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Posted by: ownmyheart27

I'm from India,I was married in the year 2002,but we have never lived together due to several hurdles in our lives...He has a younger sister who is yet to be married and untill she is married;his parents will not accept me as their Daughter in law...Their family is very conservative...My husband is very short tempered and I can't talk to him much about these things...Only God n prayers can help us...Few months ago,I found him to have had a sex chat with various woman... ... (we share the same id..when I questioned him,he said I must not use his Id anymore)I did not say anything more to it coz I love him a lot...n I'm always willing to forgive him..I beg you to pray that my husband be saved from all the evil deeds...and he realizes I love him a lot and I'm still here on this earth only for him:Everything I do: I do it for him...I'm always willing to forgive him for his mistakes...Afterall,we are humans and all of us make errors...
I'm here asking you and everyone else to pray for me that my marriage life be good n peaceful n I be able to live with my husband ..understand him ..be a good wife n a great friend for him...and we together make a harmonious family...also pray that God gives him good health n long life...
Right now I'm living with lot of fears in my heart,which has no end at all...I'm putting all my trust n faith in the lord..that he would bring my
husband n me together and bind us together with trust,love and understanding for each other with the cords that can never be broken...

In God's name..Amen..
LP


Posted by: Donna C

Lord,

I ask you for divine intervention in this marriage. I ask that Lakshmipriya and V Srinivason are brought together truly as man and wife to bring glory to your name.

Genesis V2 says that; For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh. Father we are standing on your word that Lakshmipriya’s Husband will leave his Mother and Father and go to his rightful place, at the side of his wife.

Father please cover this man in the blood of our Lord and allow him not to be lead into temptation. Show him that the ways of the world are not your ways.

Hold Lakshmipriya save in your arms and let her feel your love and compassion. I thank you father that she has forgiveness in her heart for her Husband.

I thank you Father, we give you the praise and the glory that are so rightfully yours.

In the name of our Lord, Jesus.

Amen


Posted by: tatiana_bueras

Hi my name is Tatiana, I just wanted to tell you how much I admire your way of dealing with things, cause just a couple of months ago the same thing happened to me. My husband would spend too much time on the internet, he used to tell me that his homework was all based on internet. Since he is actually in college I believed him, he is 19 and I am also 19. But one day while I was goofing around in the computer I accidentally got in to the history, not just the total for the day history, but the WHOLE HISTORY. While I was looking at all the things he had looked at, I wanted to die, I started crying. He looked at porn everytime he go a chance. He would also go into adult chat and you don't have to have a big imagination to know what goes on in there. Well I cried for a long time. When he got home from work I confronted him about it, he got so mad, the look in his eyes was like he wanted to choke me. He totally denied it all. I said wanna bet you were looking at all that junk, man he looked at me in a way that he had never before, he told me to get away from the computer and he hit the screen button so hard the punched it in. I started crying and told him he had a problem. He got his backpack an left. While he was walking down to his car, he turned around and walked back to the apartment. He apologized and admitted he had a problem, I was praying for God to bring him back and make him admitt to his problem and he did in a split second. I was still so mad at him, I asked him why he was doing these things. I was confused, I mean I thought I gave him everything he wanted. As a result of that, I told him or you take the internet off or I leave, without hesitation he called and removed the internet. As of now in our relationship I am more dedicated to his needs, I try my best to keep him happy, But sometimes I feel I try to hard. But in the end it is all worth it, or am I wrong?


Posted by: thornygrace

I also am amazed at your gentle and kind spirit. I understand cultural differences. My parents-in-law contributed to the seperation I have with my spouse. They hate me because I am American and they see "America" as the one's who bombed their city. (It was NATO). They hate me because they see me as taking thier son away from them. (He is 37 years old but in their culture the oldest son takes care of the parents and he moved to America to marry me.)

I also understand how betrayed a wife feels when she sees porn and other "adult" smut on the computer. I confronted my husband about that and he said that he had to go to those sites to get passwords to do some hacking for software that he wanted to learn how to use. (He would try the software for about a month and then delete it. And he really did delete it because I checked.) I investigated and found out that he was right that the passwords were found there.

However, it felt like a betrayal and since he left I found porn that he downloaded on to computer CD's. So it was not just about passwords.

I can relate to much to your feelings also about forgiving him. I forgive my husband over and over again because I love him. (And also our wedding vows had "forgive your frailties" and I take those vows seriously.)

You have such a kind and sweet spirit that I believe the Holy Spirit indwells within you and I encourage you to seek God's healing for your pain and your fears. God is doing a mighty work in your life. But he is also doing a work in your husband's life as well. Trust God to resolve this matter. But don't stop praying. There is power in prayer.

I will be praying for you as I lay down to sleep in just a few minutes. God Bless you. God Bless your husband. God Bless your parents-in-law and God Bless your marriage.