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Originally Posted by Jaydn
Our marraige wasn't exactly according to God's best. I know that. We have a wonderful little baby girl, 11 months old. We started our realationship, based on a lie, she had told me she was divorced, and wasn't.
Be that as it may.. I am a Christian, and I have tried to keep the Lord at the center of our marraige. My wife, while she professes to be born again, seems to delight in her anger and rage. I've rebuked and bound Satan in our home and our marraige, and I cannot seem to get the deseired results. An interesting thing occured last night, while deep in another arguement.. I told her that I was worried about her soul. That this was no longer about our marraige, but I was concerned about her salvation. She went nuts! Screaming, cussing... saying I had no right to question her salvation. I am asking my brothers and sisters to agree, that: 1) The roaring lion's mouth will be shut. 2) That the Holy Spirit will guide me in dealing with my wife, with love, grace and understanding. That I will not allow my "selfishness" to get the best of me and therefore our marraige. 3) That IF my wife, is indeed saved, then the Lord will put a heart of flesh in her, and guide her back to his love. And IF she's not saved, the Lord will have grace upon her and our marraige and bring her to His salavation. |