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Posted by: awesome16

i like this guy. ok i know this is a prayer board but i just need some advice. ok this one guy who used to ask me out all the time an he was really really nice an he is cool. an everything. but then i started to get closer to God an i need more space. an he was around me 24/7 an called me when he wasnt around me. but now that i have shut him out i found out i do really like him. i mean i cant even stop talking about him. he is so nice but im scared to talk to him again because i blew him off so much. but now i just like him so much he makes me smile everytime i talk to him r even when i see him. but he tihnks i hate him. i have been trying to talk to him but cant ever get a hold of him. idk what to do i really like this guy. plz help


Posted by: cgirl

uh, i would let him know how ya feel. i mean that's what i would do in this situation...i guess


Posted by: The Hobans

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Originally Posted by cgirl
uh, i would let him know how ya feel. i mean that's what i would do in this situation...i guess


Be careful of things, especially feelings, that may seem like a good way to go. Remember your zeal for Christ and pay attention to where your focus lies. "Romantic" relationships are a natural thing, but can often be a distraction from, or a substitution for, walking closely with the Lord. If your friend is in love with God then that's a great thing, while walking together in purity. If he's not so hot about God then don't go there. That's my thoughts on it anyway.

God bless-
S


Posted by: awesome16

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Originally Posted by The Hobans
Be careful of things, especially feelings, that may seem like a good way to go. Remember your zeal for Christ and pay attention to where your focus lies. "Romantic" relationships are a natural thing, but can often be a distraction from, or a substitution for, walking closely with the Lord. If your friend is in love with God then that's a great thing, while walking together in purity. If he's not so hot about God then don't go there. That's my thoughts on it anyway.

God bless-
S

ya this guy does go to church an all but not as much as me an im do more stuff with the church. like last night he came over but it was like i didnt want to go to the church an help out because i wanted to be with him. an i dont know i like him an i think he knows already but mmm i do see that i want to be with him instead of being at church. an i dont really like that. but i dont know what to do. anymore.


Posted by: daisy

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Originally Posted by awesome16
i like this guy. ok i know this is a prayer board but i just need some advice. ok this one guy who used to ask me out all the time an he was really really nice an he is cool. an everything. but then i started to get closer to God an i need more space. an he was around me 24/7 an called me when he wasnt around me. but now that i have shut him out i found out i do really like him. i mean i cant even stop talking about him. he is so nice but im scared to talk to him again because i blew him off so much. but now i just like him so much he makes me smile everytime i talk to him r even when i see him. but he tihnks i hate him. i have been trying to talk to him but cant ever get a hold of him. idk what to do i really like this guy. plz help

I just read your thing obviously and I kind of have the same problem and what i am going to do is not to be overbearing but slowly try to be his friend first and if anything more happens then so be it. I hope you try the same. You probably just have to smile his way when you see him and be nice to him, he will feel comfortable around you too start talking to you again sorry if my advice is horrible!