna intercede for you and put you in my daily prayer journal also. Know one thing as I'm sure you have heard before, Jesus took that infirmity on the Cross and you by faith can hang that old thing up on that cross where it belongs, Please for my sake(I need you strong and encouraged) stop calling it your infirmity and start calling it the Lords. Isaiah 53:4-5 and 1st Peter 2:24 say that the Lord Jesus took that with the beating he took, by His stripes you are healed. I have heard many testimonies about God healing people miraculously and Jesus is the same yesterday today and forever. Years ago I layed my hands on a 5 year old boy who had a hernia from birth and The lord told his mother through a prophesy that she would bring him in the next day for an operation and they would cut him open and they would not find the hernia, well the proof is in the pudding Amen a few days later I got the report and it did happen! The xrays showed a hernia but when they went in it was gone!! I have seen God bring people up from death beds and out of comas, my fatherinlaw is one God raised up out of a coma and a ruptured aorta causing seven strokes in his brain. The LORD spoke to me in the middle of his operation and told me he would not die. I confessed Psalm 117:18 over his life and in weeks he arose out of a coma and a 1%survival rate of his injury and weeks after that he was walking and just weeks after that he was at home and the next summer he was back to gardening and went on to live to see two beautiful grandchildren.Search the bible for scriptures on healing and meditate on them, memorize them talk them confess them recieve them. remember God is not a respecter of persons, what he does for others he will do for you. I'll be praying daily for you.

Father In Jesus name I pray that you would encourage my brother in his faith Lord give him a revelation of your healing power for his life in the cross show him and lead him in the scriptures to those promises that apply, Increase his Faith yes Father Grant my dear brother mustardseed faith in you to recieve. Father I pray a supernatural gift of faith you would instill in his heart to get the job done. Help him Lord to change the confession to faith filled words and belief in your promise. Lift him out of sadness and pour your sweet joy into his heart let him find contentment in you in whatever condition he is in AMEN