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please pray for my moms soul

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Posted by: de_javue

i have posted several times regarding my mom and her abuse of alcohol and her controlling ways, she has begun taking pain pills and still drinking,she has become a hermit in her own home, she just sleeps, drinks and takes her pills, i am so scared she is going to overdose and kill herself. i have tried and tried to help her but i just cannot reach her.
i'm so tired of worrying and carrying this pain, please pray for her to see the light,i canot keep doing this.
she is 58 years old, and she is slowly killing herself.
i need god to help her. because i can't anymore i'm on the verge of a nervous breakdown and its really taking its toll on me
i just want her to be ok and to get herself together


Posted by: akabezalel

Father, I stand for de_javue's Mother. Cover her with the Blood for her Salvation. Bring her to repentance and salvation so that she can be healed and delivered of her addictions. Holy Spirit have Your way in leading her to Jesus. Thank You Lord! AMEN!


Posted by: Christian Commando

Lord- We pray for thier mother, that you would intercede and touch thier heart and mind chanfing it to seeking you instead of worldly attractions. We pray you drive off the influences that attract them to those things and put a hedge of protection around them and remove any after affects that might draw them back. We pray you would help them feel your presence so much to turn from that way totally and towards you. In Jesus Name- Amen!!


Posted by: Chimbamu

Father of all our needs, of each and everyone of our needs, we pray for this mother. Lord you know where she's been, what she's been through, and what she is going through, Lord we pray that you who is God over all will see her through her difficulties, that she will be located by people who love her and who will bring out her strength to be able to come back to normality. We pray, dear Jesus for more love to be around her, for more life around her, for more joy, for more peace, in Jesus name. Amen!


Posted by: christythompson

I will pray for your mother
God is still saying for you to let go.
Are you saying you can't or won't let go without his miracle first?
Then you have to know thats not what God wants.
He is calling you to be a woman of faith
that means to trust him...
I think the operative words are you have been her Savior for so long.
Wew...
Let God be her Savior.
She has to be the one who decides to accept Jesus as her Savior.
You have to stop offering yourself as a substitute for Jesus, because you can't fill his shoes.
She may have to hit a low point before she cries out to him...when you don't answer.
If you keep coming she may never cry out to the Lord to save her.
This is a tough thing to say, please know its with love and hope for you.
Are you more concerned with how you will feel when she begs and uses guilt
or do you want her to be saved?
Jesus is the only Savior.

Jesus
I lift this mother up to you
Lord we trust you to take care of her
We know she will have hard times because of her choices.
But Jesus, we are not her Savior.
We ask that give us Love that is filled with wisdom
a tough Love that does not waiver.
Lord we ask that Mom would see her only answer is Jesus.
Let her daughter stand down for the true King and Savior.
God, I pray for freedom of addictions and bondages.
Let Satan no longer attack this family and hold them in Bondage through this mother.
I pray for her salvation
I pray for healing.
I pray that we always trust you
Hear your voice and listen to you
Listen to you and no other.............
Amen

***Let her doctor know she is drinking and abusing drugs. They won't respond to you or talk to you about her because of confidentiality laws but they will know. You may check out hospital dry-out programs and see if you can forse her to go. If you can't... pray, let her know she is loved and prayed for but do nothing else. You have to stop being manipulated by satan through your Mother. Now there is a demon of fear... God wants to be your God too. He won't let you down. Hugs sweetheart!!


Posted by: jeremiah184

Lord, I ask in your name to touch this mother's deep pain and I plead your blood Jesus on this pain and I ask for you God to cleanse her heart and mind and body and through your cleansing, straighten her paths and lead her and rbing to her the people you have chosen to help this woman and this family. Lord, I as for you to save this child and to help him/her have the assurance that you are in total control and that this child needs your help for them to turn their eyes away from their mother to you. Lord, I ask that you honor this child's loving desire to see this mother taken care of and healed. Remove this responsibility from this child and provide this child with adults in their life that can guide and them in the way you want them to go. Lord, I praise you, and thank you for mother's and children and I ask in your mercy to cleanse all bonds between mother/child(ren) and make them healthy and functioning according toyour ways. Lord, it is such a sorrow for achild to have a prent be in so much pain and confusion. Lord, I ask for all children in this situation Lord to be protected and delivered and guided by you so that proper boundaries are established, proer and healthy expectations are extablished and lived, and these children receive, extra special care and love, andnurture and guidance from you through ways and people that you especially ordain. Lord, be a mother or father to these children. They need you so much. And, Lord, I ask for you to especially help their parents, oh Lord rescue them and restore them as the healthy and nurturing guiding, responsible, loving parents they have been called to be by you. Lord, please have mercy on families. Please have mercy on these very important and influential relatoinships. Lord, I ask for you to please forgive any bitter root judgements that are mdae by parents and children in these and other situations where there is disharmony in the roles between parent and child. Lord, I ask for you to remove and forgive and cleanse all and any biter root judgements and to cover these judgements with your blood and seal them with your blood and that they cannot be uased by the evil one any longer. Lord, I bless you for healing and and love and for being our perfect parent. I bless you Jesus. You are the hOly One of Israel. COme HOly SPirit, come into the hearts and homes of these families and restore them to be expressions of love and right relationships for YOU. Thank You Lord, Jesus. Bring angels to minister to this mother and her children. Thank YOu Jesus.


Posted by: FriendOfGod

O dear gracious God, I plead with you that you lead this mother to repentance and salvation. I ask of you in Jesus name I pray, Amen.


Posted by: de_javue

christy....
thank you for your prayers and words..
i do want to let go, i do not want to be her savior or her backbone.. but it is a role i have carried since i was a child..
i try very hard to let it go and live my life but she knows just what to do and say to make me stay..
this is why i come here for strength and prayer.
i would love nothing more than to see her stand tall and live her life and me do the same, but i feel as if she is a wounded child, and i am all there is to help her.
your right she has to hit bottom and call out to the lord, but she has hit bottom many times before, her story goes way beyond this board and believe me she has been there, done that,i desparately want "my" life back, i hate having to worry all of the time. i have serious health issues i cannot tolerate the stress,but at the same time i just cannot walk away.
i sat in bed last night and cried wondering what would become of her if my family and i were to move away..
i know its not my place, but it has been layed in my lap since i was a child because of the death of my brother. my mom went over the deep end and i took care of her, and i guess that role continues.
again i thank you..


Posted by: christythompson

Remember, We have simular histories...
You are not abandoning her by standing firm
Telling her she is being prayed for and only offering her to get treatment & pray the salvation prayer of surrendering her life to Christ.
That has to be a mantra...
Said over and over again.
If you put her in God's hands.
He will not fail, even though there will be darkness.
When she starts with her litany of guilt and saying she has no one.
Point out Jesus has always been there for her
and its time to call on him. Then say you love her and end the conversation.
End it even if it means hanging up on her, because I am sure she tries to keep you on until she gets her way.
Its like you have danced to Satans tune through her.
Time to Stop, don't you think?
Love to you.


Posted by: jeremiah184

Dear Lord, in your precious name I ask that you reveal to this child how much and how faithful you are in loving her. LOrd, I ask for you to come into her heart, mind and thoughts and I ask for you to cleanse these places with your blood and to reveal to this child that YOU LOVE HER and that YOU want her eyes and heart to be turned to YOU. That her love and importance comes through YOU to her. Lord, I praise you and thank you for mother child relationships, I thank you for children and for parents. Lord, I thank you that you are the greatest, most perfect God and Father. You are HOly and worthy of praise, LOrd, in your name I bind the strong man in this relationship and I ask that you bind all unhealthy soul ties between this child and parent and break them and make them useless. Lord, I ask for you to move in a mighty way to end the unhealthy attachments between this parent and child and for you to make a way for them to receive the healing they both need. Lord, I ask for you to forgive any idol worship that is going on, making both or either parent/child more important than you in their lives. Lord, I ask that you remind this child of God that the evil one wants her to think her mom's problems are more important than YOU. HOw sly, the evil one is but NOT VICTORIOUS. You Jesus died on cross and defeated these lies that come to us and I thank YOU, and I thank you so much. Lord, I ask that you give this child a deep healing, and a sound mind, and release this child from the responsibility of getting her mother well. Lord, I ask that you right her sense of responsibility, that you measure her thinking about this circumstance against your standard of truth and release her from all false perceptions and thoughts and cleanse and purify her thinking with your precious blood and fill her mind with YOUR TRUTH about relationships and responsibilities. Lord, help this child to turn HERSELF over to you COMPLETELY and I ask that her unmet needs to be a child and to be parented correctly be met by you. I thank you for loving us, and I ask that you give this child your HOly Spirit wisdom to mature and to turn her identity over to you to shape and nurture adn please give her a heart to want YOU. To know that YOU are trustworthy. Lord, I bless you for loving us and teaching us and wanting us to be more like you.
I respectfully want to tell you, that as a child who has been where you are, as in this reversal of roles, and the worry thing going on, that, there may be a fear on your part to break away from your mom because then she wouldn't be there as a child to worry and fret about. I kindof and forgive me if I am out of line here, I don't mean to judge or offend, I am speaking from some of the insights I gained from going through the same place you are going through now, wonder if not setting boundaries with your mom, even emotionally, that there is a deep wish for your mom to care and worry about you as much as you worry about and care for her and this need is met in a backwards kind of way when you remain in the position of worrying and caring for her. Try to be like a Mary and not a Martha right now. Find your needs met through Christ to love and parent you. Of course there are times that being a Martha is what is needed, however, you sound as Martha did and what was CHrist's reply? Listen to HIM. GO TO HIM. He created your mother too! Get some much needed parenting for your self from HIM and then, actually, when you are in the role of "parenting" your mom, You will have been taught by the PERFECT PARENT how to handle her, and your responses and actions towards her will be GOD generated. Forgive our parents Lord, and please forgive us children for any judgements we have made against our parents. Lord, you know that we were not optimally parented by our parents, you know everything. Lord, I ask that you take what satan made/means for evil in these circumstances and turn it/them all for good. Lord, parent us that were turned to parents at a yound age and carried that role. Lord, come to our deep unmet needs that need your filling, you loving, your healing, your nurturing and help us not to be afraid of the surfacing of those unmet needs. Please, Lord, I ask in your name to liberate us from the wrong guilt, and fill us with your HOly SPirit and give us please in YOUR MERCY FATHER GOD teachable hearts and minds and emotions to be taught by you through your loving us as the perfect parent, how to be the parent that can truly set the right boundaries, that can truly nurture and love without undermining self-confidence and can discipline and motivate without causing resentment, and can react and be in mind, body, heart, words and actions the parent that can teach and model and encouarge those we love to have a right sense of responsibility and a God shaped character. Lord, help us not to infantalize those around us and keep them from learning from their failures, mistakes and successes and victories. Lord, we ask that you protect those weaker than ourselves and ask that you gently teach them and protect them from all kinds of dangers and traps that would seriously harm them or others. Lord, You are the Blessed Father. Enable us, equip us to learn from you and apply this knowledge to others for your GLORY and YOUR WAYS. That all relationships be true and loving expressions of a right relationship with you first. Thank YOu Jesus. I praise you Jesus.


Posted by: de_javue

all of your words give me hope and the courage to let her go and let god handle her.
i do long for her to be my mom for a change, its tough raising parents and its even tougher being alone while doing it, i will keep praying and praying and asking the lord to help not only me but her because i know she will not seek him.
when my brother died i was 12 years old and she had a nervous breakdown, at which time i became her rock, and she continues to count on me to take care of things.
my family has washed their hands of her, they back me 100% but refuse to play apart in her games.
and that plays on my mind every day..
in a perfect world she would be my mom,take care of herself and be a grandmother to my son, but our life has never been close to perfect, but i somehow rose above the drinking and self loathing that she has bee trapped by. for that i am so blessed and thankful..
i am so happy to have found this sight and you beautiful people.
your words are true and i know it, its just still very hard.
but i wil pray and ask for forgiveness for being her out, for allowing her to hurt me and ask the lord to help me.
thank you


Posted by: christythompson

You are loved
Just remember she won't cry to Jesus if you're the one that answers.
Isn't Jesus the real Savior?
the One who will heal her and give her eternity.
Isn't that what you want....?
Give that to her....


Posted by: de_javue

thank you christy!!!


Posted by: whome?

lord i pray send the holy spirit that if it is possible she repents from his convition.amen