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Please pray for my wife(TRACI).

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Posted by: jpajerski

Hi this is jeff Pajerski back again.

My wife TRACI) and I are now in counseling together however, she has becom great depressed about everything. she is even making comments that "well at least i'm a live today" etc. Even though we are have problems, most caused by my yelling and screaming, I'm dealing with 5 years of constent layoffs and its hard. I have now asked god for his help and I believe it has been working over the past 2-months. Please continue to pray for my strength form god as well as my wifes health. Pray that she will contuine to go the the counsler and pray that she will forgive me and that are marraige will be stronger because of god in our life.

P.S. My wife (TRACI) has at least now started to pray once again and I pray that god will intervene for the sake of her soul and soften her heart.


Posted by: Rachel R

Lord, I ask you to bless Traci.

Lead her in the way that you want her to go.

Give her a wonderful life in you.

I ask you to change and renew Jeff and help him become the best husband ever.

Give him the courage to step out into a new career that you will provide.

In Jesus' Name, Amen.


Posted by: youngijp

KJV Psalm 143:8 Cause me to hear thy lovingkindness in the morning; for in thee do I trust: cause me to know the way wherein I should walk; for I lift up my soul unto thee.

KJV Daniel 9:18 O my God, incline thine ear, and hear; open thine eyes, and behold our desolations,...for we do not present our supplications before thee for our righteousnesses, but for thy great mercies. 19 O Lord, hear; O Lord, forgive; O Lord, hearken and do; defer not, for thine own sake, O my God....
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Originally Posted by jpajerski
Hi this is jeff Pajerski back again.
My wife TRACI) and I are now in counseling together however, she has becom great depressed about everything. she is even making comments that "well at least i'm a live today" etc. Even though we are have problems, most caused by my yelling and screaming, I'm dealing with 5 years of constent layoffs and its hard. I have now asked god for his help and I believe it has been working over the past 2-months. Please continue to pray for my strength form god as well as my wifes health. Pray that she will contuine to go the the counsler and pray that she will forgive me and that are marraige will be stronger because of god in our life.
P.S. My wife (TRACI) has at least now started to pray once again and I pray that god will intervene for the sake of her soul and soften her heart.

KJV Jeremiah 31:3 The LORD hath appeared of old unto me, saying, Yea, I have loved thee with an everlasting love: therefore with lovingkindness have I drawn thee. 4 Again I will build thee, and thou shalt be built.... 9 They shall come with weeping, and with supplications will I lead them: I will cause them to walk by the rivers of waters in a straight way, wherein they shall not stumble....

KJV Galatians 5:13 ...By love serve one another.

NKJV 1 Peter 4:8 ..."Love will cover a multitude of sins."

NKJV Ephesians 3:14 For this reason I bow my knees to the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, 15 from whom the whole family in heaven and earth is named, 16 that He would grant you, according to the riches of His glory, to be strengthened with might through His Spirit in the inner man, 17 that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith; that you, being rooted and grounded in love, 18 may be able to comprehend with all the saints what is the width and length and depth and height-- 19 to know the love of Christ which passes knowledge; that you may be filled with all the fullness of God. 20 Now to Him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us, 21 to Him be glory.... Amen.


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Originally Posted by Rachel R
Lord, I ask you to bless Traci.
Lead her in the way that you want her to go.
Give her a wonderful life in you.
I ask you to change and renew Jeff and help him become the best husband ever.
Give him the courage to step out into a new career that you will provide.
In Jesus' Name, Amen.

Amen!
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KJV Philippians 1:6 ...He which hath begun a good work in you will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ.

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Posted by: jpajerski

Thank you for all your prays. Please keep them coming. I pray everyday at leats 6 to six times for TRaci and the saving of or marriage. Lats night Traci asked me if I was happy. I told her yes but in a different way because now I'm following what God has planned. Her reply was thats nice when you find my happeness let me know. I told her that I will try but it is something she has to do.

This is so very hard for me. Thank you everyone. please keep praying.

Jeff


Posted by: czynka

Dear Jeff, its great that you are seeking the Lord and that He is helping you deal with the frustrations of being constantly laid off, and also that you are attending counselling for your marriage.
You are definitely on the right road !
That you realise where you went wrong is fantastic, and the Lord honours your decision to go forward with Him. He will lead you for sure, just keep on allowing Him to have the upper hand.

I hope you wont take offence at what im going to say now...
I feel that Traci is disillusioned and discouraged by the way you acted in the past.
Most probably all she wants is for you to love her and respect her.
To feel wanted and needed, that she is the most wonderful woman in the world in your eyes.
You said in your first post that you got mad and shouted at her....Jeff, ive been in a relationship like this and i know how it feels. It eats away at your self respect and eventually you feel worthless.
Have patience with her Jeff....


Dear Lord, Everything is known to You, and all the past mistakes are long forgiven.
I ask You now that You bless Jeff with patience and understanding.
Show him how to love his wife in the way You want him too, so he will see her gently blossom into the woman he so longs for..... a woman who loves and respects her husband because he loves and respects her.
Help him to be her covering, and to help her spiritually find the way back to You.....not through his words, but through his actions. Enable him to regain her trust in him.

Take Traci's wounded heart Lord and kiss away all the pain and heal all the rejection. Help her to grow towards Jeff again, in fact, help them to grow towards each other again. Renew all the love they had for each other in the beginning, what is dormant Lord, let it flare up again in a mighty flame warming the depths of their hearts.

Make them willing, totally willing to seek You, to listen to you.... and give them the strength and the eagerness to work towards the goal of the restored, renewed and wonderful marriage that You intended for them.

I ask that You provide a stable job for Jeff, where he will be satisfied and happy.
And that while he is waiting on You, he will come closer and closer to You and take his place as the head of his family.

Lay Your healing hands upon Jeff and Traci, speak peace into their hearts, and bring acceptance and understanding into their hearts.
Heal all their wounds and help them both to put the past behind them and look to the future You have for them. Destroy any pride in this relationship in the mighty name of Jesus.
Amen.


Posted by: jpajerski

Thank you for your reply. I do agree! However, her mother is having a very negative affect on her. Traci was brought up in an alcholic family(dad) she also was sexually abused by her grandfathers friend. She hasn't even told her mother any of that because he is dead. But since we have gone to counceling, She says that the yelling is forcing traci to relive her childhood even though it might be all the time. I agree with everything you have said above. In fact I can remember her say some of that to me. However, I think a bunch of stuff has cme to play here and its all going to come out. I just keep praying and hopeing that Traci will continue to seek help.


Thanks, Jeff


Posted by: czynka

Bless you Jeff , it's a heavy time for both of you right now, but we will be praying for you and Traci constantly.


Father i come to You with Traci.
You have watched as all these things happened to her, You were there when she was a little girl, while she was growing up, and You saw it all.
Will You once again walk through Traci's childhood with her and enable her to release her emotions, the guilt and the shame that has been laid upon her.
Hold Your arms around her tightly, supporting her and loving her, protecting her as she re-encouters the traumas.... but this time, fully aware that she is not alone..that Your rod and Your staff, Your very presence, is comforting her.
Enable her to fully understand that NOTHING can happen to her now, because You are with her.

Carry her through all the devastatingly painful memories...take them from her one by one.
You will place them at the foot of the Cross where You won the vctory over sin and pain and death. And they will be gone forever.

You have said that Your burden is light and Your yoke is soft, that we can come to You with all our burdens.
I come to You on Traci's behalf, with all her terrible burdens.
Bless her right now with all confidence and faith in You to be able to trust You while You deal with her burdens with her.
Take all fear from her soul and destroy it in Jesus name. Replace it with Your acceptance and understanding... love, love and more love. Comfort and acceptance, and love. In Jesus name.

I bind every unclean spirit trying to destroy Traci, i bind every spirit of control and guilt, i bind all demonic spirits in and around her in the mighty, holy name of Jesus.
She will be set free from all repressing spirits in the name of Jesus.
Cover her with the precious blood of Your Son, that she will stand tall in the face of the enemy and use the weapons You have given her to resist him.
Let the influence over her from her mother, be broken in Jesus holy name.... take this lady too, and work also in her heart , so that she will be a Godly influence upon her daughter and not a negative one. In the name of Jesus.


Father, here is Jeff, You have appointed him as supporter, as encourager, as the man behind the woman..praying and pleading for the freedom of his wife's soul.
He is going through so much Lord, He has turned to You for guidance. He longs to serve You and do what You ask of him.
You see all his worries and frustrations, all his heartfelt attempts to help his wife through this time. You also se his human limitations.
So Lord i ask that You will strengthen him with Your Holy Spirit, in a way he never thought possible. That he will rise as on the wings of an eagle, and rise above the situation.
Show him how to perceive in the spirit that the solution is already here....that it will be manifested into their lives.`
Help him to walk in faith and not by sight.
Give him Your strength Lord, carry him when the road seems so hard he can hardly carry on.
Be his sun and his shield. Let him find refuge in the shadow of Your wings.
Help him to come to You to refresh his faith every day, to be patient and yet firm where he needs to be, as Your love through him helps and supports and guides Traci.

Bless him, give him all he needs to be the man of God he so wants to be. To be the husband you want him to be.

Oh Father, fill both Jeff and Traci with hope... hope that never fades but blossoms into reality.
Bless these two dear children and enrich them, their marriage, their love for You...that they may become a harmonious team proclaiming Your grace , Your glory through all these things. May they be a testimony to Your love and power.
Bless them in abundance Father.
In Jesus mighty name.
Amen.


Posted by: Dutchess

Be encourage keep praying Jeff, put your foot down with satan. Traci sound like me when that type of stuff come out people have a tendency to regress to childhood. Once Traci get that out she will feel better good for you your a champ keep praying for her deliverance. She will work through it much faster if you be strong and pray and stay in the word you have alot of strong prayer warrior battling with you and that is exatly what it takes. I hope Traci realize all men are not alike sound like you need to pray healing in the family.