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My Heart Is Broken

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Posted by: melase

I have found out that my husband has been unfaithful a few years ago. He wants to restore our marriage. I cannot forgive.

Would anyone please be so kind as to pray for the restoration of our marriage and for my forgiveness of him? I love him so.


Posted by: Lynn7

My dear sweet sister. You must forgive him. The word tells us this so many times. When stand before God we cannot have unforgiveness in our hearts towards our brother. First and foremost your husband should be your brother. Father in the name of Jesus, I ask that you soften my sister's heart. I ask that you prepare her for forgiveness. Father I ask that you demonstrate your love for her so that she can be reminded of the great love that you have for us all. Father I know how difficult it is to forgive and to walk in love. It is when we attempt to love on our own that we fail. It is when we surrender to you and ask you to love the other person through us. Daily our love walk will be renewed when we allow you to love through us and not when we attempt to love and forgive on our own. Show her and teach her how to walk in love. Father heal her broken heart and redeem this broken marriage. Both parties seem to be open for reconciliation. That being so, Father please go in and stir up love in them. Return them to the state of oneness in each other. Father I pray that they have a heart to seek you for continued guidance. Father temptation to sin will be around every day every second. Father I ask that you give both parties the strength to say no I am standing in God. I thank you Lord for bringing this couple together and I thank you for healing this marriage. Father if either party is unsaved I ask in the name of your son Jesus that you would prepare their hearts to receive salvation. Thank you Lord in Jesus name AMEN


Posted by: DEBORAH BROUGHTON

MARRIAGE IS PRECIOUS, AND SATAN ALWAYS HAS ATTACK MARRIAGES., BUT WE ARE MORE THAN OVERCOMERS IN DEFEATING HIM IN OUR LIFE. SATAN COME TO KILL STEAL AND DESTROY. I PRAY THAT GOD WILL GIVE YOU MORE THAN ENOUGH GRACE TO OVERCOME THIS DIFFICULT TIME IN YOUR LIFE AND FILL YOUR HEART WITH FORGIVENESS FOR YOUR HUSBAND. GOD IS ABLE TO RESTORE A BROKEN HEART


Posted by: Chris Logan

No one can begin to understand what you are going through unless one has walked the path you are now on. how your heart has to be broken but so is the lord's heart broken for you. he is the one whom sanctified the marriage bed and it is sacred unto him and unto you.

forgiveness is not easy and sometimes it takes time for us to have the desire and to make the choice to forgive. for love and forgiveness is a choice. it is not a feeling. god commands in his word that we love and forgive but within ourselves and our own flesh, it is next to impossible. mans forgiveness is ungenuine and shallow but the forgiveness of and through the lord is holy, pure and real. no less painful to do, but it is real when one allows the lord to enable us to do it.

this is where you have to ask the lord that he will give you the desire and willingness to forgive your husband for the flesh would like to withhold forgiving love. the flesh would like to hurt back and retaliate but the heart of jesus would gently urge and summon you to let it go, give it to him and forgive.

we have to ask him to do something within us that we cannot do in ourselves and that we would allow his loving forgiveness to be manifested within us-----we cant, but he can. but we have to be willing to let him do it within us.

hurt, anger, fear, jealousy, bitterness and unforgiveness will destroy the very soul of man and can and will eventually also destroy the body. it is a destructive cancer in the inner being where christ wants to rule and reign but he cannot show forth his love and glory until this be repented of renounced, released and resisted and turned completely over to him to do the work within you that you are incapable of doing for yourself. we would not need our savior if we had the power within us to have agape love and forgiveness but we do need him for we do not have the god kind of love in our own fleshly, sinful beings.

only jesus can heal the wounded spirit and broken heart but he is a gentleman and will not impose himself upon one whom will not allow his gentle, sweet spirit to bring forth his healing balm of gilead and to set the prisoner free. but he is waiting on you just for the asking and he is more than willing and able to repair and restore the breach and enable you to love your husband more than you have ever loved him before.

Gods love is not like our love. his ways are not like our ways for his love is forever, unconditional and forgives us of our sins over and over again when we repent.

oh how many times have i failed him, forsaken him and disappointed him but at the very moment my heart breaks for the grief and pain that i have caused him and i repent, he is ever there patiently waiting for me and was there all the time, ever so ready to resume the love and fellowship that i had broken, not him. he never leaves us, it is we whom leave him.

May the God of all comfort be ever upon you to grant you his tender compassionate peace and neverfailing, neverending love and may that love flow out of you onto the one whom has so broken you and wounded you so that you will be restored unto the sacred unity that god has so blessed you with. a husband is a gift from God and so is the marriage bed.

may you see your husbands heart through the eyes of love and christ jesus and that you would see and know the truth,--- that he is but a man of mere flesh, just like you and that his heart has been wounded and broken the same as yours but yet if he has repented, christ has forgiven him the same way he will also forgive you if you but repent. Christ's love is there always for you nor will he ever leave or forsake you for he knows the pain you have suffered in the depth of your inner being----and he cares.


Posted by: melase

Words cannot express how thankful I am for your prayers and good wishes. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.


Posted by: Jamvan01

Dear lord, i pray for the restoration of this marriage. i have never been married so i dont know how she feels. Please give her what she needs. In jesus name, Amen.


Posted by: dimple

Lord !! Help this couple restore their marriage.. lord give her the grace to forgive her husband and shower your blessings on them as well as their marriage.


Posted by: melase

Thank you.


Posted by: diamondcreates

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Originally Posted by melase
I have found out that my husband has been unfaithful a few years ago. He wants to restore our marriage. I cannot forgive.

Would anyone please be so kind as to pray for the restoration of our marriage and for my forgiveness of him? I love him so.

My dear sister melase- Forgive. In other words we have come repenting our sins before our Father begging for forgiveness of our transgressions. And HE always forgive HIS children, we as HIS children must learn to forgive others no matter what the situation is. Forgive, release your burdens from the transgressions of your husband that your are still carrying. Release him from the inner hatred you are probably still carrying with you due to what he has done. Ask our Father God in heaven to give you the strength to forgive your husband. Father God bless this woman to give her the strength to forgive her husband's transgressions as YOU have forgiven her of her past transgressions Father God. Bring this couple closer to the alter to have a more intimate relationship with YOU Father God. This I pray in YOUR holy ever lasting name, Amen,Amen,Amen... Be bless.


Posted by: Rachel R

It must be so difficult to forgive this.

Would it help to write it down?

In prayer for you I felt like I could see you crying and writing.

Maybe it is like school.

Can you take a tablet and write "I choose to forgive _____ ." one hundred times?

Might take a couple of hundred if I had to forgive that.

May God comfort your heart.

Rachel R
Lord, I come to you in prayer for this marriage.

I bless them with grace, mercy and forgiveness.

Bring them back together in love and restore all the broken places.

Comfort her heart and kick his rear.

Remind him that his wife is a treasure, and not to be mistreated again.

In Jesus' Name, Amen.




Posted by: Missamae80

"A wise man will make haste to forgive, because he knows the true value of time, and will not suffer it to pass away in unnecessary pain." -Samuel Johnson


"Don't carry a grudge. While you're carrying the grudge, the other guys out dancing." -Buddy Hackett


I really think it would be best for you to forgive your husband. It causes to much stress and pain to hold on to that hurt in your heart. Just let it go, let God have it. I know thats easier said than done. I will be praying He blesses you that peace! God bless you!

Heavenly Father, I pray for the restoration of this marriage. I pray You help this wife to let go of this hurt. To give it to You. Help her to heal. I know You will bring her through this stronger and wiser than she ever was! In Jesus' name we pray, Amen.


Posted by: melase

I thank you all so much. I have had many tragedies and deaths in my life, but none of that compares to this.


Posted by: Missamae80

Just try to stay strong and continue to depend on the Lord and meet with Him in prayer. God bless...


Posted by: melase

I want to thank you all. I have forgiven certain aspects of the affair. Other parts of it, I am still working on. Thank you.


Posted by: Rachel R

Lord, I continue in prayer for our dear Sister.

Strengthen her and show her how to let you bear this burden for her.

I bless her with new understanding and perspective.

Show her new paths that lead to freedom and joy.

Help her and send angels to help her.

I bless their home with supernatural love and light.

In Jesus' Name, Amen.


Posted by: FriendOfGod

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Originally Posted by melase
I have found out that my husband has been unfaithful a few years ago. He wants to restore our marriage. I cannot forgive.

Would anyone please be so kind as to pray for the restoration of our marriage and for my forgiveness of him? I love him so.


O dearest most gracious God, please have your will and your way in all of this. Please step in and reconcile this couple. Please give her the ability to let go ad forgive. Please help them to do what is right. I ask of you in Jesus name I pray, Amen.