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mom and dad. brother too.

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Posted by: lostseed

Hi.

I guess when someone in the family is sinning it causes a chain
reaction and hurts the rest of us. Its really eating me and my sisters up.

My dad is hiding things from my mom and is locking things on his computer,
he is having a "relationship" with a woman over the interenet. Its gotten
pretty bad when we ask him what he is doing.

I did not know at first why he was asking me to help him with things, but
I find out now he was only using me to benefit his "affair". An emotional
affair is serious and it is cheating with someone other than your wife.
The next few days are crucial, I think my dad is going to get very, very,
angry more. But I pray for Holy Spirit to break him and his anger and stop
the devil from lieng and attacking us.

He first was cocky about it, now he gets angry -- attacked my mom and my
little sister, threw whatever he could find at them but i stood in front of my
sister so he would not do anything to her.

He doesnt have an anger problem its a rage problem, its unbelievable.
We were all crying. It has been like this growing up. But hiding things from
my mom is making her very upset and heartbroken, please pray for us.

This is the 2nd time he's only hid something, but he has always been
impossible to communicate with and be honest with him because he may
just blow up and attack us. Im not afraid of him attacking me, because
Im older now but I still live at home and go to college. Im afraid
for my mom and her being heart broken and a family torn apart from 22
years of marriage. The family Becky and Robert and the 4 kids.

My relationship with my dad has never been good. My brother also needs
prayer for his marriage, Joe and Crystal. I dont want to talk much about them
but I dont think his wife is a true Christian, because there is no fruit. I also
see no fruit in my dads life. Please pray we are upset.

Being raised this way I've never dated anyone or been able to commit to
much, because I see married people and I don't believe I will ever get married.

I do not feel like I have a home, my dad has kicked me out 4 times,
Ive slept in the woods. I cannot say what I want to tell him because I will
have no place to go, If I tell him the truth he will get angry.

Thanks,
from Jesse.


Posted by: JeriRose12

Lord, so much going on in this family. So much healing needed. You know all that needs to happen, and I pray that You will begin to deal with individual person, that they may come to wholeness in You. Start at whatever place they are in relationship to You -- near to You or far from You. Send the Holy Spirit to begin convicting them of the sin they need to repent of. Send Christians to witness to them of their need for Jesus. Let the light of the Christian family members shine to the unsaved family members, so they will see the good works and want to glorify their Father in heaven. Bring about a series of breakthroughs and miracles, so that the INDIVIDUALS are healed and whole. As You heal each individual, then the family can work together as a whole. Father, let the work begin now. In Jesus Name, amen.

~JeriRose~
Finding YOU in 2006