He is hurting and suffering grief like crazy. He is determined not to give up. My uncle Stan is very upset over his wife having an affair and now refusing to talk to him. He does not want to quit or give up on his marriage. He has tried to be a devoted husband. He called me yesterday and today and kept me on the phone for hours, dumping his hurts and pain on my shoulders. New things come up that upset him even more. He spoke with my aunt yesterday morning and she told him that she will not see us for Christmas. He is highly disturbed and in a crisis over his marriage and his inability to get a hold of my aunt. I have counseled and comforted him for 5-6 hours over the last 2 days and I am exhausted. 
My uncle is unable to cope right now. He is unable to get any sleep and he took sick leave off of work today to process the pain. I would have posted this prayer request this morning, had it not been for my uncle keeping me on the phone for 2 hours this morning and an hour and a half this afternoon! 
He called me just now, and I had to let him know that I am behind in my work and my personal business. He graciously let me off since that is the kind of guy he is. There are no words to describe the agony my uncle is in. He is unable to find peace even after praying to God. He is devistated. He is fearful because he has no way of knowing what my aunt is doing with this guyl He told me that if his wife decided to divorce him, he would loose half of his retirement! He has so many fears and worries going through his head. I am the only one he has to talk to who will listen to his hurts and fears. He learned about eharmony marriage and he is trying to get my aunt to take her test so the computer can do a profile of their marriage and advise them on what can be improved. He seems not to be able to let go. He's going to have to put it in God's hands since he did his part and confronted his wife already. He does not feel that he can be at peace until he speaks to her one more time. That may not be possible right now. He is afraid that if he doesn't take more action to fix his marriage, that it will end up in ruins for sure! Please pray for God to give him peace before he goes into a nervous breakdown. Pray for God to give him strength and to wrap his loving arms around him, comforting him. Please pray that my uncle Stan is able to get some much needed sleep. I am concerned about his sanity and his health. I also don't want his job to suffer. I know he's a strong man. Pray for God to intervene and interject and do something to stop this affair in the meantime. Pray for God to step in and save this marriage, giving it one more chance before it becomes unsalvageable. Please pray everyone! Please! My uncle's loosing it! God Bless You All!|
Originally Posted by Christian Commando
Lord-
We pray for this uncle. We know what you declare about marriage. We pray for your healing and restorative power over this couple. Bring forth peace, compassion, love and honor back to this couple. Break the bond of influence satan has in this relationship and replace it with eyes and hearts of both for only each other and you God, in your ;oving grace and Mercy. in Jesus Name- Amen!! |
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Originally Posted by Rachel R
Lord, I come to you in prayer for Stan.
Please comfort his heart and ease his pain. Please lead their marriage in the way that it should go. In Jesus' Name, Amen. |
There is hope! She sounds as if she might reconsider her acitons. Please pray for God to continue to work in this marriage amd finish what he started. God Bless You All!|
Originally Posted by Rachel R
Lord, I come to you in prayer for her uncle.
Comfort his heart and help him find healing. Surround him with peace and help him release this into your loving hands. Please lead them to restoration if it is your will. In Jesus' Name, Amen. |
I am really praying for a miracle that God stops this vacation. My uncle and aunt met last night and she has stated her firm decision. She has no regard to the trauma she is causing my uncle. 
She is not making sense. She will go out to dinner with him and have a nice time with him, all the while determined to go through with this affair. Please pray for a miracle that either this om will become distasteful to her or that God will convict her and drop her to her knees, or that the om will call off the relationship. My uncle and aunt have been married for 36 years. I am pleading with God that their 36 years of marriage will not go down the drain! Pray that this vacation is stopped by the power of God's amazing fist! 
God Bless You All!