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please pray for my best friend!

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Posted by: alimouse

Some of my girlfriends and I went out to celebrate my girlfriend, Jo Anne's birthday on Saturday. After celebrating she became so hostile, and angry, about her life, and was acting so mean (not to mention she had way to much to drink) she wanted to argue with everyone, and tell us noone carried about her, and after 2 or more years morn the passing of an ex-fiance. She was crying and punching walls, and angry I was having conversations, with other friends. So we decided we would take her home, things were getting extremely embarassing. On the way home she was calling me names, and instead of arguing I told her she was right, eventually we got her home and she was still screaming at the top of her lungs..I walked her in the house to make sure she was ok, and told her she could not do anything about her ex's death, that everything was in God's time. Her mother then tell's me that I have upset her daughter, and caused her depression for the fact that I am getting married next month. (she is my maid of honor)..And she should be the one getting married first, and that she has a mental illness, and I have not helped her in anyway, that I am making her problems worse..So I left. Called her work on Monday, she did not show up, called her house, no answer..had a friend from my job call and pretend she was someone from her job, her mother said she was in the Hospital, did not want to discuss it, but she would be back next week with Dr. Notes..Her mother wont tell me what hospital, or why and I have been so worried that she may have tried to commit suicide, or just went off the deep end, where the police had to take her in for an psychiatric evaluation. I know I am blaming myself, for being mean during the arguement, but I just ask that everyone say a prayer for her, (her mother is mentally ill) and I just ask God to keep her in his loving arms, and comfort her, and for her to become closer to God, trusting in him. I dont know what to say to her when she gets out, or to make things better for her, if you have any suggestions please help (we have been friends for 12 years, since high school). She has been so angry, and never told me why. And not to be selfish, she has hurt me as well. Please pray for our friendship!! Thank you and God Bless


Posted by: cgirl

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Originally Posted by alimouse
Some of my girlfriends and I went out to celebrate my girlfriend, Jo Anne's birthday on Saturday. After celebrating she became so hostile, and angry, about her life, and was acting so mean (not to mention she had way to much to drink) she wanted to argue with everyone, and tell us noone carried about her, and after 2 or more years morn the passing of an ex-fiance. She was crying and punching walls, and angry I was having conversations, with other friends. So we decided we would take her home, things were getting extremely embarassing. On the way home she was calling me names, and instead of arguing I told her she was right, eventually we got her home and she was still screaming at the top of her lungs..I walked her in the house to make sure she was ok, and told her she could not do anything about her ex's death, that everything was in God's time. Her mother then tell's me that I have upset her daughter, and caused her depression for the fact that I am getting married next month. (she is my maid of honor)..And she should be the one getting married first, and that she has a mental illness, and I have not helped her in anyway, that I am making her problems worse..So I left. Called her work on Monday, she did not show up, called her house, no answer..had a friend from my job call and pretend she was someone from her job, her mother said she was in the Hospital, did not want to discuss it, but she would be back next week with Dr. Notes..Her mother wont tell me what hospital, or why and I have been so worried that she may have tried to commit suicide, or just went off the deep end, where the police had to take her in for an psychiatric evaluation. I know I am blaming myself, for being mean during the arguement, but I just ask that everyone say a prayer for her, (her mother is mentally ill) and I just ask God to keep her in his loving arms, and comfort her, and for her to become closer to God, trusting in him. I dont know what to say to her when she gets out, or to make things better for her, if you have any suggestions please help (we have been friends for 12 years, since high school). She has been so angry, and never told me why. And not to be selfish, she has hurt me as well. Please pray for our friendship!! Thank you and God Bless


Dear Lord, please heal the mother and daughter of this mental illness. By your stripes she is healed. And heal the friendship as well. If they aren't saved, I ask that they would ask you into their hearts, in your name, amen.


Posted by: laconcetta

Dear God please help this two friends get back in good terms. Heal the friend and her mom who are sick and make them come and trust you. Please give the friend who lost her ex the peace she needs and make her understand that is nobody's fault, but you wanted him with you and it's better for him there.Please heal her mind and heart of the grief she's going through. Protect her from all evil and be with her. Bring this two friends together again like in old times. AMEN