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Rob needs a biblical reality check !

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Posted by: lynnie778

Our marriage suffered last year because of Rob's internet infidelity.
We almost split up forever but God has done miracles....Rob is back at it again......he calls it ministry. Divorced woman . They are just prayer partners and they talk until 2 AM.....while I am asleep. I am furious.....
I cannot change this man...Only God can ....and I need help....Please pray.....for God to intervene....soon...and to heal my anger and hurt.
Lynn C


Posted by: Rachel R

"YIKES!"

Dumb and dumber.

How many marriages will be destoyed this very day over 'ministry'?

The verse comes to mind that we are to run from even the appearance of evil.

I think that relates to if it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck and walks like a duck then it is probably a duck and not 'ministry'.
Lord, please knock some sense into his head and preserve their marriage.

I bless them with wisdom and understanding that will lead to complete FREEDOM in you.

Please surround their home with your protection and cover their property with order and peace.

In Jesus' Name, Amen.



Posted by: Rachel R

I remain in prayer for wisdom to flow through their home and bring maturity and healing!

I proclaim order, prosperity and deliverance.

Please set them free!

In Jesus' Name, Amen.


Posted by: akabezalel

After 34 years of marriage to my Husband ther are a few things that I have finally learned...

#1 God is not a gossip! - He will not talk to you about Rob and He will not talk to Rob about you. At least not in any way you expect Him too.

#2 When my marriage has had rough places I have discovered that forgiving my husband for ALL slights, wrongs, sin, hurts, words, whatever is the ONLY thing you can do to make things better! Forgiveness and letting go of the problem allows God to work freely in both your lives.

#3 It does no good trying to change your spouse in your own strength or by nagging God to do so! YOU must change! YOU must seek the Father to find out and change where YOU are standing in the wrong so that He can be free to work FOR YOU in your spouse.

#4 Spend time in prayer for your Husband but spend even MORE time in prayer for yourself asking for forgiveness for yourself and seeking wisdom in every area of your own life!!! This frees the Holy Spirit to work for you and in you to change the situation!

Your husband is accountable to God not to you.

You are accountable to your husband but you have God as your advocate when things are not right.

You can ask the Father to release you from your vows, your husband cannot.

You can and should ask the Father to forgive the sin of your husband (and others) so that the Holy Spirit can work in his heart and change him... without forgiveness both from you and from God the Holy Spirit's hands are tied.

#5 The choice is YOURS. You can forgive and allow God to deal with your husband or you can continue doing what you are doing and watch your marriage dissolve before your eyes.


Posted by: Forgiveness23

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Originally Posted by akabezalel
After 34 years of marriage to my Husband ther are a few things that I have finally learned...

#1 God is not a gossip! - He will not talk to you about Rob and He will not talk to Rob about you. At least not in any way you expect Him too.

#2 When my marriage has had rough places I have discovered that forgiving my husband for ALL slights, wrongs, sin, hurts, words, whatever is the ONLY thing you can do to make things better! Forgiveness and letting go of the problem allows God to work freely in both your lives.

#3 It does no good trying to change your spouse in your own strength or by nagging God to do so! YOU must change! YOU must seek the Father to find out and change where YOU are standing in the wrong so that He can be free to work FOR YOU in your spouse.

#4 Spend time in prayer for your Husband but spend even MORE time in prayer for yourself asking for forgiveness for yourself and seeking wisdom in every area of your own life!!! This frees the Holy Spirit to work for you and in you to change the situation!

Your husband is accountable to God not to you.

You are accountable to your husband but you have God as your advocate when things are not right.

You can ask the Father to release you from your vows, your husband cannot.

You can and should ask the Father to forgive the sin of your husband (and others) so that the Holy Spirit can work in his heart and change him... without forgiveness both from you and from God the Holy Spirit's hands are tied.

#5 The choice is YOURS. You can forgive and allow God to deal with your husband or you can continue doing what you are doing and watch your marriage dissolve before your eyes.

Wow.. Thank you for that...