pray for the healing of my marriage. been out of the house for 18 months
and the divorce is finishing in a few weeks. my wife will not change her mind
about no reconciliation. there is a 13 year old daughter in the middle of this.
i have tried sending her letters, books and weekend marriage counseling
pamphlets but nothing changes her mind. when we talk all we do is argue.
thank you for your prayers and thoughts......jt
Posted by: christythompson
This divorse does not mean your marriage
won't be restored and completely healed
You mention arguing when you talk and see her
Stop addressing issues and blame and the he say she say
How about just, being concerned about her
Ask her about her day.... Listen don't offer suggestions
Just understand her
Love her
Stop begging and pleading
Be the warm friendly flirtatious man that won her in the first place
Read "Love must be Tough" by James Dobson
The "Tough" means strong
and if ever there is a time to be strong it is now
Ground yourself in a good church family (Assembly Of God is good)
and discover who God is calling you to be... Is Jesus Lord of your Life? Have you confessed him publically as Lord and surrendered your life?
Your Life, habits, attitudes, heart, mind and all that you are?
Starts there... that is Life and all else is death
Jesus
I pray for this marriage
I pray restoration to it.
God heal the communication and all wounds
God pour out your spirit on this man
and make in him a new creature
Teach him to trust and to speak without arguing
Lord touch this family and daughter
Open the heart of this wife toward her spouse
And no matter what teach him to walk in you
Want all you have for him
Fill him with desire for the baptism of the Holy Spirit
God let him trust you, no matter what he sees
All is not lost while we are in your hand
It is when take ourselves out of your hand
Do things ourselves because we are afraid to let go
that we fail and sink, because you want us to rely on you
Jesus give John hope
Give him peace
Give him eternal life
And bring this family together Amen
John stay plugged in we are here for you
Posted by: Remnant7
Lord, I agree with ChristyT for this man's marriage to be restored. Show this man that he cannot change his wife, but he can change himself. If he will submit himself to You, trust You to help him change into the man of God that his wife will trust to follow, then you can do mighty things, including restoring this marriage. We pray that he will bow his knee to You and take his family to the house of God, walking in newness of life with You.
Posted by: Lynn7
Father intervene in the situation. Give him faith and patience as he waits to see your work because I know that you have been working for the past 18 months. Let him know that you are in control and everything will work out. Nothing is too big for you. Nothing!!!! You are GOD. You can do all things. I thank you for working on this marriage. I thank you for restoring this marriage. In the name of Jesus. AMEN
