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Posted by: ANOINTED WARRIOR

This will be for the guys who are married even though I am not married but this should help the guys who are married. Plus to help those who are single for when they get a wife.. This way we have both sides

So have at it ladies what do you want from a guy in marriage concerning your needs and how he responds to you and does things with you?

Here is the link Guys where you can go post about things for your wife


Posted by: sandpet


I have always wanted to be Cinderella, Since I was a child...And I have never gave Up on that dream, even though "satan" has tried so many many times to destroy it along with me....

People laughed at me and made fun of my child like faith...But one day They will see what Jesus will do for me ...as I stay in My Child Like faith...waiting for prince charming to sweep me away!

PSALMS 37:4 Delight thyself also in the LORD; and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart

In His Love,


Posted by: czynka

Oh i am going to LOVE this thread , the very very foremost and most important thing to me, is that my husband would take up his place as head of the household, lifting Chinook and me up to the Lord every day, and encouraging us to walk closer to the Lord. That is the foremost thing in my thoughts, there is more. I'll be back....
And thankyou AW for starting this thread. We can always count on you bro !!


Posted by: Donna C

OK, to describe what I would like from a marriage, I will describe my relationship with Owen, My Husband. For me this was a perfect partnership, with one major flaw. Owen is incapable of being faithful.

Owen was (and will be again. Thank you Father), my best friend, my lover, my comforter, my debating partner, the one I could spend hours dreaming with, the one who could make me laugh until I cried. We would talk and talk for hours about anything everything and nothing. We would share everything and could make even the most boring of jobs seem like fun.
Owen had the knack of making me feel like the most special person in the whole of the world. He would say things like ‘you look good today’, which sent you off feeling like a million dollars. If we went out for the evening, he would thank me for a good night out. If we sat talking for an evening, he would tell me how much he had enjoyed the evening.

Owen and I worked for the same company and sometimes if we had not bumped into each other during the day, he would walk to my office just to tell me that he had missed me. Both of us used to feel as if there was something major missing if we went a period of time without seeing each other, so for me the last four months have been very hard. We used to say that we were two halves of one. I never tired of being in his company. OK, call me an old romantic, but even though we had been together for 10 years, my heart still used to skip a beat if I saw him unexpectedly. People who knew us, said that we used to give each other little glances that said, I am so proud that, that person is mine.

Owen and I shared the same off the wall sense of humour and used to do crazy things. He once played leap-frog over the bollards outside of the supermarket, which left me doubled with laughter.

OK, before I start rambling and crying over him, here is a quick what is important for me. To be my best friend and equal partner.


Posted by: Praying For Restoration

Thanks, AW for starting this.

AW wrote:

"So have at it ladies what do you want from a guy in marriage concerning your needs and how he reponds to you and does things with you?"


I've changed so much since our separation, that it is kind of hard for me to answer this! LOL The things I used to want are so changed.

What I think I'd want,

To know I have my husband's favor (shown with warm smiles, appreciative and loving comments, hearing him praise me to others, encouragement, and physical affection)

Being wise with finances and familial responsibilities

Having some time set aside each week to hang out together alone (He'd need to act like he enjoys that, LOL! I'd love it if he'd make some of the arrangements for it himself, just like the old days, reminding me that I am still his "girl", doing things that are fun or relaxing -- not necessarily to have a deep talk, just relationship building/reconfirming kind of stuff like having fun together.)

Sharing a close relationship with the Lord, having Him be the head of our family (Worshipping and praying together, having spiritual goals together, raising the family as followers of the Lord Jesus, reading the Word together, etc.)


Posted by: Christy Demoran

He would be the reflection of Jesus, in my life. If i could look into his eyes and see Jesus! If he were hopelessly in Love with Jesus, then everything would fall into place! If God is first in his life then, i will be more than Happy to come second!! Jesus to me is everything i would want in a man, i know we all fall short of that, but the one who truly wants to follow and be like Jesus, and Knows Him in the most intimate parts of his soul, How could i go wrong? I couldnt, I wouldnt! And i could feel the wittness of the Holy Spirit in him, thats the man for me, but for now, i have the perfect mate, Jesus, Jesus, Jesus!!! Love YOU Jesus, YOU are more than i could ever want or need!!


Posted by: alexx

now i see why the guys had such a hard time.....it is really hard to speak for all women...because what is important to me...may not be to another woman...so with that being said i will just say what i think woman want from men
1.TO BE UNDERSTOOD...EVEN IF YOU HAVE A HARD TIME WITH THIS ONE...TO SHOW THAT YOU CARE ENOUGH TO TRY USUALLY WORKS
2. ROMANCE.....LIKE FIRST WEEK OF DATING ROMANCE(CARDS OR PHONE CALLS OR NOTES..THAT JUST SAY I LOVE YOU)....TOUCH HER FACE...CARESS HER HAIR....HOLD HER HAND...KISS HER HAND....LOOK INTO HER EYES..TELL HER SHE'S BEAUTIFUL...HONESTLY..WHEN THIS IS DONE IT USUALLY LEADS TO SOME OF THE THINGS MEN ARE MORE INTERESTED IN AND THEN EVERYBODYS HAPPY(HOPE THAT WASNT BEING TO FRANK)..
3. RESPONSIBILITY....A WOMAN NEEDS TO KNOW IF SHE IS SICK OR ABSENT HE CAN STEP UP AND FILL IN(KNOWS HOW TO DEAL WITH KIDS,BILLS,SCHOOL)
4.RESPECTFUL....SHOWS THE WORLD THAT YOU ARE TO BE TREATED LIKE A LADY...IM TALKING LIKE SETTING A GOOD EXAMPLE FOR YOUR CHILDREN...IF YOU TALK TO YOUR WIFE HARSHLY OR YELL AT HER THE KIDS PROBABLY WILL TOO.)
5.TREAT HER LIKE A FRIEND...TELL HER YOUR THOUGHTS...WHAT BOTHERS YOU...WHAT YOUR DAY WAS LIKE...CONFIDE IN HER LIKE YOUR BEST FRIEND
6.PRAY WITH HER...PRAY FOR HER..HAVE HER PRAY FOR YOU...READ GODS WORD TOGETHER...DISCUSS YOUR BELEIFS...LOVE JESUS TOGETHER...HELP OTHERS TOGETHER...SHOW YOUR WIFE THAT THE LOVE AND KINDNESS OF JESUS IS IN YOU....LET LITTLE THINGS STAY LITTLE AND GIVE BIG THINGS TO THE LORD

OKAY...SO THIS SOUNDS LIKE THE PERFECT MAN...I THINK IF YOU EVEN TRY TO ACCOMPLISH THESE THINGS YOU ARE A MAN TO BE CHERISHED....THATS WHY I LOVE MY HUSBAND...HE DOES TRY...BESIDES IF HE WERE PERFECT..THEN I'D HAVE TO BE PERFECT...AND GOD KNOWS AND ALL OF YOU KNOW BY MY POSTS..IM CERTAINLY NOT PERFECT.....LOVE YOU ALL


Posted by: Donna C

Dear Alexx,

I think I understand what you are saying, but I am afraid to say that kissing fanny has a very different meaning in the UK!

I pray that your prayers are answered and that your life is blessed.

In his name.

Donna C


Posted by: Debi16

AW, you are so cool. If you care now (before marriage) what a woman wants and needs...some lady is gonna have a very good hubby!
Ok...this is something I have already pondered and firstly...he has to be very spiritual, a true man of God. I have to be on the top of his list (right under Jesus) and he must treat me with respect. I want a responsible, mature, fun-loving, family-oriented, gentle, sesitive, affectionate and HONEST man. I don't ask for much, do I? LOL
In return though...he is getting a God-loving, good woman...so we would both be blessed. I am waiting for God to bring me that man...and he is already my husband...just fallen away from the good things in life. Praise be to God that He is a loving, faithful God!!!



On another note...Donna you have me curious! What does "kiss the fanny" mean in the UK? LOL

Debi


Posted by: mariposa

I want a Christian man who will pray with me and for me. Christ and our family should be the big priorities in his life. He also needs to love animals. He needs to be responsible, honest, well-mannered, considerate and caring. He also needs to take his role as head of the family very seriously.

For me, the perfect relationship is summed up by what Ruth told Naomi: "Where you go, I go; Where you stay, I stay; Your people shall become my people, and your God, my God." If I feel like that about a man, I know he'll be the right one with whom to make a life.


Posted by: thornygrace

I want a man who will keep these vows to me:

"I choose you Senta as my wife. I vow to love, honor and be faithful to you, for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health. I will forgive your faults, support your dreams and be yours alone as long as we both shall live."

If only someone would remember these vows again.....


Posted by: Praying For Restoration

I'd like to add a question, if I may, AW.

Can the ladies "flesh out" some of what they like from a husband into examples of how that might work? (For example, I had said I'd like to know I have my husband's favor -- A way I might know I had his favor would be if he would choose to keep a date with me over another obligation he had or something like that.) The reason I'm asking is so that men could know how to successfully communicate those qualities to you.


Posted by: ANOINTED WARRIOR

Quote:
Originally Posted by Praying For Restoration
I'd like to add a question, if I may, AW.

Can the ladies "flesh out" some of what they like from a husband into examples of how that might work? (For example, I had said I'd like to know I have my husband's favor -- A way I might know I had his favor would be if he would choose to keep a date with me over another obligation he had or something like that.) The reason I'm asking is so that men could know how to successfully communicate those qualities to you.

Yes of course we live in both the spiritual and physical, is ok to have a personality God loves humor and someone who has a personality..


Posted by: alexx

oooops....sorry donna or any one else from uk....i deleted it....donna i pm'd you...you got to tell me what i said


Posted by: ninababy73

AW, I really like this one

My husband has to be romantic, funny ( I love to laugh), affectionate, financially responsible, honest and trustworthy, spend time with me. He must be the head of the household, I make a lot of decisions at work....don't want to have to make decisions at home.

Now, on the spiritual side, he must be a lover of Christ, have Him first and foremost centered in his life. He must pray for me, with me and for others. He must worship with me.

Thank God that He blessed me with my husband, Darrell. We had a period where we were separated ( for 3 LONG mths about 1yr and a half ago); but God brought him back better than ever !!!!!!!


****on a personal note, Chris you will make some woman a wonderful husband. God Bless you *****


Posted by: MaryTemp

What a cool thread!!! My husband and I were actually just talking about this recently hehehe, I told him I definetly know what I want and what I don't want now that I am 34 and have been married for 12 years.

First and foremost I want my husband to love the Lord just as much as I do and put the Lord first in every decision he makes in life and in regards to his family, I also want my husband to be faithful and honest with me about the way he is feeling, whether it be good or bad. I do not want my husband to lose his temper easily, and I would like him to have patience and treat other human beings with reverance and respect as all life comes from God. I want my husband to communicate with me his needs, and to play an active role in the upbringing of his children so that they may walk on a Godly path.

hmmmmm...one more thing a husband who also cooks and cleans is my absolute dream!!!! (A pipe dream, of course!) Yet nonetheless, it is very romantic to us women when our men do little things around the house without us having to beg them!!! I would be happier if my husband picked his socks up off the floor, did a load of laundry, and washed a sinkful of dishes!!! That to me atleast, is a much more romantic gesture of love than Flowers or Chocolate!!! Heh, I can dream!!! One thing that I love about my husband is that he knows there are a few things I hate doing and those are ironing and sewing. (I won't and don't do either) Therefore, he ocasionally will do those things for me I think it is so cool that my husband can sew. (He was a medic in the navy so he can suture) You know though....recently my iron has mysteriously went missing....well I have to wonder what role my husband may have played in that dissapearance!!! lol

I forbid him to cook a few years ago. He hates to cook anyway, but used to get a whim every now and again to make ribs (His favorite food) Well, the last time I allowed him to make his ribs, he burned them so badly to the pan and made such a mess that I was in tears most of the night trying to clean up the damage. Thankfully he loves my cooking, and he always brags to everyone that I am the best cook!!! I like his compliments it makes me feel as if he loves and appreciates me.

My husband is proficient at bandaging the kids up when they get boo-boos, and he is like a kid himself when he plays with them!!! He plays hide and seek with them and I love hearing their laughter. He helped us with our science lesson for homeschool the other day it was on the different bones and muscles in the body. The kids learned so much and he made it alot of fun for them. What I love most is my husband out of the blue telling me that he loves me, putting his arms around me and hugging me tight, just because....ahhhh now thats very very romantic!!!