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son is like a vampire
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Posted by: jeremiah184
He is 13 yrs. old and despite prayer, fasting, me going to a generational healing, lifting him in prayer, having him annoited, taking him to church, praying affirmations over him at night while he sleeps, begging. pleading God to heal him, to deliver him, it is like he is oppressed with a vampire sprit: taking, draining, sucking. He does respond when I pray that Jeuss convict him but this lasts for a moment, which I am deeply thankful for but I can't eekp living with this and having him destroy our peace. My husband is commiting adultry, we a reseparated, but even before this, my son was difficult, call it adhd, whatever, I have asked for healing, wisdom, help, gone to help of all kids, read books, applied principals. Bind and rebuke the spirits, pray a hedge of protection, the whole armour of God, etc. and it always comes back to the lack of true healing and deliverance. I am tired, worn out and have commited this boy, our situation over and over to Jesus. My son calls me a jerk, tells me to go to hell, refuses to do things, and although rewards and punishments work for awhile, his heart isnot truly being changed. He backslides and the revengeful, jealous, low self-seteem, I am the victim comes back out and he may at a moment be accountable but he does not incorporate the lesson and aply the next time. I feel like a failure as a parent, although I submit this to the Lord, I try to teach my chidlren(they plug their ears, rol their eyes, or be passive aggressive when I do our nightly devotions - and believe me - they are not laborious, or condeming - i pray for Jesus to speak through me, for the gifts of the HOly SPirit, to change me, etc. I am worn out and noting seems to correct this boy because he repeats the same immature, rude, entitled behaviour..we don't have a lot of material things either. He says..he doesn't care, he hates me. Help.
Posted by: christythompson
Remember to keep being the parent.
Do not fall into a negotiating mode with them.
Do they all attend church with you?
Are you consistent with your walk?
My son gave me serious grief as a teenager.
I can tell you, that he still had faith.
So in the midst of all the bad language, drugs, rebellion
He would still pray, no matter how limp or unethusiatic.
Don't give up, but douse them in the holy spirit regularly
which regular church attendence in a spirit filled church will help provide
Make sure your home is free of all demonic symbols or things
like dungeons and dragons, violent video games, internet access without filters, certain music, and anything that is a portal for Satan
I am not sure I would let dad take them for visits with his attitude.
Jesus touch this woman to remain strong
keep her strong and sure in the midst of so much crisis.
God I come against all demonic activity
and command you Satan to be gone in Jesus name.
We claim each child for Christ and come against the Destoyer,
all lying spirits, infidelity, anger, rejection, abandonment, insecurity,
chaos, mimicing, restless spirits and all spirits of Satan.
We come against all generational curses.
I get a sence that there is something in your house,
that needs to be found and tossed.
Did any infidelity occur here as well?
Posted by: jeremiah184
I can only say probably yes, because when I was away with the kids, my husband came in and out of the home and after I found out about his affair, someone had put a tape of this women talking on NPR about her book in my shirt drawer. My husband definately commited adultry with her in our home outside of the city. Most of his stuff has been removed. Mu husband was married to a woman for about three years, had two kids with her and she did commit adultry and claimed that he had commited adultry first. He said this was not true and he only divorced her when she abadonded the children to be with her lover. I have ask Jesus to show me with spiritual eyes what needs to be removed. I will ask again. Could it also be the woman who helps out around the house? She, quit, I think out of conviction because I found out she was having an affair with a married man. our forgeing student was fornicating, but no tin this home and she too moved out.
My husband may not have brought this adultress into our home...she is a magazine editor of a national magazine that has to do with homes and since he lied and always told me we never had any money to keep th ehouse up, he was probably embaressed to have hre in our home - its run down. He had let the paint on the ceilng peel away and only when things were really, really bad did he then get things fixed.
I love my son and feel so adrift that he is so hard to manage. He is a truly sweet child amd I feel like I have prayed so much for help. My own family was stolen because of divorce and I just wanted and want a whole famliy built of Christ. It just seems like Jesus is not wanting this as I have been stolen from, humiliated, - this woman wrote about her "companion", my husband for months, and wrote about being in our home, had pictures taken with my husband throwing a baseball with her son, while my own husband has been abusive, hateful, etc towards us, she writes about their extravagent travels to Europe, the caribean, and she still writes about him and herself and I recently learned that while my husabnd can't manage to take care of our home, he has bought a home and is renovating it to the tune of 5,000K a window! He always claimed we had not money to spend and blah, blah, Lies, all of it. I guess it is no wonder that my son has had trouble, is having trouble because all this behaviour of my husband was going on. I have often wondered shy God allowed this all to happen because I became born again in our marriage, attened Bible study fellowship, took my kids to church, sent and continue to send them to Christian school, went to generational healing, been "soaked" with prayer, fasted, have had others pray, and asked to be forgiven, asked for Jesus to change my heart and to supplant my will with His, and yet, I still stuggle. I fee a bit let down, as I confess my sins, in how I respond to my kids at times, I pray at the time of the stress and conflict and I plead for Jesus, the HOly Spirit to come and help, I resist the devil and aometimes I am helped and other times I am not. THen I feel like a failure and I fight depression, and again I am praying to the Lord, to forgive me and to cleanse my heart and to help. I feel like I am in a cycle of peace and destruction over and over again and the intermittant evil that crops up is so distressing that I am weakened, weakened and feel to impotent. Can't God stop this? Nothing is impossible for Him! I would really like Him to deliver us form this distress and to please have mercy and to stop this vicious cycle. It wears a person down and causes me to be constantly vigilant and on guard for when the next attack will come. I have post traumatic stress syndrome from this trial. It is really making me feel useless because all that I do does not seem to bear fruit and yet, I acknowledge the Lord, I try to remain in Jesus and I just don't feel that I am good enough for Him on some level because otherwise, He would be, as I claim His power through being a believer, rebuke satan, but satan comes back and always in the very way that tears at us the most. What is the point of God allowing this? I can't seem to overcome, be delivered of my anger caused by feelings of inadequacy because my kids are not learning from the teaching s of Jesus, they repell Him, they fight me about going to church, doing devotions and I am more than discourage - if God wants us to teach our children, then I think He ought to help us to accomplish that. Doesn't he want a generation of believers? why make it so hard and despite al my prayers and submitting the teaching to God, the finding of the right church, it all turns into a discipline issue and it is not a joyous time. Therefor the associaitons in their minds are negative and once again, my witness is ruined. This then creates another cycle of feeling like a loser parent, inadewuate, feeling that I am responsble to making my faith manifested and there isn't anything I seem do that Jesus rewards with His help and presence, and being there to end this destruction. I feel that everyone who called on the name of the Lord in the Bible, had answers right away. Abraham may have had to wait a very long time but he wasn't bedeviled in the meantime. I pray for endurance. I so want my chidlren to be saved, to love and worship the Lord in spirit and truth and to cal Jesus their one True God and to worship only Him. I want us to remain a family, united, loving, loyal, healthy, lvoing, trusting and trustworthy, to build eachother up, to serve eachother and this is just not happening on a consistent basis - it is like we start to get there and then Jesus allows satan to come and rip up everything and we a ground back down to and I feel ike I am losing heart to keep trying because we never get over the hill. We keep getting shoved back to the pit and struggle to have the faith to get out again by pleading with God. I am losing faith and strenghth that Jesus wants to truly take us to a plessant place and help us thrive and build us up and to let us grow in Him. I am not growing, I am barely treading water. I am tired of feeling like a failure in my faith, my life.
So many people have better lives, and not just materially, but their families are lving and intact, their kids are well -adjusted and want to please their parents and want to do well. These families serve false Gods or no God or are outright rejecting of Jesus and they are blessed! I was told that i am the head and notthe tail but Jeuss seems to want me to be a tail and have crumbs for life. I acknowledge the Lord and I ask him to guide my footsteps, and my decisions and often I am anxious that Jeuss won't repond or I won't hear HIm or I won't obey Him and I pray to be not be led astray, to be changed, and enabled to OBEY. I feel inadequate and I am lonely for adult companionship. I need help with so many things and God has seen fit to send that help. I am worn out. I feel lousy about not being a better parent. Who had to trust in the Lord when they did not even hear from Him. No one. Every person in the Bible had heard directly from the Lord in an unmistakable voice. It was clearly God.
Posted by: christythompson
I am tired and need to go home from work.
God gives us all free choice.
He has heard your cries and prayers.
But remember, your husband has a choice
of heaven or hell, life or death
and he is choosing death.
Don't give God the credit/blame for your husbands sin.
God is calling him but will not make the choice for him.
Your husband must answer Gods call.
it has nothing to do with how you are trying to do your best.
Our best is never enough, thus we can't save ourselves
only jesus can save and give life.
Rejection and the spirits of rejection are bad
and have taken their toll on you.
You are a good parent, but there is an attack on your family.
You are in the midst of storm
and you can only walk on water
if you keep your eyes on jesus.
be careful the words you speak
because there is power in your words
Do not listen to lying spirits or repeat what they tell you.
There is power in those words, have to say it again.
Part of rising above a thing
Is to be careful to listen to the lord
claim and only speak what you want to take root/using gods word
Conduct spiritual warfare and caste Satan off your kids.
Out of your home...
Spend time in praise
Spend time being thankful
Create a plan of action for yourself
Take your family to church and church activities in the week.
Stay plugged in, to us and other believers.
Jesus will be the lifter of your head
Posted by: cana333
I know this is a bold statement for this site, but try to pray the rosary. Somewhere there has been a lot of evil in your house.