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The hatred in his heart...
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Posted by: DarkAngel17
My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year. Unfortunatly I have a past before him. I made some bad choices and slept with two other guys. I have forgiven myself for and and have put it in the past. But he holds it against me. He hates me for it. At least once a week, if not more does he bring it up. It hurts me so much. I know he can move past this, but what should I do??? Please help, its urgent. I dont know if I will be able to take the pain much longer. I love him so much, all i want is to help him...
Posted by: tatiana_bueras
My advice to you is to talk to him about it, seriously...come on girl it's your past...he has to learn to live with it. If he loves you he will forget about it and move on. I have been in your situation too...I had been with other men in my past before my boyfriend and my now husband and he had a choice...to live with it or to leave me...he decided to live with it. I mean we all make mistakes...but don't regret it cause it makes him feel bad...mistakes are a part of life and we have to learn to live with them...and best of all to FORGIVE. Just pray that God will ease his heart, don't feel bad about your past...you are a different person now and you are with him and with no one else. Show him how much you love him and try to understand his feelings...all men wish they were there wifes and girlfriends first..but it's not always that way. I'll have your boyfriend and you in my prayers. God Bless You Always!!!!
Posted by: Mrembo
I agree with tatiana-bueras. Even God forgives us for past sins and mistakes. I know this must really hurt considering that was your past and you love him. I pray that he will comes around. Please be strong and talk to God about it through prayer. I find God to be the best listener ever. I am praying for your relationship. Godbless you.