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Prayer for a love broken by fear & past hurt

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Posted by: ben chancellor

Sweet Lord, I pray with all my faith and love for you that Samantha my cherished love is able to vanquish her fears and denial of true love and break her destructive comfort zones through Jesus Christ our saviour. She suffered so much abuse and sadness as a child so commitment and security are daunting for her. She only became destructive as soon as I talked about buying us a place of our own. She has such a beautiful soul wrapped in chains. Please lord I prey that your blood heals her and the pains of her loveless lonely childhood are crushed and that a connection is made between her spirit and you our gracious lord. If you are willing for a reconciliation for us both I ask kindly that you show her in an abundance of memories of our deep love, happiness, wonder and desire let them flood her soul with your love through dreams, signs, visions and through a wonderful freedom of new found spiritual emotion and understanding. Break those chains Lord and let her find her truth! A true love involves trusting enough to fully open up, something that we were tragically robbed of discovering despite all the signs being there. I prey that if you can be her sun and rain then faith in us can be the soil in which she is willing to spread her roots and she and our love can blossom again like a beautiful rose. Let her not fear turning to me despite the final words that have been uttered. I need a miracle and if I am in denial then why do I refuse to give up the fight and the hope when it would be so easy to move on now!? Its all so confusing Lord but I know I can give her what has been robbed from her soul and I prey that that sacred chance doesn’t fall on the rocks because of bad timing or the influence of mediocrity-I prey God that you are within her therapist‘s voice and the positive influences in her life and she is able to know the good advice from the bad through you-I prey that when that breakthrough in counselling comes that Christ and our love is the first thing she reaches for. Lord free her soul and our love please.




Posted by: youngijp

"...In every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God. And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus."
Philippians 4:6-7 KJV

"...Our Father which art in heaven,....Thy will be done...."
Luke 11:2 KJV


Dear Lord, the One Who knows what lies ahead for this couple, please meet their individual needs. Please let them be close to You and know Your presence in their lives -- each believing in his/her heart that God hath raised Jesus from the dead and confessing Him, Who ever liveth to make intercession for us. In the comfort of the Holy Ghost, please give to them Your peace. May that peace, which passeth all understanding, keep Samantha's heart and mind through Christ Jesus as pressure from her emotional distress is managed and there is healing release through wise counsel and dependence on Your Word. Help Ben too to have Your peace in candidly examining his motives, in circumspectly letting go at the same time caring for and loving Samantha, and in earnestly seeking Your will in the relationship. As they acknowledge You, delight in You, and sincerely beseech Your direction, may they be given the desires of their hearts. May hopes and dreams be met in accordance with Your plans for their lives. If it is Your will, rekindle between them the love they shared that gave gladness to each other. Help them each to want what is best for the other and know fulfillment and happiness through You and in service to You whether together or apart. In the name of Jesus, Amen.
(1 Peter 4:11;5:7; Hebrews 4:12;6:19;7:25;13:4-5; Isaiah 58:8; Philippians 4:7,11-12; Matthew 19:26; John 3:16;5:17,24;10:10;11:4; Psalm 23:2-4;34:3;37:4;46:10; 2 Corinthians 2:14;5:21; Romans 3:22; 8:26-28;10:9;12:1-4;16:27; Acts 9:31; Proverbs 3:5-6; Ephesians 4:31-32;5:20)


"...God is for me. In God will I praise his word:
in the LORD will I praise his word. In God have I put my trust....
Psalm 56:9-10 KJV


"I know both how to be abased, and I know how to abound: every where and in all things I am instructed both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need. I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me."
Philippians 4:12-13 KJV

~


Posted by: Praying Gal

Praying that if it is the Father's Holy and perfect will for you two to get married and set up house, that this will occur. Praying for wisdom and discernment for you and healing for her, and that she will learn to listen to the voice of the Almighty as her wonderful Counselor and therapist. "You need that no man should teach you, but the Holy Spirit will teach you..." And He offers true healing, too.


Posted by: horseowner

Father I come together with these in prayer. Guide this couple into your perfect will and we ask humbly that you consider the hearts desire. Lord set this woman free of the bondage and chains in her life and let her lift her face to you so that you may shine your sweet light on her soul. We thank you Lord and give you praise in all things.


Posted by: Rachel R

Welcome, Ben.

Thanks for sharing your heart so that we can join you in prayer.
Lord, I come to you in prayer for Ben and for Samantha.

I ask for your best will to be done in their lives.

I bless them with wholeness and healing.

Please surround them with people that they will listen to to speak truth into their lives.

Please send them real help right away.

Please send forgiveness flowing through Samantha's life and speed her toward healing.

In Jesus' Name, Amen.



Posted by: FriendOfGod

Quote:
Originally Posted by ben chancellor
Sweet Lord, I pray with all my faith and love for you that Samantha my cherished love is able to vanquish her fears and denial of true love and break her destructive comfort zones through Jesus Christ our saviour. She suffered so much abuse and sadness as a child so commitment and security are daunting for her. She only became destructive as soon as I talked about buying us a place of our own. She has such a beautiful soul wrapped in chains. Please lord I prey that your blood heals her and the pains of her loveless lonely childhood are crushed and that a connection is made between her spirit and you our gracious lord. If you are willing for a reconciliation for us both I ask kindly that you show her in an abundance of memories of our deep love, happiness, wonder and desire let them flood her soul with your love through dreams, signs, visions and through a wonderful freedom of new found spiritual emotion and understanding. Break those chains Lord and let her find her truth! A true love involves trusting enough to fully open up, something that we were tragically robbed of discovering despite all the signs being there. I prey that if you can be her sun and rain then faith in us can be the soil in which she is willing to spread her roots and she and our love can blossom again like a beautiful rose. Let her not fear turning to me despite the final words that have been uttered. I need a miracle and if I am in denial then why do I refuse to give up the fight and the hope when it would be so easy to move on now!? Its all so confusing Lord but I know I can give her what has been robbed from her soul and I prey that that sacred chance doesn’t fall on the rocks because of bad timing or the influence of mediocrity-I prey God that you are within her therapist‘s voice and the positive influences in her life and she is able to know the good advice from the bad through you-I prey that when that breakthrough in counselling comes that Christ and our love is the first thing she reaches for. Lord free her soul and our love please.



O dear gracious God, please do graciously step in and set Samantha free from these chains of destruction and set her free from this bondage. Please have your will and your way in this relationship. I ask of you in Jesus name I pray, Amen.


Posted by: JeriRose12

Dear Lord, the One Who knows what lies ahead for this couple, please meet their individual needs. Please let them be close to You and know Your presence in their lives -- each believing in his/her heart that God hath raised Jesus from the dead and confessing Him, Who ever liveth to make intercession for us. In the comfort of the Holy Ghost, please give to them Your peace. May that peace, which passeth all understanding, keep Samantha's heart and mind through Christ Jesus as pressure from her emotional distress is managed and there is healing release through wise counsel and dependence on Your Word. Help Ben too to have Your peace in candidly examining his motives, in circumspectly letting go at the same time caring for and loving Samantha, and in earnestly seeking Your will in the relationship. As they acknowledge You, delight in You, and sincerely beseech Your direction, may they be given the desires of their hearts. May hopes and dreams be met in accordance with Your plans for their lives. If it is Your will, rekindle between them the love they shared that gave gladness to each other. Help them each to want what is best for the other and know fulfillment and happiness through You and in service to You whether together or apart. In the name of Jesus, Amen.


Lord God, I stand in agreement with this prayer. Let only YOUR WILL be done here. I pray that Ben will realiaze he is not the solution to Samantha's healing and wholeness -- YOU are. Let him only encourage her along her journey toward wholeness. I pray he will step out of the way and let YOU do the work that needs down in her in dealing with and healing her of the issues of the past. Let Ben just be willing to pray and to await Your timing in this....if this realtionship is to be. If this relationship is not your will, I pray that Ben will accept that and move on. Regarless of whether this relationship is Your will or not, I pray that Ben will love You first and foremost. Let him keep You as the FIRST LOVE of his life, always. In Jesus Name, amen.

~JeriRose~
Finding YOU in 2006 (The Year Of The Double Portion!)


Posted by: ben chancellor

Dear all thankyou for your prayers, I have truly felt a peace and stillness in my heart but don't know what is going on at the other end as I have been pushed away to the edges since the scars of her childhood have been exposed gradually more and more the further the councilling goes-a repeating comfort zone for her to return to. Samantha suffered and subsequently hardened her heart as after a painfull split of her parents, custody battles, kipnapping, neglect and abuse she stayed with her father a kind and hardworking man I respect in many ways but he is typically british in the old fashioned stiff upper lip sense-she never heard "I love you" once and she was uprooted from various schools, friends and towns numerous times. It is my belief that this is the deep rooted reason behind associating stability and commitment with negative emotion-the subconscious just takes over. This is represented well by the fact that she would tell me now amazing and special I was and things were wonderful untill I mentioned buying us a place then she started becoming destructive and detaching herself from me. The whole idea behind therapy initially was because of the desire and belief that we were worth addressing these issues once and for all unlike her past relationships. So It's so difficult for me to get closure from this as a result.

I have sent her two Christian healing books in the hope that she finds her faith again and prey that she isn't influenced by mediocrity and that her counciller speaks the truth through the holy Ghost-SHE HAS HER SESSION TOMORROW-TUES 7PM UK TIME!!! PLEASE PREY FOR A BREAK THROUGH GUYS!!. I PREY I AM GIVEN A SIGN AS TO WHETHER I SHOULD HOLD OUT FOR A MIRACLE AS I AM INVESTING SO MUCH LOVE AND SUPPORT DESPITE THE NAILS BEING HAMMERED IN THE COFFIN ON THE BLIND FAITH THAT I AM DEMONSTRATING UNCONDITIONAL LOVE AS A PERSONIFCATION OF CHRIST SO SHE MAY COME TO KNOW BOTH CHRIST AGAIN AND THE MEANING OF A FULL, FEARLESS AND SPIRITUAL LOVE THROUGH HIS LOVE IN ME. I KNOW I CAN GIVE HER WHAT WAS ROBBED FROM HER AND DON'T WANT TO SEE HER STUMBLE INTO SOMETHING PURELY DUE TO TIMING. I FEEL WE'VE BEEN ROBBED AS IT IS. IF OUR LORD DOESN'T BELIEVE IN 'US' AS A COUPLE I NEED A SIGN AS IT WOULD BE EASY TPO MOVE ON BUT SOMETHING BEYOND DENIAL HOLDS ME BACK. ANY ANSWERS!? AMEN XXX


Posted by: FriendOfGod

Quote:
Originally Posted by ben chancellor
Dear all thankyou for your prayers, I have truly felt a peace and stillness in my heart but don't know what is going on at the other end as I have been pushed away to the edges since the scars of her childhood have been exposed gradually more and more the further the councilling goes-a repeating comfort zone for her to return to. Samantha suffered and subsequently hardened her heart as after a painfull split of her parents, custody battles, kipnapping, neglect and abuse she stayed with her father a kind and hardworking man I respect in many ways but he is typically british in the old fashioned stiff upper lip sense-she never heard "I love you" once and she was uprooted from various schools, friends and towns numerous times. It is my belief that this is the deep rooted reason behind associating stability and commitment with negative emotion-the subconscious just takes over. This is represented well by the fact that she would tell me now amazing and special I was and things were wonderful untill I mentioned buying us a place then she started becoming destructive and detaching herself from me. The whole idea behind therapy initially was because of the desire and belief that we were worth addressing these issues once and for all unlike her past relationships. So It's so difficult for me to get closure from this as a result.

I have sent her two Christian healing books in the hope that she finds her faith again and prey that she isn't influenced by mediocrity and that her counciller speaks the truth through the holy Ghost-SHE HAS HER SESSION TOMORROW-TUES 7PM UK TIME!!! PLEASE PREY FOR A BREAK THROUGH GUYS!!. I PREY I AM GIVEN A SIGN AS TO WHETHER I SHOULD HOLD OUT FOR A MIRACLE AS I AM INVESTING SO MUCH LOVE AND SUPPORT DESPITE THE NAILS BEING HAMMERED IN THE COFFIN ON THE BLIND FAITH THAT I AM DEMONSTRATING UNCONDITIONAL LOVE AS A PERSONIFCATION OF CHRIST SO SHE MAY COME TO KNOW BOTH CHRIST AGAIN AND THE MEANING OF A FULL, FEARLESS AND SPIRITUAL LOVE THROUGH HIS LOVE IN ME. I KNOW I CAN GIVE HER WHAT WAS ROBBED FROM HER AND DON'T WANT TO SEE HER STUMBLE INTO SOMETHING PURELY DUE TO TIMING. I FEEL WE'VE BEEN ROBBED AS IT IS. IF OUR LORD DOESN'T BELIEVE IN 'US' AS A COUPLE I NEED A SIGN AS IT WOULD BE EASY TPO MOVE ON BUT SOMETHING BEYOND DENIAL HOLDS ME BACK. ANY ANSWERS!? AMEN XXX


Lord, in your greatest mercy, please move mightly in the lives of Samantha and Ben. Have your will and your way in their lives and work everything out for their good. I ask of you in Jesus name I pray, Amen.


Posted by: Laureen

Dear Ben:
I stand in agreement with the other prayers and I also pray for GOD'S WILL to be done in each of your lives as well as total peace and understanding.

GOD BLESS YOU!!! Take good care,
L


Posted by: poodie

Hey, try this, I found it funny that as I read your origonal post that I thought about a book for her, and then when you did your re-ply you mentioned the books, I take that as a sign, I think what you sent will work, not sure if that means that you and her will be back together although, I do stand in agreement for it but the book I thought about, was by Joyce Myers, Battlefield of the mind, and for some reason, beauty for ashes, just popped in my head, that is by Joyce Myers also, these books are the best for past hurts and abuse, I beleive she will be set free from the chains that bind simply for the love you have for her, and the faithfulness to submit her for and to prayer. hope this helps you.

Father in the name of Jesus, I ask for your complete and total will to be done here, show him the signs he needs Lord to be comforted over this situation, bless him for the love and mercy he has for her, give him strenth Lord, Lord please whisper to Samantha that she diserves all the best and bring her to you, Lord love is from you, and this man has that for her, bless them to be a unit, one, married and on their way saved with you, if it be your will, Lord, only your will, In the name of Jesus, amen


Posted by: Missamae80

Lord, I pray for Your blessings upon this relationship. In Jesus' name we pray, Amen.