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Mother-in-law Is Putting Us More Into Debt

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Posted by: diamondcreates

Father God in the sweet name of Jesus - help us stay afloat because this moving my mother-in-law in was suppose to help us, but instead it is breaking us more and more. She will not help pay for the electric bill when she has her television on all night long. She won't help with the water bill, or anything and won't pay us until September so she can get on her feet. We are struggling dear Lord. Bless the business opportunity with an overflow of blessings, to be able to pay off all our bills and be able to find another apartment for my mother-in-law for she is not helping one bit. She is dirty, she don't clean after herself, these are the things I was unaware of Father God. I thought when family members was saying this was going to be a bad idea and that we are going to reget doing this I would dispute them and say no we both are struggling and this would be the perfect way to get back on our feet. Father God in the name of Jesus - we are so far behind in bills - do to my mother-in-law. There is so much tension and so much negativity from her, I am not used to living like this. At all. Bless us and guide us Father God - bless this business opportunity to work at home part time with a nationally known auction site to be will worth it. This I pray in YOUR holy ever lasting name, Amen, Amen,Amen...

Be bless family of God.


Posted by: bluecatkeeper

Lord, watch over this family and find a way to let the mother in law be told that she is causing a financial burden on this family.Let her be able to be told NO, and let her understand what this means and let them find a way to communicate effecitvely so that they may live together peacefully and also to be able to get their needs met financially. In Your name, Amen


Posted by: diamondcreates

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Originally Posted by bluecatkeeper
Lord, watch over this family and find a way to let the mother in law be told that she is causing a financial burden on this family.Let her be able to be told NO, and let her understand what this means and let them find a way to communicate effecitvely so that they may live together peacefully and also to be able to get their needs met financially. In Your name, Amen

Father God in the name of Sweet Jesus I stand in total agreement with my sister Bluecatkeeper about my mother-in-law and meeting our financial needs, for it has become more of a burden than anything else with my mother-in-law there than not. Bless us with a quiet but understanding that we can no longer reside together, because it is not in harmony at all nor is it helping, it is hindering us from getting to the next step in our lives. Please us Father God - continue to guide us and direct us on the path that YOU want us to be on. This I pray in YOUR holy ever lasting name, Amen, Amen, Amen...

Be bless family of God.


Posted by: glo

Lord Jesus I lift this family up to you, place them in your mighty hands, Lord provide for them financially,and cause this Mother-in-Law to open her eyes to see what she is cousing, take the selfishness away, and grant her a compassionate spirit, to help,and shipping with this finances, Lord do whatever it needs to do. Lord you are in control, bless this family with peace, and prosper this business. In jesus name Amen


Posted by: Beverlyjoy

Lord, I pray in agreement and ask that you will give this mother in law the spirit of humility and thankfulnees that this family has allowed her a place to live. Place the spirit of conviction within her heart that she will change her ways and attitude and that she will assist financially, in the name of Jesus


Posted by: horsegirlmegan

Dear Jesus

I stand in agreement
with this prayer.I lift
up this woman to you.
Let this mother-in-law
know that what she is doing is wrong.
Help her find a job so
she can help out.Send angels
around this family.

In your sweet name I pray

Amen


Posted by: diamondcreates

Father God I thank YOU for every blessed soul whom posted a prayer on this site and those whom prayed for us without posting. I continue to give YOU Father God praise and worship and the utmost glory. For YOU know Father God when we did this move we had every positive motive and every good intention to help not only ourselves but my mother-in-law as well. Since she has been here she has quit her second job. All through what Dion and I are dealing with concerning our children's return in August - I have not once lost weight. But in the 1 month that my mother-in-law has been here I have lost 5 lbs. in my 4th month of pregnancy. Which isn't good.


Father God - allow this business transaction that is about to take place upon us will bless enormously to the point I can assist my mother-in-law with funds to find a new apartment. I thank YOU Father God for peace being in the home, and no arguments no nothing. Continue to allow it to be such, for Dion and I are currently dealing with so much more with our children now having to deal with another person unstable in our corner. Father God bless all my brothers and sisters whom are saying prayers for my family and our constant drama at this present time. Knowing trouble don't last always. Amen!!!

Be bless family of God and continue to be greatly encouraged in the blood of God. Amen!!!!


Posted by: JeriRose12

Dear Lord, provide what this family needs. I pray they can hold this mother-in-law accontable. Let her be helping out with the payments! This is working great for my family, with all of us paying some, and all of us getting a break.... I pray that this can be the case for Michelle's family. Show them what to do, since they were relying on the mother-in-law's money to make things affordable. If they have to ask her to go, let them have the courage to do so. (Don't let them take on an extra job and support her on that money, when she should be doing her part!) I ask and pray these things, in Jesus Name, amen.

~JeriRose~
Finding YOU in 2006 (The Year Of The Double Portion!)


Posted by: diamondcreates

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Originally Posted by JeriRose12
Dear Lord, provide what this family needs. I pray they can hold this mother-in-law accontable. Let her be helping out with the payments! This is working great for my family, with all of us paying some, and all of us getting a break.... I pray that this can be the case for Michelle's family. Show them what to do, since they were relying on the mother-in-law's money to make things affordable. If they have to ask her to go, let them have the courage to do so. (Don't let them take on an extra job and support her on that money, when she should be doing her part!) I ask and pray these things, in Jesus Name, amen.

~JeriRose~
Finding YOU in 2006 (The Year Of The Double Portion!)

Thank you my dear wonderful sister in Christ for your heart felt prayer and words of wisdom for me and my family. May God continues to bless you and your family abundantly with an over flow of blessings coming their way. AMEN!!!! Be bless my sister in Christ for HE hears all prayers.


Posted by: Rachel R

Oh, I so agree with JeriRose!

Please, hold her accountable. She will be so much better off in the long run.

Do help her come along and grow up.

Just because you are old doesn't mean you won't act like a child if someone lets you.
Lord, I bless them with strength and courage.

I bless Mom in law with ears to hear and a heart to change.

Turn her around and may she become a blessing to all.

In Jesus' Name, Amen.



Posted by: diamondcreates

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Originally Posted by Rachel R
Oh, I so agree with JeriRose!

Please, hold her accountable. She will be so much better off in the long run.

Do help her come along and grow up.

Just because you are old doesn't mean you won't act like a child if someone lets you.

Lord, I bless them with strength and courage.


I bless Mom in law with ears to hear and a heart to change.

Turn her around and may she become a blessing to all.

In Jesus' Name, Amen.
Thank you my sister in Christ, Rachel R. for your wonderful words of encouragement. You said a mouthful when you stated that 'just because you are the oldest doesn't mean you won't act like a child if someone lets you.' for my mother-in-law is behaving in the same charater as my husband's older siblings whom took advantage of my mother-in-law and still do for many years she allowed grown sons in their late 30's and early 40's to live with her without helping with any bill of any kind. Now she is taking on their personality when all we have ever done is helped her. When she didn't have a vehicle(and blessed her with a down payment of $1,000 when we was blessed to refinance the house last year) I would go out in the cold, hot, rainy weather with both children and sit for nearly an hour burning gas to keep the car warm for the children so they won't catch a cold just to make sure she got home safely and not take public transportation. When she was short with her bills, we would help even though she had grown working sons whom won't help her that lived with her.

Father God guide us on the path that is pleasing to YOU. Father God allow all bills to be paid in YOUR holy ever lasting name. Allow nothing to be shut off, bless with an overflow of blessing in our homes so that we can in return bless others. This I pray in YOUR holy ever lasting name, Amen,Amen,Amen...

Be bless family of God.


Posted by: diamondcreates

Father God I can not take my mother-in-law and her negativeness no longer. It is indeed a strain on my health as well as my marriage. She don't want to help out around the house nor does she want to pay any bills, she makes a mess Father God and don't clean up after herself. Father God even when she had 2 grown sons living with her working full time jobs, she would always turn to my husband whom is the baby child for financial need. I have spoken to her about this action informing her that Dion my husband is about family and he is not going to turn his back on family including his mother. Father God this whole move I feel has not benefit us at all. Only his mother, we are totally stressed out, we cannot be approved for a loan due to all the bills that are not current. Father God help us in a huge way to get ahead because we will not get ahead as long as my mother-in-law is with us.

She don't even want to pay us the loan from last year for a car!!!! Which will help for this month's mortgage!!! Father God help us. Rain down on us Father God. I cannot deal with this woman any longer, and have expressed so to my husband and he understands - she knows she is putting my marriage in jeapordy by her behavior and she just don't care. We are going through so much at this present time we don't need another person to hinder us from reaching our goal, and that is exactly what his mother is doing. Father God have mercy upon us and guide us to financial stability at this present time. This I pray in YOUR holy ever lasting name,Amen,Amen,Amen...

Be bless family of God for the season of substraction has come to an end and the season of mulitiplication has begun. amen!!!


Posted by: christythompson

Tell her she must go if she can not pay her way
and set a time limit...
say a week and no longer

God move this woman out of this home and
for all interference
with this marriage to come to an end from both mothers
lord you want these children
to no longer have bad influences
and the family to be whole
Bless them to only rely on you and not
put faith in others.

I feel you should ask her to leave
make arrangements for somone to pick her up


Posted by: diamondcreates

Quote:
Originally Posted by christythompson
Tell her she must go if she can not pay her way
and set a time limit...
say a week and no longer

God move this woman out of this home and
for all interference
with this marriage to come to an end from both mothers
lord you want these children
to no longer have bad influences
and the family to be whole
Bless them to only rely on you and not
put faith in others.

I feel you should ask her to leave
make arrangements for somone to pick her up

Thank you my dear sister in Christ for your wonderful words of encouragement. I have already stated that by September 1, she must go on her way because since she has been with us and stressing us out with her negative ways, I have lost 5 lbs so far and now I have to return back to the hospital tomorrow morning to see a specialist due to something is wrong with my blood. We try to live right and do right and help others and its the ones that you love and care for are always the ones hurting you.

Father God in the name of sweet Jesus help my mother-in-law to find an apartment to go away with her negative ways and her nasty comments that hurt people. Father God YOU know when we set out to do this we had all good intentions for all of us to get ahead not for myself and my husband to continue to struggle while my mother-in-law lives high off the hog in the mean time. Father God open up the door ways and the path ways for us to make ends meet. Bless us enourmously with this business venture to help land us on more stable grounds. This I pray in YOUR holy blessed name, Amen,Amen,Amen...

be bless family of God for the season of substraction has indeed come to an end and the season of plentiful is upon us at this very moment,Amen!!!




Posted by: christythompson

If she continues to be very ugly, move the time up
and let her know, you don't intend to have
your peace constantly destroyed between now and Sept
and you do expect some contribution during that time.
If not I would put the one week rule in.

I am praying for you, Honey


Posted by: ninababy73

Michelle, in December 2004, we had a family member living with us and it as each day went by I got more and more depressed, stressed, angry etc. because she was living with us, not helping out, etc. Her being there really affected my homelife and praise God I do have a happy homelife. So, we had to tell her to find someplace else to go. She did and everything is wonderful in my home life again. Her leaving was like a big cloud being lifted off of my shoulders.

I know that you love your mother-in-law, but you need to think about your health, the health of your unborn baby, your other children and your husband. That is more on anybody's plate. You can't continue trying to do everything. You have to decide is my peace if mind more important than this stress I am living in.

Being pregnant is a job all in itself and you know that when one is pregnant they do need to avoid stress. So, you need to decide what is important.

I agree fully with Christy. You and your husband need to sit down TODAY and speak to momma letting her know either help out or go. You have this amount of time to find a place to go if you decide not to help out. There needs to be boundries as this is your house. There is no reason for her not to help out and especially since you all were under the impression of her living there would be helpful to you all.

So, I pray for the both of you to get the gumption and talk to momma letting her fully your expectations and if she can't help out then she needs to go.


Posted by: diamondcreates

Thank you my sisters in Christ. For as we speak my husband is already coming up with plans to make some moves to get ahead in our bills without the help of his mother. I have already called the department of public works in our town and they told me every garbage day is also bulk day as long as its not metal. I am trying to be positive in all of this because this isn't how the plan was suppose to be, it was to help us all, not just one because she don't have grown children to care for no more so want to treat us the way they treated her - when we have always been there for her.


Father God in the name of Sweet Jesus - help us get to where we need to be at. Continue to open the many door ways and path ways for us Father God. Bless these hands that helped others in their time of need now these hands need help from YOU Father God. Bless these working hands to complete all tasks that needs to be done. This I pray in YOUR holy ever lasting name, Amen,Amen,Amen...

Be bless family of God, for the season of substraction has indeed come to an end and the season of plentiful has rain down upon us, Amen!!!


Posted by: Rachel R

Lord, I ask you to touch mother-in-law today.

I ask you to open her eyes and help her see herself and how she is hurting them.

I ask you to open her ears to how mean she is when she speaks.

Give her dreams and visions of how she is and how she needs to change.

Hold a mirror before her and do not let her escape it.

Fill her heart with repentance and mercy for others and sorrow for her ways.

Blow that money into the hands it needs to be in.

Thanks, Lord, we are so grateful!

In Jesus' Mighty Name, Amen.



Posted by: diamondcreates

Father God - help us- guide us in the direction we need to be on. Whether with or without my mother-in-law. Father God my heart breaks for my husband to endure this type of treatment from his mother the way that he does. Father God she screamed in his face and told him he needs to sell his car to help her out. Then once he told her he wasn't going to do it and gave her notice to move out in 30 days - she yelled at him and told him her son was dead. Father God we are enduring enough tormoil at this present time. My husband's intention of trying to help his mother something that his sibbling wouldn't do living with her and here it is Dion had his own place and concerned about his mother's living arrangement more than anyone else. Father God give my husband the knowledge and the know how to deal with this very sentive situation. My husband would give her the last dollar in his pocket just to help her out. My husband has the heart of gold of trying to do the right thing with people and for people especially family members. Father God I don't understand why they don't have the same intention for him. This I pray in YOUR holy ever lasting name, Amen,Amen,Amen...

be bless family of God for the season of substraction is now over and now the season of plentiful is now upon us. Amen!!!


Posted by: diamondcreates

Father God - touch my husband in an awesome way right now. Everything my husband has done for his mom he had done out of his heart to try to help her get back on her feet financially because she is so far into debt due to his brothers, as well as help our selves due to him being on worker compensation. Even to this very hour he is still trying to help her but Father God what ever he does never seems to appease this woman, whom has hurt him so badly and has caused so much heart ache and grief in our home. His mother needs to be filled with the holy spirit for she has not stepped into a house of worship in nearly 25 years. Father God - we are trying to live right and do right, and everything my husband does he has his best intention for that person. Father God touch my husband Father God because he feels he will not be blessed due to the tension between them two. I told him you can bring a horse to the water but you can't make it drink. Everything he has done he has done for the love of his mother. Helping her when we needed help, knowing she wouldn't pay him back but knowing it was the right thing to do to help her in her time of need. Now that we need her Father God to come through for us as we have for the past 5 year 1/2 since we has been together again. And there are countless other times that he came to her rescue with out a second thought. Father God bless my husband Dion Harvey at this very moment, in JESUS' sweet name I pray.Amen,Amen,Amen...




Posted by: diamondcreates

Father God in the sweet name of Jesus - touch my mother-in-law Katie Harvey where she will come out of this weird thinking pattern, and help with the bills since she knew that was the reason why she was moving in with us is to help out with the mortgage not just the taxes and say she isn't going to pay until September. Father God we are trying desperately to get ahead and stay ahead, but it seems for whatever reason my mother-in-law doesn't want to help but instead behave like a 6 year old child. Father God I am pleading in the blood of JESUS to stop this madness with Katie and touch her heart in realizing the reason why she moved in with us is to help with the mortgage, and to pay us her share this coming weekend. This I pray in YOUR holy ever lasting name, Amen,Amen,Amen....


Be bless family of God for the season of substraction has indeed come to an end and the season of plentiful is now upon us all. amen!!!


Posted by: diamondcreates

Father God in the name of Sweet Jesus - I come to YOU pleading in the mighty blood of JESUS, to touch my mother-in-law and see the error of her ways, and see the stress that she has caused my marriage greatly in this short period of time since she has been here living with us. Father God the first of the month is near- and we have most of the mortgage money ready to pay the company- minus $100. Father God, we had the very best intention of helping my mother-in-law to reach financial stabilty as I had prayed here some time ago. But now it seems she don't care about whether or not the mortgage is paid or not - if the house is foreclosed or not. We do care, because it would be our credit that is on the line as well Father God. We have done everything except roll out the red carpet for her. And in return we are basically disrespected and spit upon for trying to help her. My husband and I are depressed in not knowing how we are going to eat tomorrow, and with me being pregnant - that isn't good.

We barely eat a meal a day. Father God remove all barriers that is in our lives at this present time. Open door ways and path ways of getting food in the house, and paying our mortgage and our high electric bill, and to get car insurance back on my truck. Father God, we did not expect this type of treatment from her. We came together to help one another and she is helping herself to her money and not helping with the household bills. Help us dear Lord. This I pray in YOUR holy ever lasting name, Amen,Amen,Amen...


Posted by: diamondcreates

Dear family of God,

I come to you asking that you all keep me and my family in much prayer. Dion called his gradmother whom blessed us with the home we live in now, whom is also his mother's mother. Grandma Rose confessed to Dion today that his mother needs 'medication because she isn't right in the head'. And suggested that we talk to her about 'seeing a doctor'. My husband and I both know that option is definitely out of the question. She then gave an opinion of helping her find an apartment and try to give her the first month's rent - that is IF she don't help with next month's mortgage payment. Family of God I don't know what else I can do for this woman. Her ignorance and stubborn ways have brought so much tension in the home I onced loved to come home to. Now I drive very slowly home. Due to the devil invaded her body- she has brought so much chaos to my home, and took our focus off of getting our children back home.

Family of God - it seems that we will have to put allot of bills on the back burner to help her get an apartment so we may be blessed with peace and quiet in the home. For it is so much tension in the house when she is there, and none when she isn't. Please keep us in your prayers at this hour.


Posted by: oneofgodsworkers

dear searcher
Please listen to our Lord in this matter
1. You cannot Bless others unless the Lord Blesses you first.
2. go ahead and give as the Lord says to and He Will Bless You(I PROMISE)
3. Don"t allways believe what you see with fleshly eyes(satan will get you if you do)
4. TRUST IN THE LORD EVEN WHEN THE WORLD SAYS YOU ARE WRONG OR CRAZY
5. You cannot Out give God the Father & You cannot spend all the he owns
6. Don"t sweat it(LET GOD BE GOD AND YOU JUST DISTRIBUTE WHAT HE BLESSES YOU WITH AS HE WANTS YOU TO)
7. BE SPACIFIC IN WHAT YOU NEED IN YOUR PRAYER REQUEST TO THE FATHER AND HE WILL MEET THOSE NEED(HE WANT YOU TO DEPEND ON HIM)
8.YES I KNOW IT IS HARD BECAUSE SATAN AND THE WORLD SHOW YOU BAD THINGS TO MAKE YOU DOUBT SUCH AS PAST DUE NOTICES AND THE SUCH BUT YOU MUST BELIEVE GOD AND NOT WORLDLY LIES
9. this life is for this purpose only(CHOSE YOU THIS DAY WHOM YE SHALL SERVE) because who you serve here is who you will be with in the REAL LIFE that never ends to come.
10.PASS THE TEST AND YOU WILL BE BLESSED MORE THAN YOU CAN HOLD


Posted by: oneofgodsworkers

dear sister

I am in agreement with you and want to let you know that you are seeking what God wants you to do, and this I say with no doubt, is that while it is good and blessed to give, sometimes satan gets the upper hand by buffeting the person recieving with a spirit of lazyness and discord, and then all the giving we do becomes more damageing, because we strenghten that evil spirit by doing so. so I pray dear heavenly Father, Almighty God I come to you through Christ Jesus to bind these evil spirits from this mother-in-law and to release her from satan and his demons to open her ears and heart to you, and her family in whom she has become a burden to, I pray that you soften her heart that the holy spirit will convict her heart,also I pray Lord that you would send one of your workers gifted in this area to help this woman, that when you heal her by deliverance, she will then help these children of yours( finiancialy) to get them back on their feet.
I pray Father that you pour out your finances on them to take care of their needs as they are trying to seek first the kingdom and as your word promises in MT:6:33 that if they seek ye first the kingdom of God and his rightousness then all these things will be added unto you.
I thank you Dear Lord Jesus for this knowledge and I thank Father God and praise his holy name before all men amen.


Posted by: diamondcreates

Father God - wash over me strength to get through this craziness that is under my own roof at this present time. Bless not only myself but my husband as well, with a calm mind, and a calm spirit to deal with my mother-in-law's antics and the hurtful things she says to my husband Dion. Bless us with a vision Father God of knowing what way to go and what to do. How to get my mother-in-law the help she so desperately need. Father God I know YOU would never give us things in life that YOU know that we won't be able to handle. Father God - give us the resources that we need to help her find her own apartment - the children do not need to be exposed to this type of behavior upon returning home in 6 weeks. Father God continue to bless us with much strength, favor, and grace to do what we need to do in preparation of the boys returning home. For YOU have blessed us with visions of picking up the boys after court and bringing them home. This I pray in YOUR HOLY ever lasting name, Amen,Amen,Amen...


for the season of substraction family has indeed come to an end and the season of plentiful is indeed upon us all at this very moment. Amen!!!