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Posted by: Copper
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Posted by: czynka
None of us have the answers sweetie.
Only the Lord.
What you have to do is stay close to Him and keep on trusting Him. All the things you've heard so many times before .
I believe through my own experience, that God will allow certain things to happen in our lives, even though it causes us devastating pain, to get through to us that HE is the only one we can trust.
Remember that He is hurting just as much, if not even more , than we are. The separation of anyone from Him just rips His heart apart.
It took me a long time to realise that He is the only one i can really truly trust.....and the Lord made sure i learned the lesson He was trying to teach me by allowing practically everyone i knew to be distanced from me. It was a darn hard lesson but i needed to learn it.
Our lives are in His hands, and life often isnt the way we want it to be if we follow Him.
Your husband is also in His hands. If he has made the committment to Jesus, then let him go, yes...again....and trust the Lord to reach him. Releasing someone brings tears. And if we dont trust the Lord as much as we could, then it brings fear.
But isnt that what love's all about? Letting go of our loved ones so that the Lord can work in them ?.....Believe me i do know hard it is, but i can also guarantee that it works.
God bless you sweetie, (((hugs))) Youre going to be okay....MORE than okay. God is still in control. 
xxx
Posted by: michellejane
Amen. Lord Jesus please just be with this lady as she trusts in You and draws close to You. Please bless her in ways that she didn't think possible so that her joy in You will be renewed. In Jesus name i pray.
I hold up to You her husband and pray for protection for him. Place a hedge around him and be the Saviour of his life Lord. Lord help him to persevere in his walk with You, let nothing take it away now that he has found You. In Jesus name, amen.
Posted by: Rmartel
Maybe your husband needs what Peter needed ,he came back for good. I trust God is working on both of you to pour in more of his Love, 'Patience' He loves you both. Something tells me he'll be back. Peter came back a changed man. Let Jesus change your Husband and Forgive Him ,I pray. Let Go Let God.
Rmartel
Posted by: StarChilde
Kim, You may NEVER have the answer for Tom's behaviour and actions, but rest assured that God knows. He sees the big picture, and knows things we don't. Maybe even Tom cannot give you the answer for that.
Sometimes things happen due to strongholds in the mind, that one is not even aware of. His actions could go back to something happening in his childhood. Joyce Meyer has a wonderful teaching on the battlefield of the mind, and how much the mind affects us.
I have been praying in the spirit for you, while typing, and will continue to do so now. If you can do so, I would suggest praying in the spirit, for that is praying the perfect will of God in the situation, and leaving us out of it.
Posted by: Rachel R
Dear Copper,
I can feel the pain that you are in.
It is awful.
I am so sorry that he let you down.
That must have hurt so much.
Lord, please comfort her and help her.
Thank you, Lord, for our dear Copper.
Bless her and keep her.
In Jesus' Loving Name, Amen.
Posted by: prophecy
I know how you feel. I have been married for five and a half years, and my husband has left me about five times. Just this weekend I kicked him out for verbal and physical pain he caused. The next day he said that a police told him he could either come back home or go stay with a friend. I didn't have a right to kick him out. He thought about staying with a friend who lives with his girlfriend. My husband doesn't work in the day time, and she doesn't work at all. I think his friend works in the day. Do you know where I'm going with this? He said he wanted to stay home for the kids, but I'm still not sure if he really would have stayed there knowing that I don't trust her if I had told him to leave. I am SOOOO depressed about that right now, and need to discuss that with him. My problem though is that any time I need to discuss something he blows up. So right now I'm trying to figure out how to ask him about it without him getting mad. So I know how you feel. I've felt your pain and I'm feeling it now. I will pray for you when I pray for our marriage too. 
Posted by: christythompson
Jesus, Heal the pain...
Heal this marriage...
Bring full restoration...
You can trust again because not your strength but Gods strength is sufficient.