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Need help making a decision

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Posted by: havybaby

Here’s a quick synopsis. My wife wants a divorce since April this year. I do not want a divorce. She refuses to go to any more counseling or discuss it further with me. I’ve read many books and understand all the methodologies and philosophies. I know I can’t change her, but I can change myself and continue to work toward that goal. What I struggle with is how to proceed next.

She has filed for divorce in our wonder no fault state. I have told her that I love her so that I would do anything for her except give her a divorce. I still continue to remain loving and compassionate toward her. I am trying to meet all her desires to show my caring. She desires to move out of state (12 hour drive away), taking our 2 small children, to be/live with her family then eventually get an apartment for herself. I have been trying to gain employment in the area of her family for almost a year now. The area is rural and my occupation is very difficult to find there.

I believe it would be best for our small children to have them near me. If they move away, I may not see them for several weeks at a time and there's the uncertainty of how much longer it will take to gain decent employment. We all currently live in the same house, though my wife and I live in separate rooms.

So what should I do? I want to meet her desires to be with her family, but I don’t want her to move out, and I don’t want our children to be without me. I know I can’t satisfy everything here so what is my best plan of action if the intent is to win back my wife?


Posted by: StarChilde

I wish I had the right words to tell you to make everything happen to keep your family with you. I can however offer the following: Even though the following is a prayer I have placed on many posts, it is still prayer in the Spirit for the Perfect Will of God to be manifested in your situation & in your prayer request Not just idle words, but prayer for the perfect will of God~& HIS hand & Face in & through this!Please know that as I read over your request, & even now I am praying for your request in the best way I know of~ praying in the spirit, the perfect will of God for your situation~ “through all prayer and supplication pray at all seasons in the Spirit, and with this in view, keep alert with all perseverance and supplication for all the saints,” Eph. 6:18
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Posted by: bluecatkeeper

Dear Lord,
Please touch this woman's heart and if it is Your will, keep this family whole. Let her see the wonderful life that family can be and the love that her husband feels for her. Let her know that she is loved and that love is always worth fighting for. Please comfort and watch over this man and his small children as time goes by and send your healing graces to them if the worst should happen.

In Jesus's name I pray this, Amen.
Lori