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Husband Turning Away from Wife and the Lord
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Posted by: blessedintennessee
I have a message posted under the Restoration of Marriage section but this is the root. My husband is involved in a relationship with a "Christian" woman that doesn't appear to be of anything but evil. She has allowed him into her home at all hours of the night (not to mention in front of her two teenage boys) and she herself is going through a divorce. My husband seems to thrive on this relationship. He has cursed me in front of her. He has disrespected me in front of her. He even goes as far as to get heavily emotionally and physically violent when I try to talk to him about how much this relationship is hurting me. He tells me to "deal with it" and not to push any ultimatums ( I did threaten that if he did not stop that I would take the kids and leave). It is very hurtful. He needs God in his heart. If he had God in his heart, he wouldn't dream of disrespecting ME of all people. In thirteen years, I've did everything for this man. He doesn't even have to fix his dinner plate - even after he has cursed me out. He needs JESUS! He needs to realize that his home, his family, his wife, and his own salvation is not worth this. SHE should know better. I am not passing judgement, but if she were in fact the Christian woman she proclaims herself to be, she wouldn't touch the likes of this situation. She would send him on his merry way and pray for him instead of inviting him into her home at 2:00 in the morning. I don't know how to pray for this situation. I don't know exactly what to pray for. I pray for him the best way that I know how........in the name of Jesus. Will someone please let me know if I am wrong in my thinking? Will someone please advise me on what I should do? You have no idea how much meaning your input has. Thank each and everyone of you from the bottom of my heart and soul. God Bless.
Posted by: Sulten
Dear Amber,
I've read your post. Is there anywhere you can go to get away from this situation immediately and put some time and space between you and your husband? This is really an intolerable situation and your home has become insecure. What a bad example for the children. This can have such far reaching effects on them. This man needs a wake up call. He is treating you like a door mat. I just think you need to get a away from him. He clearly does not appreciate your love. He will continue to do this if you allow it. And please know that this is just my opinon. You are there. You have the advantage of having the spirit over your life to guide you and your immediate needs. Seek the Lord's counsel and perhaps if you can find a good church leader to advice and counsel you. But this is just intolerable. Please know that I will be praying for you and I will make a card with your needs. Please keep us updated as often as you can and to let us know that you are alright.
God Bless,
Bonnie
Dear Lord in Heaven, I pray that this man will be convicted of his sins and the things that he is doing and will be brought to his knees in humble prayer and begging for forgiveness from you and his dear wife and family. I pray that you will bless Amber with the power of discernment over what she should do and where she should go. Lead her to a good pastor or bishop or someone to counsel her right. Most of all keep her safe and secure and the children from a man like this. He needs the Saviour and the blood of the atoning sacrifice to cover his sins. But first he needs humbility and a conviction. I am asking for this for his wife's sake. Please lead her out of this situation and help her to know what to do immediately. Bless her with every help she stands in need of and raise up friends who will aid her and stand by her. Bless her in every way she stands in need, in Jesus Holy name amen.