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Originally Posted by sugarsweet820
Please pary for my 4 year old daughter. A few years ago I lost my way. I fell alseep and walked away from everything and everone that I loved. I met a man who seemed like he was the most wonderful thing in the world and i got pregnant. The man seemed like he loved me though it was more out of fear that I stayed with him. When we found out that I was prgnant he told me to have an abortion. I said no that my daughter was a blessing from God and that she was an angel that saved me. I began to wake up and open my eyes to God again. He then told me he never wanted children and he offered her up for adoption to some friends of ours. never asking me if i wanted that. My two friends said they would take her but confronted me about it. I said no she is my gift from God. He then seemed to settle down abit but was very violent. We worked on our relationship for awhile. He got us onto all kinds of state assistance. I never wanted to go on cause there was no need. i week before her second birthday he convinced me to sign the papers saying that if we ever seperated and what not that everything would be 50/50. We had a wedding date set though then i should have realized that something was wrong because every date we had set he changed or cancelled for some reason or another. Against my friends and families suggestions i signed the papers thinking nothing was wrong. The day after her birthday we got into an argument about my daughter. About what was apropriate and things that were not. His parents had let her wonder around a nursing home by herself. We had taken her presents to the car and when we came back i found her by the main doors crying cause Mommy was gone. They said they let her do this all the time. I found this very inapropriate. HE said it was fine. I said i was takeing Abby to a friends house and was going to do a couple loads of laundry. He showed up and warned them he was going to leave. My friend had warned me and took me back over there to talk to him. We had desided that on WEd. We would get backtogetter and work things out. In the mean time he hjad moved out leaving me and Abby with nothing but a huge mess and our clothes most of wich was to small for her. Then i would have to beg him to even see her. It was not until he realized that my fiancee was takeing care of her that he started to do anything. in 2005 she started talking about a green spiderman that would sneak into her room at night at her daddies and touch her privates. SHe is in theropy because of this wich i had to fight her father on. He sais we are makeing everything up. But she was terified to go over there. I still had to send her because of the court systems. N othing has been made out of all of this yet. Now he has been complaining sence the end of the last school year that she hates her school. She will come home crying talking about how much she hates it. I had descussed this with her father and he tells me that if i want to pull her out thats fine. Do what i want. He took me back to court and lied stateing that i never descussed this with him. He is now saying that because of this she is in to caotic of and environment and i am unfit to take care of her. He's going for sole custody and placement and i get supervised visits. I am expected to pay him child support of 17%. He does not even pay that i get 100/ month for her. It's amazing how he has been able to get everything that he wants. I am afrais that he will get this too. I seriously think that the juge does not like women. Every women that i have talked to that has had this juge has gotten the shaft in one way or another with or without a lawyer. I have a lawyer but she is 3000. She let us do a payment plan but she didn't go to the first court date and sent someone else. And she really hasn't called me back to talk about what we are going to do for the next day. I am getting scared and worried. Yesterday we were playing my little ponies with Abby and she told my fiancee that God and jesus and his angels are not real. She has been saying this off and on sence My x and i broke up and he got her exactly 50% time during Christmas Season Last year. We were able to help her see this was untrue. This time it is because he theropist is trying to help her with what is real and what is fantasy anything u can not see and touch is fantasy. Her father does not believe in God he does not believe in jesus and he is constantly confusing my little girl. I am afraid that if her gets her full time he will completly destroy this little girl. I have resently found out they hiered a private investigaor to prove i am an unfit mother. I have never done anythiing illegal, I am just really upset that they are harrasing my neighbors and everything at there place of work. Not asking questions but makeing bold face lie statements. I am worried that because he has a way of getting what he wants, That he will get this becaus he has a presence about it him that takes a few hours or in my case months to see through. Where i am honest and some people just dont like that. We dont make enough money to actually afford all of this. They are talking about how a gaurdium atlightum might get involved and that can be up 4000 too.
SO please pray that the darkness will come to light. Pray that myt little girl will tell her theropist what has happened to her. Pray that everything will be okay. Pray that my little girl understands that she is allowed to Love both her parents and her soon to be step dad wich she call daddy all the same. Pray that my daught is safe. Pray that all of this that is happening will soon come to an end and that he will be made exapmle of. That he can not lie in court and get away with it. Pray that he leaves me and my family alone. Pray that his Mom and Dad get ther hands off him and stop controllingall of his actions for it is them that are pulling all the strings and paying all the money for him. Pray that al of his sins get placed infront of him and that he is going to have to make a desion on what is right and what is wrong.Pray that he stop using his daughter as a pawn to try to hurt me. I am praying as often in the day as i can and at night but i need more help. Please Pray fo everything. I will now apologize for my horrible grammer and my even worse spelling. Neither are a strong point for me. Thank you- Cindy |