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I feel lost and alone,

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Posted by: Benita45

Here it is Monday morning, its raining out, the house is cold and damp, thank God we have some electric heaters,I feel like the biggest failure that has ever lived, no matter how hard i try to provide for this family,, nothing,,nothing, nothing ever works out for us,, I feel like a rung out wash cloth,, no energy, no, desire, just depressed and crying, I dont have the money for the phone or the electric, I have no way of getting propane at 1.44 a gallon, I have had 3 jobs in the last 3 months, the first one was a city job, but i did not have the knowledge of the streets to drive, so i was let go, after i got stuck with 400 dollars worth of uniforms, the second job, at a hospital in food service, but because I sweat heavily facially, it was a matter of health code, the last one paid me 2.75 a room cleaning in a motel, I worked so physically that my sugar would drop to dangerous levels after two hours of work, the hospital said they would try and transfer me to a different department, but so far no word on the job in Customer Service, My parents dont care, they are the type of people that if you were laying in a gutter, they would walk over you because it might cost them money,,, I am so tired of struggling,, tired of crawling and scratching and always from the day i was born,, have had one bad thing after another happen to me,, In the 46years i have been on this earth,, I have been abused physically, mentally and emotionally by my adopted parents,, at 13 i was raped and almost murdered, by the time i was 18 I married the first guy who wanted to marry me,, and then our first two children died, even though we had two more children he got another woman pregnant and divorced me and married her,,, I married the second time, full blown alcoholic who abused me and the kids and never worked one day in our marriage,, in and out of jails,, lost two houses, I feel defeated, angry ,opressed ,depressed, the harder i try, the more i get kicked down , over and over again,, Im tired of it,, All i want is the chance to be able to take care of my kids and live a peaceful normal life,, Im not looking for riches, just a way to meet the neccesities, and once in a while the few extras, God am i asking to much,, Jesus, why do you allow the sinners all the rewards?



Posted by: ANOINTED WARRIOR

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Originally Posted by Benita45
Here it is Monday morning, its raining out, the house is cold and damp, thank God we have some electric heaters,I feel like the biggest failure that has ever lived, no matter how hard i try to provide for this family,, nothing,,nothing, nothing ever works out for us,, I feel like a rung out wash cloth,, no energy, no, desire, just depressed and crying, I dont have the money for the phone or the electric, I have no way of getting propane at 1.44 a gallon, I have had 3 jobs in the last 3 months, the first one was a city job, but i did not have the knowledge of the streets to drive, so i was let go, after i got stuck with 400 dollars worth of uniforms, the second job, at a hospital in food service, but because I sweat heavily facially, it was a matter of health code, the last one paid me 2.75 a room cleaning in a motel, I worked so physically that my sugar would drop to dangerous levels after two hours of work, the hospital said they would try and transfer me to a different department, but so far no word on the job in Customer Service, My parents dont care, they are the type of people that if you were laying in a gutter, they would walk over you because it might cost them money,,, I am so tired of struggling,, tired of crawling and scratching and always from the day i was born,, have had one bad thing after another happen to me,, In the 46years i have been on this earth,, I have been abused physically, mentally and emotionally by my adopted parents,, at 13 i was raped and almost murdered, by the time i was 18 I married the first guy who wanted to marry me,, and then our first two children died, even though we had two more children he got another woman pregnant and divorced me and married her,,, I married the second time, full blown alcoholic who abused me and the kids and never worked one day in our marriage,, in and out of jails,, lost two houses, I feel defeated, angry ,opressed ,depressed, the harder i try, the more i get kicked down , over and over again,, Im tired of it,, All i want is the chance to be able to take care of my kids and live a peaceful normal life,, Im not looking for riches, just a way to meet the neccesities, and once in a while the few extras, God am i asking to much,, Jesus, why do you allow the sinners all the rewards?


Jesus wraps his arms of love around you and looks you in the eyes and says I love you..



Posted by: bluecatkeeper

Lord, I lift Benita up to you. Please watch over her and provide bountiful blessings for her needs. Keep her in safety, warmth and let her be able to provide for herself and her family.
In Jesus name I pray this amen.

Benita, Don't give up. Keep looking to Jesus...keep praying..HE WILL take care of you!
Your sister in Christ,
Lori



Posted by: Benita45

Thank you Annointed Warrior and Lori,, and everyone else who is praying for us and our family,, benita45



Posted by: Nikki

Benita,
Reading your post was like reading a book about myself. I really don't want to think God has turned his back on me, but I can't figure out why my blessings are being blocked. I work hard everyday and nothing! The one thing I can do is pray for you. I love you and if I had the ability I would bless you with abundance. I don't even know you and I care for you that much. I understand your hurt and pain. My thoughts are always with you. A sister that has walked in your shoes....Nikki



Posted by: livingrose

My heart cries out for Benita and Nikki. Father I pray for a complete surrender of finances to you. I ask that you would release financial prosparity over both. I ask that you would provide a job for Benita in which she could be a light for you. Show yourself to Benita in a new way and draw her into your loving arms. I pray that she would truly seek you above all and that out of her relationship with you all other things would fall into place. Father, reach down and heal the hurts of the past. Help her to find the light in a place that seems so dark. Send encouragement her direction. Guide her in the raising of her children and work all out to your glory. In Jesus' name, amen



Posted by: c4tl

Lord, touch Benita45 and help her with her life. You know her needs Lord help her to feel comforted and have an uplifted spirit knowing that You WILL provide for her, for Your word says: "Therfore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more important than food, and the body more important than clothes? Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life?"
"And why do you worry about clothes? See how the lilies of the field grow. They do not labor or spin. Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, will he not much more clothe you, O you of little faith? So do not worry, saying, 'What shall we eat?' or 'What shall we drink?' or 'What shall we wear?' For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own." Matthew 7:25-34 Bless her life and help her to have trust that You will pull her through these tough times like You have before! In Jesus name I pray, amen!