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GOD PLEASE HELP, HEAL, & PROTECT!

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Posted by: MMJ

We are in desperate need of God! My husband and I have been getting into fights since the first year we were married. We've been married for 5 1/2 years now. For about a year now, I've been afraid of him. I can't bring anything up for discussion or get angry at all without him really going crazy towards me. Even my pastor has preached that everyone gets angry or frustrated. It's o.k. long as you aren't violent or hurtful towards the person, and get things resolved.So I've trained myself to be more patient & calm when I'm angry, and just talk & discuss. But the more I try to do better the more hateful my husband gets every time. It's been to the point where he pushes, or grabs, or throws me. He justifies himself by saying that he didn't actually hit me. I've been afraid of him having me killed for a year or two now. He has even jokingly told me that he wouldn't kill someone himself, but have someone do it for him. I have been praying that whatever I am doing wrong the Lord will help me to see that and have the heart to change. I have been praying without ceasing for the Lord to heal my marriage and family in the name of Jesus. Last night he hurt me and I called the cops so he would just go and leave us at peace.(my two kids) The cop took it upon himself to serve a warrant, and the cop even came back tonight just to see if he were here to arrest. He had only been home 10 mins., and I had only been home for five minutes! To make a long story short, the cop arrested him. Please pray that he knows that I didn't have him arrested, and that he doesn't EVER do anything to try to steal or take my kids. I am an honest, loving, faithful wife and mother! I need prayer also that when he gets out on bond that he doesn't stay with any friends whom have females around to make him be tempted to commit adultery against God and me. That would break my heart deeply! I have been praying in FAITH that God will heal my marriage, and give us both wisdom. I have been praying everyday that God will change us both to see our errors and willingly change and have a stronger love and respect for God and each other more & more each day. PLEASE PRAY FOR MY BABIES AND MY MARRIAGE! Thank you for your concern & prayers & faith that God will not allow anyone to come between us, and our marriage is strong in the Lord, and healed in Jesus' name.


Posted by: akabezalel

For your protection and the protection of your babies... GET OUT!

Call a women's shelter and explain the situation, get yourself to safety... NOW!

I am not saying divorce, if you still want to make your marriage work that is your choice but you must get your children to safety.

Insist that he get counseling for at least one year before you even think about agreeing to move back in.

If you did not have children I would tell you to seek guidence and give him some grace, when you add children to the mix you must remove them from that kind of environment!

Violence in NOT ordained from GOD! He is NOT trying to teach you anything from this!

Contact a Woman's shelter, look in the front of the phone book under women's services or Child protective services.

Get some help.

Call the police non-emergency line if nothing else and ask for help, they can tell you who to call and how to get the help you need.

Father, give MMJ the wisdom to protect herself and her children. Guide her decisions and help her. Keep them safe. In the Name of Jesus I bind the spirits of anger and violence on her husband, Jesus please take them and deal with them. Lord keep her and the children safe. AMEN!


Posted by: Christian Commando

I stand in agreement on both accounts. In Jesus Name- Amen!


Posted by: mysticangel1971

Dear Lord, I pray that you will lead and guide this woman and her kids to safety. Lord I pray that this man will get help and learn the right things to do so he can be with his wife and kids. Please take control and show her the way as she is trying to find you. Show her the safest place for her and her kids. Watch and protect them as they go through troubled times. I ask this in Jesus name..Amen



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Originally Posted by MMJ
We are in desperate need of God! My husband and I have been getting into fights since the first year we were married. We've been married for 5 1/2 years now. For about a year now, I've been afraid of him. I can't bring anything up for discussion or get angry at all without him really going crazy towards me. Even my pastor has preached that everyone gets angry or frustrated. It's o.k. long as you aren't violent or hurtful towards the person, and get things resolved.So I've trained myself to be more patient & calm when I'm angry, and just talk & discuss. But the more I try to do better the more hateful my husband gets every time. It's been to the point where he pushes, or grabs, or throws me. He justifies himself by saying that he didn't actually hit me. I've been afraid of him having me killed for a year or two now. He has even jokingly told me that he wouldn't kill someone himself, but have someone do it for him. I have been praying that whatever I am doing wrong the Lord will help me to see that and have the heart to change. I have been praying without ceasing for the Lord to heal my marriage and family in the name of Jesus. Last night he hurt me and I called the cops so he would just go and leave us at peace.(my two kids) The cop took it upon himself to serve a warrant, and the cop even came back tonight just to see if he were here to arrest. He had only been home 10 mins., and I had only been home for five minutes! To make a long story short, the cop arrested him. Please pray that he knows that I didn't have him arrested, and that he doesn't EVER do anything to try to steal or take my kids. I am an honest, loving, faithful wife and mother! I need prayer also that when he gets out on bond that he doesn't stay with any friends whom have females around to make him be tempted to commit adultery against God and me. That would break my heart deeply! I have been praying in FAITH that God will heal my marriage, and give us both wisdom. I have been praying everyday that God will change us both to see our errors and willingly change and have a stronger love and respect for God and each other more & more each day. PLEASE PRAY FOR MY BABIES AND MY MARRIAGE! Thank you for your concern & prayers & faith that God will not allow anyone to come between us, and our marriage is strong in the Lord, and healed in Jesus' name.