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sexual abuse to 3 yr old daugher...I am broken inside as a new Christian..please pray
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Posted by: micki
First of all, I must apologize for not being here praying for others in a long time...I have had so much hard ache in my life lately that I took a time where I had to do some real soul searching....there were times when I was so hurt and broken and Ive gone through severe depression....
If you go back and read some of my posts you will see that my husband left me with twin babies...I later found out he was seeing someone and they now have a baby together. As of Aug.2005, we are divorced. My ex never saw my children for 2 -1/2 yrs and a judge awarded that my 3 year old twins fly across the country to see this stranger. They were terrified. They were there for 2 wks and during that time I lay on the couch in my pajamas severly depressed. When my 3 yr old twins returned, I instantly noticed one of my twins being very "different." I assumed it was jet lag. About 3 days after coming back from there dads...one of my twins told me that he touched her privates. I video taped this conversation as I went through a nasty divorce and new I needed evidence. About 2 days after that, she mentioned it again and went into detail...again it was videotaped. I took her to the Childrens Hospital and yes she has been sexually damaged. I took her to the police station and I was present during the interview...it was again taped. Again, she went into great detail as to what he did to her. As a mom, I was broken.....
This all happened in Sept 2005. The biological dad beat the lie detector test. I have Dr. and social workers tell me that he can beat it...prepretators can beat these as they are so in denial.... The dad is military and has also told me in the past that he has Post Traumatic Stress (been in overseas war zones)...he is also a heavy drinker. I have had people tell me that military can beat these tests in case they are captured in a war.
Because the "dad" beat this lie detector test, the police in 2 provinces ( I am in Canada) dropped the case.
I have since hired a lawyer .....According to my court order my twins are to see this "dad" this summer for 3 wks....
My twins will NEVER see this creep again!! I believe my 3 yr old...a 3 yr old does not even know this kind of language and se went into detail as to what he did!! I had a police officer tell me that perhaps she fell off her bike and got sexually damaged. I have a Dr. letter saying no way could it happen this way...she was sexually penetrated.
My prayer request is this: Please in the name of Jesus, protect me and my girls....We have had so much heart ache and I know that it is only Jesus who can help me through this. I pray that my children will never have to see this man again....if he is not put behind bars, I pray that the only way they will ever have to see him is in the city where we live, supervised.
Since my divorce, I have turned to God and am a new Christian....I have always been a believer, but I have truely turned my heart to God. I just am so hurt because there has been so much trauma in my life and being a single mom going through all this has been so hard. Please pray for a miracle...pray for peace, joy and protection.
Thank you and God Bless you all
Posted by: FriendOfGod
O dear gracious God, you've just got to intervene and have this husband repent! Please have him trun from his wicked ways and drive him to his knees. Please keep these children away from him! Protect them please! I ask of you in Jesus name I pray, Amen.
Posted by: christythompson
I wish to open my arms to you
and your babies to hug you.
I would definately appeal the sexual abuse case.
God move heavens and grant favor for this mother and these children.
Protect these babies and end all contact with this man.
Lord let there be a judge that will hear this case.
Convict this man and punish him for this crime.
Heal this baby, and remove the memory of abuse.
Touch this dear mother who is broken.
Posted by: lynnie778
My heart just bleeds for you and I pray you FEEL the depth of the love of God and HIS Mighty hand in all this....
Oh God.....Touch this woman and her twins.....stay so close to her and help her FEEL your comfort and speak to her.....Give her wisdom and favor and stike a blow to the enemy here......and Father never let this man come near these children again......convict him and cause him to repent..You are the God of all flesh....How we praise you....
Almighty God....Prince of Peace......Bishop of our souls.
In Jesus Name and for his sake we pray +
Lynn Collier
Posted by: christythompson
God I continue to hold this family and Michelle up to You.
Lord, Bless her and her children in every way
I speak healing to her.
Lord Move in mercy to protect them all.
Surround them in Love
Posted by: micki
Thank you all for your prayers. As I read them, I just weeped. Just having people who I have never even met before pray for me and my children truly touches me. It just shows how we are all one big family and some day I will meet you all. Thank you so much and please continue to pray for this terrible situation...I pray that the outcome will be positive and that my twin girls will always be safe with mommy.
I pray that God protect you and keep you happy and healthy.....hugs!
Posted by: JeriRose12
Father God, I pray that You will move on behalf of this mother and children. Do not let these children go to visit their father this summer! Keep them far apart! I pray that someone will step in and give full custody to the mother and no visitation rights to the father. Keep this family safe; be their Father and Husband. In Jesus Name, I ask and pray, amen.
~JeriRose~
Finding YOU in 2006
Posted by: diamondcreates
FATHER GOD IN THE NAME OF JESUS -
TOUCH THIS MOTHER'S HEART, MIND AND SOUL FATHER GOD. EVEN IN THE FACE OF ALL THIS EVIL SHE CONTINUES TO TURN TO YOU. FATHER GOD - HEAL THESE TWINS FATHER GOD. ALLOW THESE PRAYERS OPEN A DOOR FOR THIS MOTHER TO BE ABLE TO PROTECT HER CHILDREN AND THAT THE FATHER WILL HAVE SUPERVISED VISITS WITH THESE CHILDREN.
FATHER GOD - OPEN THE PATH WAY FOR THIS MOTHER TO REACH OUT AND CONTECT WITH SOMEONE WHO WILL LISTEN TO HER AND THESE TWINS FOR THEY HAVE BEEN ABUSED AND WHAT WAS TAKEN FROM THEM WILL BE RESTORED AND THE PERSON WHO TOOK IT AWAY WILL HAVE TO PAY A HUNDRED FOLDS.
FATHER GOD BLESS THESE LITTLE ONES - TOUCH THEIR HEARTS, MINDS, BODIES, AND SPIRITS FATHER GOD. BLESS THIS MOTHER WITH STRENGTH TO CARRY ON FOR NOT ONLY HERSELF BUT FOR THESE LITTLE ANGELS. FATHER GOD THIS I PRAY IN YOUR EVER HOLY NAME, AMEN, AMEN, AMEN
FATHER GOD PROTECT THIS FAMILY - WRAP A HEDGE OF PROTECTION AROUND EACH AND EVERY PERSON IN THIS FAMILY THAT NO EVIL SHALL HARM THEM ANY LONGER. FATHER GOD THIS I PRAY IN YOUR NAME, AMEN,AMEN,AMEN
Posted by: jessicanphillip
I am so sorry that this is happening. Fight, fight FIGHT! I know what you are going through, and I'm really sorry. Maybe you should hire 2 or 3 lawyers, and I strongly reccomend bringing this judges decision to the attention of the media. Thie media is interested in these cases, and people will be outraged. Old men who don't care about 3 year old girls, may well care about their reputations and re election. The police fell down on this, and should be fired. Have childrens services investigate him, and show THEM the videos. Childrens services can take action completely on their own. Trust me. If he has his own kids, childrens services where he lives should have a report of this,and copies of these videos. They are required to investigate EVERY claim, even if its been to court a hundred times. You could have them investigating him for the rest of his life, just by calling in anonymous complaints. A woman who did not like me did that to me for a while, and THAT was wrong, but molesting children is more wrong, and the system can be used productively in that case. He could have his own kids, even future kids, taken away if he doesn't leave yours alone. And if he is a child molester, he should. Let him know you won't back down, and he may want to, as this could also cost him his job, if he is ever exposed. I appologize, again, for being harsh, but that is one thing that really gets under my skin.
Anyway, I am praying for the right thing to happen here, and the guilty party to come to light.
Posted by: prayyior
Heavenly Father, I stand in agreement with all these prayers for these girls and for their Mom. Lord, bless them. I ask you to enter into their lives and heal their wounds and restore their damaged hearts. Lord, protect them from this man.
Lord, I ask you to dispatch this very moment 4 angels to stand guard around this man. Lord, let them not watch over him, but rather watch him, and if he manages to get near any child they will physically remove him from the vicinity of any child. Lord, I ask if necessary, they will show themselves in the physical so that he knows that you are not tolerating this evil any longer. Lord, I know you have given people free will, but your Word says that whatever we ask in the Name of Jesus, YOU WILL DO. Lord, you have told us to Love the little children and because you loved them, and protected them, we also know you want them to be protected now. Therefore if two or three of us agree, Your Word says you will do it. Lord, we ask you to do it this moment!
Lord God we stand in the gap for these children and all children that may come in contact with this man, and declare that he must never again touch a child in an evil manner. Lord, we thank you that you hear and answer our prayers! We praise you Lord, that this is done in the Name of Jesus Christ our Lord, and our deliverer! Praise you Lord, and Thank You! Amen and Amen and AMEN
Posted by: jeremiah184
Jesus, In YOur Precious and Truthful Name I ask for YOu to bring what is in darkness to light about this man and bring into subjection his will and do not let satan work through him to hurt or harm these chidlren or this mother anymore. Jesus We cry out to You because You are our ony hope to protect and interven and be the necessary power in this situation for Your love and goodness and ways to be triumphant. Please, dear Jesus, give this mother wisdom and cut off from her anyone or any idea that would lead her astray or ensnare her. Bind Her feet to the paths of righteousness and bring her the people you assign on earth to help her and her children. Lord, Jesus protect these children and all children and do not let any of them be around a sinful lifestyle, or be harmed. Lord, deliver , deliver this mother and these children and what satan has meant for evil , pls. Lord, in YOur word mean for good. Give her relief and give her the necessary power to defeat the wickedness that she is dealing with Jesus. Thank You Lord. Amen.
Posted by: MarkSentMe
Children DO NOT make these things up!! That police officer is an imbecile
Make sure you get a full sexual abuse assessment and report. Talk to your Department of Social Services. Above all, let your children know that you believe them! Tell her how proud you are of her for being so brave and having the courage to tell.
Dear Lord,
Thank You for our sister micki. Please comfort her and wrap your loving arms around micki and her two babies. Draw them close and keep them safe. Send an angel to watch over them. Burden the father to come clean and repent. Please shine a light and let the truth be known. Please bless those in charge with the care of this situation with discernment and patience and wisdom. Please open the eyes of the authorities. Please ease micki's heart and help her to forgive herself and to know that we have the free gift of forgiveness through You.
Thank You, Lord for the blessings of children. Please help us to be good mentors to our children and to lead them with the heart of a teacher. Thank You. In Jesus' Name I Pray. Amen.
Sharyn
Posted by: micki
I am so touched by all your prayers. Thank you so much! All I have is prayer...all I can do is give this to God and trust in Him to intervene and keep my children protected. Please pray for the lawyer I hired...that God gives her guidance and wisdom ...please pray for the judge and for all the legalities that will be involved...they will have the final say as to whether my children go back and see Bruce (my ex husband)....God can direct my lawyer and judge and I pray that He will. Lord, please protect my girls....I pray in the name of Jesus that they will never have to be with him unsupervised again..I pray that justice will be served. Woe to those who harm the children! I stand on this word!
I love you Lord, please give my wisdom and strength, patience, peace and joy....thank you Lord Jesus and prayer warriors, God Bless You!! Hugs to you all...thank you from the bottom of my heart for your prayers.
Posted by: bjc
FATHER GOD,I PRAY FOR THIS MOTHER.WHAT PAINS AND SORROW.HOW HER HEART MUST ACHE.BUT YOU FATHER ARE THE DEVINE HEALER.PLEASE FATHER,DON'T LET THESE PRECIOUS BABIES HAVE TO ENDURE THIS TRAUMA AGAIN.DEAL WITH THIS FATHER
AND LET HIM REPENT AND TELL THE TRUTH.HE NEEDS HELP.BUT DON'T LET THE INNOCENT CHILDREN PAY FOR HIS SICKNESS.TURN THE SITUATION AROUND LORD AND DO THE IMPOSSIBLE FOR YOU SPECIALIZE IN IMPOSSIBILITIES.I RELEASE MY HEART TO YOU FATHER GOD FOR YOU ARE IN COMPLETE CONTROL.TURN AROUND WHAT WAS MEANT TO DESTROY AND WAS BAD,INTO SOMETHING GOOD AND AND INTO A REAL TESTIMONY.BLESS THIS NEW CHILD OF GOD AND MOTHER AND TAKE CARE OF HER AND HER NEEDS. :
. LET HER KNOW THAT YOU ARE THERE FOR HER AND YOU ARE WITH HER ALL THE WAY.I ASK THIS IN YOUR PRECIOUS NAME,THE NAME THAT IS ABOVE EVERY OTHER NAME,THE NAME OF JESUS,AMEN AND AMEN.I PRAISE YOU
AND MAGIFY YOUR HOLY NAME AND STOMP DOWN ALL STRONGHOLDS NOW AND FOREVER MORE.
WE GOT THE VICTORY.
Posted by: yowurl01
Lord please send your ministering angels to this mom and girls and protect them by the power and the healing of the Holy Spirit.
Let it all work out in thier favor so that he never gets his hands on these girls or any other child again. Lord you said in your word unto those that harmed chidren that it would better if a stone were tide to them and they were cast into the sea than for them to offend a little one (Lord have mercy). Turn your light on in him and deal with his conscience and bring repentance.
Lord thank you for being this families strength because it had to be you who held them together through all of this. Lord I pray that you give them complete victory over the enemy in this man and send forth your justice and healing to all.
Give them a praise report of victory!
In jesus name amen
Posted by: micki
Hi prayer warriors!
Once again, I am please asking for prayer. Just found out yesterday that my ex's lawyer will be cross examining me a wk after Easter....this is all about my 3 yr old daughter saying her biological dad molested her after seeing him for the first time since a baby. A judge awarded that my twin 3 yr olds see him after not knowing who he is as he left us.... She went into great detail as to what he did....My ex took a lie detector test and beat it. However, I have been told that he is trained to beat them as he is military. Perpretators who are in denial can also beat these tests. Because he beat it, the police have dropped the case and I am fighting for my twins that they never have to see him unsupervised ever again! I so need prayers, as my ex is a scarey man and I dont know what else he is capable of doing.
Please pray that when I am cross examined, that his lawyer, will no without doubt that every word I say is true! and that as a mom, I need to protect my little girls...Please pray for wisdom for me! I am so nervous about doing this....please pray for me...I will keep you posted as to when and how it went. Thank you all so much!!!!
Hugs, Micki......God bless you all bunches!
Posted by: rainbow788
Father God, I pray for your intervention in this situation as Micki goes to court in this matter I pray that the truth will come to light and i pray that You will be with Micki as she is cross examined by her ex's lawyer, helping her to stay calm under stress and bless her with wisdom and with peace. Lord I pray a hedge of protection around Micki and her children. I ask and pray in the Holy name of Jesus, Amen.
Posted by: Beverlyjoy
Praying in agreement that you, dear Lord will be the defense and a strong tower for this mother when she goes to court. Bind the enemy and his subtle attack via the biological father. Let the enemy be exposed that this situation may come to an end and the mother and her children may have closure.
Protect them Lord.
Posted by: micki
Hi prayer warriors!
Once again, I am please asking for prayer. Just found out yesterday that my ex's lawyer will be cross examining me a wk after Easter....this is all about my 3 yr old daughter saying her biological dad molested her after seeing him for the first time since a baby. A judge awarded that my twin 3 yr olds see him after not knowing who he is as he left us.... She went into great detail as to what he did....My ex took a lie detector test and beat it. However, I have been told that he is trained to beat them as he is military. Perpretators who are in denial can also beat these tests. Because he beat it, the police have dropped the case and I am fighting for my twins that they never have to see him unsupervised ever again! I so need prayers, as my ex is a scarey man and I dont know what else he is capable of doing.
Please pray that when I am cross examined, that his lawyer, will no without doubt that every word I say is true! and that as a mom, I need to protect my little girls...Please pray for wisdom for me! I am so nervous about doing this....please pray for me...I will keep you posted as to when and how it went. Thank you all so much!!!!
Hugs, Micki......God bless you all bunches!
Posted by: Rachel R
Lord, GUARD THE CHILDREN!
Let truth be told and all lies exposed.
Heal them, Lord, and turn sorrow into freedom for all.
In Jesus' Name, Amen.
Posted by: MarkSentMe
Do you have a lawyer? If you don't- GET ONE! NOW! You will NOT be able to prove to your ex's lawyer anything! The lawyer works for him, not you or your children! You could have a video tape of the assault and they would plea the "Shaggy 5th Ammendment"- "IT WASN'T ME". That lawyer will twist everything you say and make your daughter out to be some kind of seductress, thus putting the blame on YOU!
Dear Lord,
Please watch over our sister micki and her two precious babies. Please send a lawyer who will advocate for her in this situation. Please burden the judge's heart and conscience to have zero tolerance for crimes against children. Please burden the heart of her ex-husband to seek help for his problem. please protect his child from harm as well. Please open the eyes of his current wife to not cover for him or make excuses for his behavior and actions. Thank You, Lord. In Jesus' Name I Pray. Amen.
Sharyn
Posted by: micki
Yes! I am so fortunate that my parents have hired a real good lawyer! Thank you sooo much for your prayers!!!
Please just continue to pray for me and my girls!!
As a mother, I was so broken, but God has given me strength!! Praise God!
Through Jesus, this battle will be won!!!
Posted by: Beverlyjoy
Amen, Micki, the battle WILL be won.