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need help in my marriage

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Posted by: michellejane

Hi there.
I come from a very unattentive family. my husband and i live emotionally separate lives and this is probably due to both of our behaviour patterns. I can survive with very little attention but at other times when i would like some the only way i know how to get it is by starting an arguement with him. I know that this is wrong- so much of my behaviour is wrong and the truth is i'm tired of changing even with Jesus. For once i wish someone else could do the changing for me. The journey is so miserable and hard and yet i know that if i dont keep on going i wont receive the peace of mind and beauty that comes from following Him. I need help with this.It's as if life is some mean joke where i have to jump through hoops to learn the basic things about love and people, like i've never deserved to have love and closeness, i've always accepted that it's something that other people have;until i met Jesus and He blessed me with a Spiritual Mother and a Godly friend or three.
What chance do we have of raising stable children when other people have messed up our lives- or we've messed them up ourselves? I'm tired of crying and being lonely- it's a deep down lonliness but thankfully the Lord fills it.

Lord, forgive me for my behaviour today. I know that You are the One True God and that Your love is unfailing towards us. Forgive the way that i've spoke to my husband and my children and the way that i behave in church. Love me better and teach me easy ways to change. Dry my tears and teach me joy and laughter. Give me the courage to be happy and the ability to grow in real joy. Turn my tears to laughter. They say that You will wipe away every tear- i need that now thank you. I'm ashamed of my character the sad part is what chance did i have to be any different? I give thanks that You are the changer of people, of hearts and minds and behaviour. God Bless- because i know He does.


Posted by: son of God

My LORD Jesus and ABBA Farther i pray for this sister for iam the same i ask u send the Holy Spirit to her teach stop the blame game u give us the chioce to respond to u way or the flesh help her to die to that part of the flesh my LORD mat u Father Touch her haert i pray in agreement with she thown out in pray in Jesus name i pray amen


Posted by: ninababy73

Father, continue Your work within michelle's life. Create in her a clean heart full of love, patience and joy. Let her know the joys of true love that You give and have for her. Mold and shape her Lord, make her pliable to You, Your will and Your way.

Help her to speak in love to her husband and children. Help her husband to speak in love to her. Open up the floodgates of positive, loving communication between the two. Allow loving emotions to flow between these two. Help them to show affection to one another. May they realize that what hurts have happened in the past are in the past. Move within the confines of this relationship. Move within the souls of each person. Make this a loving relationship, full of love for You and for each other.

So be it, Lord. I pray. Amen


Posted by: Lynn7

Father touch Michellejane, show her that you have a place in her heart that will erase all loneliness. Father step into this marriage, show all of the members of this family how to love an agape' type of love. In the name of Jesus. AMEN


Posted by: jeremiah184

Lord, I ask in Your nam that You would heal this cild of Yours in the very places she needs in her heart, her mind and her memories. Lord, I ask in YOur name Jesus that You would instruct her heart and mind and that You would give her understanding of Your WOrd. Pls. put a ring of fire around her and her family, her marriage, her relationships with her kids, them with eachother and I ask in Your name Jesus that You would not allow the evil one to exploit this familys' weaknesses and that You would guard them and counsel them with Your eye upon them and do not let the evil one rob them. I ask fo rYou to remove and sever from this dear child of Yours Jesus al generational sins and weaknesses and that You would in Your love and mercy, Turth and Grace pour YOur blood upon those wounds and weaknesses and that they are washed clean and transformed for You Jesus. I thank You Jesus. I praise You Heavenly Father, the one True God, the Great Creator, the ALpha and the Omega.

You may want to read Psalm 119 and ask the Lord to read with You and help you to do the things the psalmist asks the Lord. This psalm can teach us many valuable ways of being, such as "Turn mine eyes form worthless things," As God to renew your mind when you read the Bible. If ou are Born again, you are a new creature in Christ and I suggest, humbly that you ask Jesus to help you accept this and to live this Truth. You are not defeated. He who is in you is greater than he who is in th world. He is an awesome God and He loves YOU.


Posted by: letinitgo

Father God, I come before you with praise. I will sing praises to Your name. Jesus, You said when two or more are gathered, there are You also. God Please touch Michelle and open up the communication with her and her husband. God, bless this marriage as only You can do.
In Jesus' name
AMEN


Posted by: youngijp

"...What I would, that do I not; but what I hate, that do I....I know that in me (that is, in my flesh,) dwelleth no good thing: for to will is present with me; but how to perform that which is good I find not."
Romans 7:15,18 KJV

"Let thine hand help me; for I have chosen thy precepts."
Psalm 119:173 KJV

"Hear, O LORD,...have mercy also upon me, and answer me,....O God of my salvation."
Psalm 27:7,9 KJV
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Lord, I ask in Your nam that You would heal this cild of Yours in the very places she needs in her heart, her mind and her memories. Lord, I ask in YOur name Jesus that You would instruct her heart and mind and that You would give her understanding of Your WOrd. Pls. put a ring of fire around her and her family, her marriage, her relationships with her kids, them with eachother and I ask in Your name Jesus that You would not allow the evil one to exploit this familys' weaknesses and that You would guard them and counsel them with Your eye upon them and do not let the evil one rob them. I ask fo rYou to remove and sever from this dear child of Yours Jesus al generational sins and weaknesses and that You would in Your love and mercy, Turth and Grace pour YOur blood upon those wounds and weaknesses and that they are washed clean and transformed for You Jesus. I thank You Jesus. I praise You Heavenly Father, the one True God, the Great Creator, the ALpha and the Omega.
You may want to read Psalm 119 and ask the Lord to read with You and help you to do the things the psalmist asks the Lord. This psalm can teach us many valuable ways of being, such as "Turn mine eyes form worthless things," As God to renew your mind when you read the Bible. If ou are Born again, you are a new creature in Christ and I suggest, humbly that you ask Jesus to help you accept this and to live this Truth. You are not defeated. He who is in you is greater than he who is in th world. He is an awesome God and He loves YOU.
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Originally Posted by letinitgo
Father God, I come before you with praise. I will sing praises to Your name. Jesus, You said when two or more are gathered, there are You also. God Please touch Michelle and open up the communication with her and her husband. God, bless this marriage as only You can do. In Jesus' name AMEN

Father touch Michellejane, show her that you have a place in her heart that will erase all loneliness. Father step into this marriage, show all of the members of this family how to love an agape' type of love. In the name of Jesus. AMEN
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Father, continue Your work within michelle's life. Create in her a clean heart full of love, patience and joy. Let her know the joys of true love that You give and have for her. Mold and shape her Lord, make her pliable to You, Your will and Your way.
Help her to speak in love to her husband and children. Help her husband to speak in love to her. Open up the floodgates of positive, loving communication between the two. Allow loving emotions to flow between these two. Help them to show affection to one another. May they realize that what hurts have happened in the past are in the past. Move within the confines of this relationship. Move within the souls of each person. Make this a loving relationship, full of love for You and for each other. So be it, Lord. I pray. Amen


...Amen: Blessing, and glory, and wisdom, and thanksgiving, and honour, and power, and might, be unto our God for ever and ever. Amen. Revelation 7:12 KJV

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"...Be serious and watchful in your prayers. And above all things have fervent love for one another, for 'love will cover a multitude of sins.' Be hospitable to one another without grumbling."
1 Peter 4:7-9 NKJV

"...This I pray, that your love may abound yet more and more in knowledge and in all judgment; that ye may approve things that are excellent; that ye may be sincere and without offence till the day of Christ; being filled with the fruits of righteousness, which are by Jesus Christ, unto the glory and praise of God....The fruit of the Spirit is in all goodness and righteousness and truth....The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, long-suffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, temperance: against such there is no law."
Philippians 1:9-11; Ephesians 5:9; Galatians 5:22-23 KJV

"Rejoice in the Lord alway: and again I say, Rejoice. Let your moderation be known unto all men. The Lord is at hand. Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God. And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things....Rejoice, though now for a season, if need be, ye are in heaviness through manifold temptations: That the trial of your faith, being much more precious than of gold that perisheth, though it be tried with fire, might be found unto praise and honour and glory at the appearing of Jesus Christ: Whom having not seen, ye love; in whom, though now ye see him not, yet believing, ye rejoice with joy unspeakable and full of glory: Receiving the end of your faith, even the salvation of your souls."
Philippians 4:4-9; 1 Peter 1:6-9 KJV

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