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Posted by: stahrfisher

Up until last Tuesday I thought that I had the perfect life with 3 great kids and a wonderful husband. But Tuesday night my husband of 9 years told me that he was having an affair with another woman and he didn't want to be married to me anymore. I still thought that there was hope and got him to talk to our pastor who then got him to agree to counseling the next morning. He slept in the children's room that night. The next morning at counseling he told me that there was no hope for our marriage and he was in love with this other woman and wanted out. I have been praying, and praying, and trying to be strong. I am willing to forgive what he did. I just want my family back! Yesterday I was cleaning the kid's room and found his wedding ring on the floor. This morning I checked one of our checking accounts and he had wiped it and our savings out. I am praying so hard but I feel so helpless to stop this. I know to give and let God but I keep feeling the more I let go the more he pulls away. Please, pray for all of us. I believe that marriage is forever and I still love him very much even after all he has done, isn't that what marriage is about?
Thanks
Sharon


Posted by: MarkSentMe

Welcome. I am so sorry you are going through this.

Father God,
Thank You for our sister Sharon. Please wrap Your loving arms around her and draw her closer to You. Please comfort her during this time and plase comfort her children. Lord, I know You hate divorce; please burden this husband's heart for his family. Please put people in his path who will be bold to speak against this adulterous relationship. Please protect Sharon and her children from gossip and speculation and surround her with prayer warriors who will pray for them and be a beacon for them. Please bless them with the strength to go through these trials and let them know You are in control and in charge. Please send an angel to watch over them and to light their path. Lord, You are the Great Comforter and the Great Counselor. Lord, You carry us when we are too weak to go on. You hold our hearts when we are broken. Thank You, Lord!
In Your name I Pray. Amen.

Sharyn


Posted by: ninababy73

Loving Father, I pray for Your precious hand to be upon Sharon right now. May she not look at what is going around her, but just start to be steadfast in looking at You. You love her. Today, Father, I pray that You will remove this spirit of brokenness and discourageness from within it. May these spirits flee seven ways from her.

Father, You love her so I pray knowing and believing in Your very best being ushered into her life. May favor be upon her in the areas of finances and marriage.

May all needs be met for her and her household. Cover her in Your perfect peace that passes all understanding.

You are a very present help in a time of trouble and Your Word is true!

In Jesus' Name, I pray. Amen


Posted by: christythompson

I am so sorry
we are praying
but also be wise and seek legal counsel
Half of that savings account was yours
and he had no right to wipe it out
He is being selfish in his total disregard for your family
Saving your marriage does not mean you lay down
and become a further victim.
I had the same devastation in my own life
and know you are stunned and broken.
You are the one concerned for your kids and their support
so see what is left in any other accounts
A good attorney can go after that account
he cleaned out and that will slow his exit
so be swift...
A judge can order support without a divorse
so ensure you have a roof and food.
God can bring this back
but show your husband you are also smart.
They don't respect groveling, nor do they
come back to someone who does
but usually to someone who doesn't need them
they chase after, so be that someone.
You still maintain you love them
but have standards and expectations
Your fair due monetarily is part of that.
"Love must be Tough" by James Dobson is great.
Tough means strong here.

Jesus
be with this woman
Ease her pain
guide her feet to be swift
and let her move without fear
Help her to make right choices
and to care for herself in the midst of rejection
God I pray for this mans salvation
for a man who knows you
could never do what he has done.
I pray for restoration of this marriage
I pray for the removal of this woman from his life
and the removal of all temptations for infidelity
Do not let this woman fear taking action
to regain the money from the bank account
not to fear being exacting in her actions
God help her this day and this minute
to make the right calls
and to be strong


Posted by: guardianangel

Sharon,

Christy is right in her advice to you. Be strong, your children need to see you to stand up for them and yourself. You get up every morning, even if you don't feel like it and make yourself the best you can be for yourself and your children. Do what you need to do for financial stability. God will deal with the details, but YOU need to take the first steps in assuring your family's safety.

Father, I stand in agreement with these prayers for Sharon and her marriage. Give her the strength to do what it is that she needs to do in this situation. We bring her befor Your throne in Jesus' Name. Amen.


Posted by: horsegirlmegan

Dear Jesus

I lift up Sharon to you
Help her in this hard time
I pray that you will help her
and her husband through this
marriage problem that they are
having.I pray for their children also.
Send angels around this family

Amen


Posted by: Rachel R

If you thought you were happily married he is a better liar than you are so I hope you will guard yourself and your children financially.

Look in your area for support groups for women.

They will know how to find legal aid for you and get restraining orders on your bank accounts.

Get up on your feet and take care of your children.

Do not worry about him or the other woman.

Learn all you can as fast as you can.

Start right now and do damage control in your children.

Speak honestly to them. You don't have to change the truth later.

The horror of this cannot knock you down, or he wins.
Lord, I trust you to guard and keep this woman and her family.

I ask you to break the addiction this man feels to the spoiler.

Please show this dear Mom exactly what to do and exactly how to help herself through this.

I bless her with strength, courage and backbone.

In Jesus' Name, Amen.



Posted by: Rachel R

Dear Sharon,

I am still praying for you.

I was so stunned by your request that I am afraid my first response was a knee jerk reaction.

All I could think of was:
'how will she get through this?' and
'what about her children?' and
'HOW CAN MEN CONTINUE TO DO THESE THINGS?'.


My heart cries out for you, Sharon.

I am so sorry this has happened to you.

What came to me while praying for you is that you just found out but

GOD HAS KNOWN WHAT THEY WERE DOING THE WHOLE TIME.

God has a plan for you and your children.
Lord, rush to help Sharon!

Strengthen her! Help her throw all of these burden's over on to you.

Show her exactly what to do and exactly what to say.

Please protect her and her family.

In Jesus' Name, Amen.



Continuing to pray...

Rachel R


Posted by: diamondcreates

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Originally Posted by stahrfisher
Up until last Tuesday I thought that I had the perfect life with 3 great kids and a wonderful husband. But Tuesday night my husband of 9 years told me that he was having an affair with another woman and he didn't want to be married to me anymore. I still thought that there was hope and got him to talk to our pastor who then got him to agree to counseling the next morning. He slept in the children's room that night. The next morning at counseling he told me that there was no hope for our marriage and he was in love with this other woman and wanted out. I have been praying, and praying, and trying to be strong. I am willing to forgive what he did. I just want my family back! Yesterday I was cleaning the kid's room and found his wedding ring on the floor. This morning I checked one of our checking accounts and he had wiped it and our savings out. I am praying so hard but I feel so helpless to stop this. I know to give and let God but I keep feeling the more I let go the more he pulls away. Please, pray for all of us. I believe that marriage is forever and I still love him very much even after all he has done, isn't that what marriage is about?
Thanks
Sharon

My dear sister in Christ - I sympathize with your pain, but you must by all account you must stop focusing on man, you must focus all your attention to our Father God in heaven, if you believe in HIS word, why are you doubting HIS abilities to set your free from this pain? Allow HIM into your heart the way HE needs to be. Let go and LET GOD. Don't be afraid, if you stand there afraid you are not allowing God to do what HE has in store for you. Your children needs you at this time of understanding the confusion and they need you to be strong for them.

Father God - I place my sister in Christ, Sharon's burden on the Alter in front of YOUR HOLY PRESENCE Father God to handle all her situations. From the inflicted pain she has endured, to financial situations. Open all doors for her. Father God - I know YOU have a greater plan in store for my sister in Christ. Bless her to be still and to listen to YOUR word, and not to blindly hold on to something that is going to keep her from her blessings that YOU and only YOU have instore for Her Father God. Bless the little ones that is also effected by this Father God, show my sister Father God that marriage means different things to many different individual, and that the reason why her husband married her years ago that reason for him no longer exist - but to her it does. Heal her heart, mind, body and soul. Bless her with endurance to carry on. Because with YOU and Through YOU all things are indeed possible. IN JESUS' Sweet name I pray, Amen,Amen,Amen...

continue to be encouraged in the blood of the Lamb, and continue to keep your focus on our Father God in heaven, not what your husband is or is not doing. God is your husband even when you didn't know it HE was your first husband, now treat HIM as such.


Posted by: guardianangel

Sharon, how are things going for you? I'm still praying for you. Hang in there, you and your children will be alright. God will hold you in His hands.

I thought the world was ending for me under the same circumstances several years ago. God provided a wonderful home, and then a fantastic husband for me afterward.
He also showed that He was not blind to what my ex had done. It caught up with him. No one mocks God and laughs about it for long.


Posted by: Nessa

Lord be with Sharon and comfort her and her children. Lord give her financial stability and time to adjust to the circumstances. Lord bring friends and family to assist her at this trying time. Father whatever confusion her husband is in turn his head around Father. Lord whatever he may feel about his marriage surely he does not want his children to suffer. Touch his heart to provide for his children and their mother. In Jesus name. Clear any deception this man is involved in and bring him to You. Amen


Posted by: stahrfisher

Thank you to all of you for your prayers. I am doing okay, only cry once in a while now instead of all the time. We go to court Tuesday. I talked to him on Friday and he has gotten himself a one bedroom apartment and a lawyer. I don't really think he realizes that he can not walk away scott free. We are in debt and have been slowly paying it off. But in Texas where we live 1/2 of that debt is his. My lawyer says that because I have special needs children and I have severe allergies which require bi-weekly injections he might have to take more then 50%. Without being on his insurance I will have to pay the full cost of the injections rather then the insurance rate or just stop getting them and go back to being miserable and sick all the time. We'll see after Tuesday what I can afford.

Thanks again for all your kind thoughts and prayers. It is hard with today being father's day. Last year I got the kids up early since he works nights and had them in the living room waiting with all of their gifts. Today they are sleeping in. He is supposed to take them to 6-Flags later today as we have season passes. I hope he shows because they are very excited.

Thanks,

Sharon


Posted by: Chris Logan

Father God, I believe and agree with the former words of wisdom and guidance along with the powerful prayers that were before me from my sister's in Christ.

I plead the blood of Jesus over Sharon, her children and her marriage.

I bind the spirits of division, divorce, disharmoney and marital death in this family! I ask Jesus that you would cover this family with your blood and favor them as this wife Sharon is your child. You say in your word that our household will be saved if we are your children.

I speak salvation, deliverance and healing come to this household and today in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazarath!

The Lord would rebuke the spirit of adultry, deception and lust that is on this husband in the powerful name of Jesus!

We come in agreement with you Lord Jesus and command it would loose him and let him go by your name and by your shed blood. We speak to these foul unclean spirits to be bound and their assignment to be ceased in Jesus Holy name and they have to bow to the name of Jesus! Demons have to flee in the name of Jesus!

We stand in faith by your word Father and by your truth! I bind all spirits of abuse verbally, spiritually, emotionally and physically, should they rear their ugly heads! I command them all not to speak in Jesus name.

I ask Father God in Jesus name that you would bring this husband to his knees with thine own wisdom and grace and bring him to his senses that he would have a godly sorrow that worketh repentance!!

I ask Father that the other woman would be so overcome with guilt and shame to a point that she has to fall on her face before you Lord and beg for your forgiveness as well as Sharon's that she might be saved and come to know you as savior and Lord!

Jesus, you know how to do it and what is best and I ask for your perfect will to be done Lord Jesus to bring harmony and restoration to this wife, her husband and their precious children.

I ask Father that you would restore to this family everything that has been stolen from for satan has been found out and he has to give back 7 fold what he has taken from this family!

Give this wife Godly wisdom, knowledge and understanding Lord that would cause her to keep her eyes upon you and to allow you to be the one speaking thru her and controlling her actions at this time of need.

Guard her tongue oh Lord that this husband would know that her Lord and Jesus is greater than any discord and strife and this husband would see the glory and power of her Lord and Savior manifesting in her life!

I ask Jesus that you would influence this husband and father with a good dose of Godly fear and respect Lord Jesus and that he will see and know he is treading on the path of evil and destruction!! Allow him to know without a doubt that he must change his ways or the end result will be totally devastating for him! Open his eyes and ears that he might see and know the evil that has so easily beset him!

We seek not revenge Lord Jesus but we seek your intervention in your divine way to restore this marriage back to oneness and there will be a greater respect and love for one another than ever before.

Take what satan has meant for evil Lord Jesus and turn it around for their good and YOUR Glory!!

Comfort this wife now Father with a supernatural peace that passeth all understanding that this husband will stand back in amazement of the Godly control that is on and in her life!

Grant her the inward fortitude and strength to speak quietly and calmly with this husband and to guard her words and check her spirit before she speaks.

A soft answer turns away wrath!!
We give you praise honor and glory Lord for your loving and ministering ways and we turn this over to you knowing and believing that you are moving on this family's behalf!!

praise to your holy name!