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Posted by: Cherit

I'm not sure if this is the appropriate thread for me to post this request. I wasn't sure what category I fall under.

I'm in a big mess....I was in a 7 1/2ry relationship that was rocky for the last year but ended in Oct. of '04. I was 2 kids and 4yrs into the relationship before I started attending church.

He let me know about "her" by taking her and the kids to the zoo one day....I am devastated and in shock...denial....everything..... He referred to her as a "friend"...the kids are too little understand what kind of "friend" she is. I can't compete with her........she's 11yrs younger than him, great job, no kids, nice house, nice car...no stretch marks...how can I compete with her?

I am asking that Stevan be saved...that he will come to Christ and come back to us and marry me......for healing for this family...we need Jesus so very much right now...this is all big mess that only God can organize and fix. We have many many happy memories and he loved me.

Stevan told me about some tickets he has gotten for a fair we had gone to, in the past, as a family.....he mentioned he would take me and the kids.......I need prayers about this because he's giving me conflicting information and I'm afraid he's playing head games...he said he would take me and the kids tonight if he can get the tickets for tonight...but if he can't, "he" will pick them up saturday and take them but didn't say he would take me. I feel he's guilty of something and is trying to apease himself by sort of "including" me but then Saturday he will pick up the kids to go to the fair with "her"... I hope I made sense...pls pray about this for me.

Above all, we need Jesus to help us.

Thanks so much for your prayers.
Cheri


Posted by: son of God

Abba i pray for this woman and her childeren may she seek you my LORD speed time with u Father may she fall in LOVE with u she is like the woman at the well like u said in corin if the unbelive does not wish to stay let go the LORD will be your husmand take of u your kids. the LORD love strechmarks and all . seek the Father . girl this what iam bond to pray is your salvation cause it the relationship is not of will of the FAther in JESUS Name i pray servant


Posted by: Cherit

I appreciate your prayer....thankyou =)..I just want to clarify that I am not asking you to pray for restoration of a sinful relationship. I am asking that Jesus come into Stevan's heart and come back this family, take responsibility and marry me this time. I'm sorry....I should of worded my post more clearly. I'm pretty sure God would work with me on this, if it's his plan for my life.

Thanks so much.
Cheri


Posted by: JG

Quote:
Originally Posted by Cherit
I'm not sure if this is the appropriate thread for me to post this request. I wasn't sure what category I fall under.

I'm in a big mess....I was in a 7 1/2ry relationship that was rocky for the last year but ended in Oct. of '04. I was 2 kids and 4yrs into the relationship before I started attending church.

He let me know about "her" by taking her and the kids to the zoo one day....I am devastated and in shock...denial....everything..... He referred to her as a "friend"...the kids are too little understand what kind of "friend" she is. I can't compete with her........she's 11yrs younger than him, great job, no kids, nice house, nice car...no stretch marks...how can I compete with her?

I am asking that Stevan be saved...that he will come to Christ and come back to us and marry me......for healing for this family...we need Jesus so very much right now...this is all big mess that only God can organize and fix. We have many many happy memories and he loved me.

Stevan told me about some tickets he has gotten for a fair we had gone to, in the past, as a family.....he mentioned he would take me and the kids.......I need prayers about this because he's giving me conflicting information and I'm afraid he's playing head games...he said he would take me and the kids tonight if he can get the tickets for tonight...but if he can't, "he" will pick them up saturday and take them but didn't say he would take me. I feel he's guilty of something and is trying to apease himself by sort of "including" me but then Saturday he will pick up the kids to go to the fair with "her"... I hope I made sense...pls pray about this for me.

Above all, we need Jesus to help us.

Thanks so much for your prayers.
Cheri


Father I pray you send the Holy Spirit in and set them Free.
Father open their eyes to see that they can not do it right with You Lord.
Your way is the only way in Jesus name

Cheri it is not clear to me are you married yet?
If not do you want to be?

I ask so I know how to pray.

Pastor Jerry
Please know we will stand with you here to see you through.


Posted by: ninababy73

Father, Your perfect will be done in this relationship. May both fully repent and walk towards a right relationship towards You. Cover the children that they suffer no harm from all of this. In Your name, I pray. Amen


Posted by: HopeNFaith

in agreement with these prayers! Lord your perfect will be done here! Soften hearts, turn hearts Lord, guide them.

Christi


Posted by: Cherit

I guess I have confused everyone....I wasn't sure where to post my prayer request...

No, I am not married to this man...I was not married before. We did not live together during the entire relationship (complicated situation). God knows the details of this relationship. I am saved...I know Christ and attend church, pray frequently (especially now), pay tithe etc......Stevan and I do not have "intimate" visits together....I am in love with Stevan completely; He is the father of my children and we were just like a regular family but with a lot of disfunction. We were together everyday and have many happy memories. LIke I said...I was 2 kids and 4yrs into the relationship when I started attending church, so It was a battle for me. I understand right and wrong....I also understand that God is merciful and I know what I am praying for is, right....I am asking that Stevan be saved, that we come back together as a family in marriage. I am confident that God will work with me on this if it his will.

Thanks so much
Cheri


Posted by: JG

Please Know Cheri we are on your side.
It is just that Jesus only works one way.
So first things first.

We pray for Steve to come to the full knowledge of God.
We pray for you also.

I would be hard for him to make a commitment to you when he does not understand what it really means. Like the woman at the well you are in a situation that requires a lot of God.

If you really love Steve you must love Jesus even more.
The pain you will feel as he trys to pulls away will be magnified because you have no common ground except the kids.

Daily prayer has to go up to heaven until we are walking the way Jesus wants us to walk. Otherwise it will never work.

So again I pray for you and your children and Him to see how wonderful Jesus really is. I know you know but he does not.

Father I stand in the gap and plead for mercy for his soul in Jesus Name.


Pastor Jerry


Posted by: christythompson

We pray for Steve to come to the full knowledge of God.
We pray for you also.