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Intercession PLEASE!!!

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Posted by: ashmo17

I am new to this website. My prodigal husband and I divorced last october against my will. We were together 15 years (since I was 15 years old) and have 2 children. Almost 2 years ago, he became involved with a 19 year old married child at his work, who also divorced her husband. I know that my Lord has called me to stand in the gap for the restoration of this marriage and chris's salvation. I am beginning to feel myself get weak and exhausted at times during this journey. Almost 4 years ago, he left for 5 months saying "he wasn't happy" and I later found out he was having an affair with someone at his work. He came home, but never repented and the marriage never had a chance from then on. This time, not only did he divorce me, but I had to file bankruptcy because I couldn't afford to maintain everything so I lost our family home and have had to move to another town. I also lost my job at the same time. God has provided for ALL of our needs so I am very thankful. The struggle for me is that he is still with her yet he will tell you to your face he is unhappy. He is encouraged by all the changes that the Lord has made in me and has over the last few months been talking to me more, coming over, etc. Even in the times where he is hurting me (especially when he has the kids and him and her do things with them), I just continue to show agape love that my Lord is enabling me to do. I would love for anyone to stand with me and help me through this time. I am being completly honest with everyone right now...it is hard to be a friend only expecially when you love that person and I just feel exhausted. Our visitation is different than most, we only live 12 miles apart so he sees the kids every other day and every other weekend. That is what makes it hard, too. There is no closure or grief time for me because I always see or talk to him daily. Please, someone...help me to stand stronger on the Word that I KNOW is true. I know that God is in control- I have no doubt. I'm just finding myself tired and I'm ashamed to admit it. Someone hold me accountable and don't let me fall.


Posted by: Chris Logan

I do stand with you sis, in the name and love of our Lord Jesus Christ.

You are doing so well it sounds in showing your x husband God's agape love. that must be hard to bear but you are being obedeient to the Lord and He will honor you for that.

As long as you continue to keep your eyes on the Lord, He will not fail you. He desires to restore and heal marriages but your husband sounds like a hard case that only the Lord can change. and with your devotion, prayers and obedience, the Lord can do anything! anything is possible with and through Him.

I pray that your x chris has an divine appointment with the Lord and the Lord would plant a Christ-like man in his path to lead and show him the way to Christ. I pray for godly sorrow that worketh repentance and that your husband would come to his senses and see his need for Christ as his savior and Lord.

I pray also that the Lord would break all soul ties your X has had with anyone other than you his wife in Jesus name and this bond he has with other women would be bound from doing anymore harm and Jesus would loose him from it forever.

We bind the spirit of adultry, division, deception all his life in Jesus name and may the Lord convict him of his sin so greatly that he will fall on his face before God and man and would cry out for help in Jesus name.

We ask Jesus that you would heal all wounds of the heart and soul Father in this wife, their children and X husband Lord and that he would know the forgiving love of you Father God in Jesus name.

Bring forth a miracle in this husband Jesus and please make haste for the sake of this wife and children and for your glory.

manifest your peace, comfort and love to this wife and children Lord that they would not be harmed anymore by the one whom comes to destroy our very souls.

May your spirit, your presence and your favor be upon this wife whom is desperately trying to do what she feels you would have her do Jesus.

Keep your guiding hand on her life and everything she says and does that you would be in control so you can intervene in this painful situation. Help her to take her hands off and to turn this completely over to you for your greater power, wisdom and knowledge is needed Jesus for this to be resolved.

May you call intercessors to pray for this marriage Jesus and the others on this pray board whom are in such turmoil and need of answers from you Lord Jesus.



Posted by: ashmo17

Thank you so much chris! It is during these times that I sometimes don't even know what to pray. I know from the Word that the Holy Spirit intercedes on my behalf and that is what I cling to and I am thankful that the Lord places someone in your life to comfort you with words from Him. Bless you for blessing me and my family and lifting us up to our Heavenly Father. And yes, you are right, ONLY the Lord will change Chris. In this world, so many people try to be helpful and don't want to see you suffer so they tell you to "just get on with life...there's someone out there, etc" but I know that my God hates divorce. He created and instituted marriage and I know that satan has taken chris captive to do his will. But praise God for Jesus that He came to set the captives free! Just like in the parable of the Prodigal Son, right now I am like the father and chris is the prodigal. I am privledged that God has chosen me to stand in the gap and break the generational curse of divorce for not only me but my children, their children, etc. And I will continue to do God's Will because I love my Abba Daddy. Only the Lord knows how this will all turn out but I am thankful that my children can witness their mother stand on God's Word and persevere. I will try not to be a burden to anyone on this website but I really need encouragement and love from people like you that desire to love their Lord with all their heart, mind, and soul. Thank you again!


Posted by: FriendOfGod

Lord, in your great mercy, I ask that you would have your will and your way in all of this. In Jesus name I pray, Amen.


Posted by: The Anointed One

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Originally Posted by ashmo17
I am new to this website. My prodigal husband and I divorced last october against my will. We were together 15 years (since I was 15 years old) and have 2 children. Almost 2 years ago, he became involved with a 19 year old married child at his work, who also divorced her husband. I know that my Lord has called me to stand in the gap for the restoration of this marriage and chris's salvation. I am beginning to feel myself get weak and exhausted at times during this journey. Almost 4 years ago, he left for 5 months saying "he wasn't happy" and I later found out he was having an affair with someone at his work. He came home, but never repented and the marriage never had a chance from then on. This time, not only did he divorce me, but I had to file bankruptcy because I couldn't afford to maintain everything so I lost our family home and have had to move to another town. I also lost my job at the same time. God has provided for ALL of our needs so I am very thankful. The struggle for me is that he is still with her yet he will tell you to your face he is unhappy. He is encouraged by all the changes that the Lord has made in me and has over the last few months been talking to me more, coming over, etc. Even in the times where he is hurting me (especially when he has the kids and him and her do things with them), I just continue to show agape love that my Lord is enabling me to do. I would love for anyone to stand with me and help me through this time. I am being completly honest with everyone right now...it is hard to be a friend only expecially when you love that person and I just feel exhausted. Our visitation is different than most, we only live 12 miles apart so he sees the kids every other day and every other weekend. That is what makes it hard, too. There is no closure or grief time for me because I always see or talk to him daily. Please, someone...help me to stand stronger on the Word that I KNOW is true. I know that God is in control- I have no doubt. I'm just finding myself tired and I'm ashamed to admit it. Someone hold me accountable and don't let me fall.

My Father, I thank You for another opportunity to trust Your Word. My father, Your Word declares MATTHEW Chapter 5 and verses 31 and 32, that, "It hath been said, Whosoever shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorcement; But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery," in the name of Jesus, and it goes on to say in 1 CORINTHIANS Chapter 7 and verses 10 through 15, that, "And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband: But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife. But to the rest speak I, not the Lord: If any brother hath a wife that believeth not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away. And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him. For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy. But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God has called us to peace.....," in the name of Jesus, which reveals to us My Father, that, First of all, YOU DO NOT LIKE DIVORCE, BUT YOU WILL PERMIT DIVORCE, LEGALLY AND SCRIPTURALLY, IF ONE OR THE OTHER HAS BEEN WITH SOMEONE ELSE SEXUALLY OUTSIDE THE MARRIAGE, in the name of Jesus, and it also reveals to us that, IF AN UNSAVED OR UNBELIEVING SPOUSE, MALE OR FEMALE, JUSTS UP AND DECIDES TO LEAVE ON THEIR OWN ACCORD, THAT, THE SPOUSE WHO WAS LEFT IS NOT UNDER BONDAGE TO THE MARRIAGE, AND IS FREE TO GO, LEGALLY AND SCRIPTURALLY, in Jesus' name. Now Father, I don't have all the facts concerning ASHMO17's marriage and subsequent divorce, in the name of Jesus, but I trust and depend that Your Word has given ASHMO17 Godly wisdom and direction, relative to this situation, right now, in Jesus' name. Amen and Thank You God!


Posted by: christythompson

First of all, YOU DO NOT LIKE DIVORCE, BUT YOU WILL PERMIT DIVORCE, LEGALLY AND SCRIPTURALLY, IF ONE OR THE OTHER HAS BEEN WITH SOMEONE ELSE SEXUALLY OUTSIDE THE MARRIAGE, in the name of Jesus, and it also reveals to us that, IF AN UNSAVED OR UNBELIEVING SPOUSE, MALE OR FEMALE, JUSTS UP AND DECIDES TO LEAVE ON THEIR OWN ACCORD, THAT, THE SPOUSE WHO WAS LEFT IS NOT UNDER BONDAGE TO THE MARRIAGE, AND IS FREE TO GO, LEGALLY AND SCRIPTURALLY, in Jesus' name. Now Father, I don't have all the facts concerning ASHMO17's marriage and subsequent divorce, in the name of Jesus, but I trust and depend that Your Word has given ASHMO17 Godly wisdom and direction, relative to this situation, right now, in Jesus' name. Amen and Thank You God!
This is wise and I stand in agreement!!!
Seek God and do not look back like Lots wife
or you will be a pillar of salt
God loves you and can heal
he can heal and save
so I pray your spouse be saved
for I sence he is not.
"Love must be Tough" by James Dobson
may be helpful to you
Tough means strong here
and it deals with this very thing