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Spiritual Warfare in a Relationship. Im 15
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Posted by: Scottypres
I have come to this site looking for help. I am 15 years old guy and have a relationship with Jesus Christ. My girlfriend has just ended an 11 month relationship with me a few days ago. Her father is the pastor of a local church here in my town. She and I have grown in and through Christ individually and together. We both attend a Christian School. We are very serious about our relationship and I have been mourning, unable to work since the break up. I have a close relationship with her mom and she encourages me all the time. My girlfriend, Kelsy, is easily hurt. After several months of occasional disputes she ended the relationship when I told her we needed separation for a while to grow on our own. It was a little more brutal than the way I just put it. She told me that she would date me again if God told her too. The problem is that she still needs to grow in God before she can make decisions. We used to pray and do devotions on the phone all the time. I feel that God has layed it on my heart that I have a purpose to be with her. As well as on the heart of Kelsy's Mom. I will try and shorten this up right now. When Kelsy gets hurt, she puts up a wall of defense that stays up for a long time. This wall holds in all of her emotion and does not allow her to get hurt at all. The wall is up. This past weekend was probably one of the most amazing weekends I have ever had. I went to a thing at my church and spent the weekend there learning how to Resonate Christ. I could feel the Holy Spirit all weekend long. She stayed at her home. Kelsy's Mom and I have been praying that God will break through her walls. The problem is that I am feeling the most spiritual warfare right now that I have ever felt. Christ is the only thing keeping me from snapping right now. She wants to go out with me, but she has deep hurt and is scared to date me again, in fear of getting hurt again. She is very emotionless. She has prayed that God would show her his will. This past sunday, He brought a missionary to their church. She preached a message and just completely and bluntly gave her an answer. One of the verses was Habakkuk 2:3. It was one of those God answers that was a completely "open doors" answer. Her Mom started to cry because she is very involved in our relationship. She told me that she KNEW (100%) that God had told her that there was nothing to be afraid of, and to go back out with me. Kelsy took it in, but didn't get the answer she wanted. She is still praying (supposedly) for God to tell her what to do with what he has shown her. She is still very sensitive and quite upset with me about not much of anything. I feel as my job even as friends now that I should hold her accountable for the things she does, because we were accountability partners in our relationship. I have been crying for 4 days and have not gotten an answer myself from God, but i KNOW he is testing my patience. This week I have been able to feel the spiritual warfare more than ever. She needs to trust God with everything(something we were still working on together). Satan is making her doubt. Please pray that the walls would be broken down and that she would trust God with everything. Satan does not want us together, because we make a strong ministry force. Thank you for your prayers.
Scott
Please reply. I need some encouragement. I am having a very rough time. Probably the toughest of my life.
Posted by: Street Preacher
You don't have to be married or be in a relationship to have a strong ministry. This is one sign that your emotional state is not mature and that you need someone else to make you complete in Christ.
Thats is not true.
This is a lie we tell each other and that the enemy has us to beleive. and most women who want to get married want a man that is emotional, Spiritual, mature. But you are too young to understand this and when you read this you will say that I caome from the enemy and not from God. another sign.
Read Paul letters.
Plus I am so set back to hear about this and how a any parents could allow it.
You both are too young to be going through an emotional like tie like this, It is very evident. Teenage dating is very dangerous and it sounds like you both have cross lines.
She sounds like she has some big problems and she is not ready for any relationship with anyone do to the fact she gets hursts so easy. something is not right.
You need to fall and be totally dependent on Jesus.
Why do you think there is so many divorce's in america, and in the church this is why.
Father God I pray for your intervention here and bring all things to your light in Jesus name.
Posted by: ninababy73
Father, May Your perfect will be done within this relationship. I pray for Kelsy to be healed from her emotional wounds. May these 2 kids seek You and Your will for You know the path and plans that You have for each one. May they wait and trust You completely knowing that Your perfect will will manifest within each life. In Your name, I pray. Amen 