I know that we should wait for OUR Father to tell us when we are in love and who to love but at times it doesn't happen that way, I know that we should wait to do the things that only married people do but it's hard sometimes, I know that my true Father forgives me but I still feel bad, a sin is a sin, I know that, it's not the fact that it didn't happen but the fact that something did happen, so a sin is a sin. I do love him, I have this feeling that he and I will be together for the rest of our lives and God knows that is something I want deeply, but I gave it to God when I met him, and I feel as if God has told me that he is going to be mine one way or another. I feel it deeply, that is why I told him that I love him. I know it might have been to soon but I felt as if I had to tell him so that he knew how I felt. I hope it was My Father that told, me that he is mine forever, Please Father God I have given the relationship to you and Your will be done in the entire thing, Please Father god don't let me get hurt again, you are my one true Father and I love you, worship you, praise you and can't do anything without you.
I stomp on the devil
I put him under my feet
I dance on his head
I pound his head with my mallet
Posted by: JG
Dear Shanni:
This is Jerry the founder of the site.
You can not love the flesh and the Lord at the same time.
The reason you feel this way is because you know you hurt the Lord.
The word says you must die to the flesh daily.
I found once I saw how much Jesus really loved me I didn't want to lose that love for the flesh. If the man you are with really loves you he will wait till you get married. If he can not control himself now he does not really love you.
Posted by: StevenHenderson
Shanni, You know God. I can tell. There are a lot of people that say they know God when they really don't. God doesn't want to see you get hurt, and He doesn't want you to hurt others. That is why it is so important to Him that we wait until marriage. I’m sure He has a lot of reasons why, one I know of for sure is that He wants you to be solemnly committed to the person. He wants this to be done publicly and spiritually. Because if you have a child and you are not committed, God knows that it will seriously hurt the child to be without a dad. I believe that you want to do the right thing. My wife and I slept together before we were married, I know that it was wrong. Then we got saved. We didn’t even hold each others hands until we were married. Old things are passed away and all things become new. God gave us a second chance. And He made all the bad in our past work for good. But the point is, is that I love my wife, and more so God, enough to stay away until we got married. And Jerry warned me to do so, and I am glad that I took his advice. If the man loves you and God, I believe that it was up to him not to make the decision to sleep together. Now on humanly terms, I can understand that might be impossible. But if the man you are seeing has a personal relationship with Jesus, God is more than willing to make the impossible possible. So I pray for you that Jesus will give you understanding and guidance, that He will support you and show you His Grace. That He will become more personal and intimate with you, and give you Hope for the future. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
-Steven
Posted by: weedviolet
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Originally Posted by Shanni
I know that we should wait for OUR Father to tell us when we are in love and who to love but at times it doesn't happen that way,
Actually, as much as we might hope, it doesn't happen this way. God sort of lets you chose who You want to Love, all on your own. Yes, you get the Holy Spirit, and the wisdom of the Bible, to help in this choice, but it’s still your choice. If you keep the Father’s will in mind, when You make such a choice, it normally turns out better. Then again, You’re still dealing with two people making choice.
So, before you let this happen, remember to stop and pray about it. Mostly, if you find yourself in such a romance, that leads you away from the Lord. Be strong enough to face a little heartache now, instead of waiting until it really hurts.
Yes, i know, it seems like the end of the world, every time this happens.
