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Question about Premarital Sex
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Posted by: theoneandonly
Will I go to hell if i have sex with someone that i'm not married too? Will i go to hell if i have sex before i'm married???????? I want details. Don't confuse please help me understand. I need to know the answer.
Thank You
P.S. Please don't be judgemental just help me understand so i know the answer to my question.
Posted by: Mrembo
The answer to your question is that premaritual sex is a sin before God. On the judgement day, we are goign to come before the throne of our Heavenly Father and be accountable for the sins we have commited be they big or small. Sex was made for a man and woman who are married to each other as the bible states. Paul in the new testament also said it that if a man or a woman feel that they cannot abstain from sex, then they should pray and find a partner who they can then be joined together before God and the two of them can then be one. Sex before marriage is adultery and fornication as well.
Posted by: StevenHenderson
Theoneandonly,
God is very merciful… cling to Him with everything you have.. but I know it’s hard when you may not be able to see Him, hear Him, or feel Him… If you need a stepping stone, just go after the God who created the Heavens and the earth… do your best to build a relationship with Him… ask Him about all of this Jesus stuff… I can preach Jesus to you all that I want… but if I can’t give you any evidence that you will accept… I mean to really prove it to you, that Jesus is real, and that He is the Son of God, yet God Him self… I can’t really expect you to believe me, now can I… Believing in Jesus comes by Faith… and you can only get that kind of Faith from God Himself… so ask Him, with all of your heart to teach you what is true and what isn’t… The only thing as far as a physical reference that I can give you to back up my answer and my claim to Jesus is the Bible… It is said to be the perfect, flawless word of God… I can’t prove that to you either… that also takes Faith… that you can only get from God Himself. I don’t expect you to swallow everything I say, just because I sound like I know what I am talking about, and I scare you into believing that if you don’t accept my teaching, that you’re going to hell. So all I can do is tell you what I believe… and hope that God tells you Himself, the answer to your question… maybe He will use my words, or maybe He will tell you directly… but the main point is to have a relationship with Him, and to search Him out with all of your heart… Now as far as what I believe.. I know that I am not going to hell, I am assured, by Faith, and by God’s Spirit… and I’ve done every sin in the book. I am forgiven, by the Blood sacrificed by Jesus Christ on the Cross. I know that.. it gives me Peace and a sound mind… So… you have the right to believe whatever you want to… but I think that you want to believe in something that is actually true… I can only tell you what I know, what I know God has told me… but I can only put it out there for you to look at… It is your choice to have a relationship with God or not, so He can tell you that you are saved Himself… It is what everyone is looking for, whether they know it or not… Perfect assurance by God Himself, that they are safe, forgiven, and loved.
-Steven
Posted by: Rachel R
Dear Oneandonly,
The only thing that will guarantee a trip to hell is refusal to accept Jesus.
But Jesus is more than just fire insurance.
He wants you to have the best, happiest, most fun and fulfilling life that you can possibly have.
To do that, He warns you about the things that will harm you and give you pain and sorrow.
He isn't trying to ruin your fun by asking you not to do these things.
He is trying to protect you and keep you safe.
He can see the traps and he warns you so that you won't fall into them.
The person you are going to marry wishes you would wait for them.
Jesus loves you more than you can imagine.
He isn't waiting for you to make a bad choice so he can clobber you.
He is waiting for you to let him be the Lord of your life so that he can give you all the good stuff that he has for you.
Hope that helps,
Rachel R
Posted by: MarkSentMe
From someone who's had more premarital "experience" than I care to divulge, trust me...WAIT! Once you give up your virginity, sex is not special anymore. After the first initial contact, it's not all that with subsequent partners and it becomes easier to just "put out" each time thereafter. God gave us sex to be a special union between 2 MARRIED people (man AND wife) as a symbol of their love. You will not go to hell for having sex before you're married. God is merciful and if you confess and avoid the temptation until marriage, then your sin is forgiven (I fell for the old "You wouldn't buy a car without test-driving it, would you?" line) If you did it and are truly sorry, then ask God to forgive you for your weakness and don't do it again. Just don't make a habit of it. I mean, don't be sorry this time, then make an error in judgement and then be in the same boat again and again. 
DUH! I left out some key parts- going to bed now!
Posted by: theoneandonly
Thanks.
I'm not going to have sex until i get married.
Posted by: son of God
thebest chioce at least best choice its most likely your frist little man aways seek JESUS on all your decshion cant spell for nothing but iam share get the drift servant 
Posted by: Christian Commando
**, very good answers, all of you. If I may, I would like to add one other thing. You know, just because a sin as such won't send us to Hell, doesn't mean we can intentionally go out and do it. as related to in the above posts, it's still sin. Yet, I should relate there is a difference in how God looks at our "intentional sin", to our "unintentional" sin. Unless we repent, we will have to face God with that sin regardless.