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Protection Against Mother's Mental And Emotional Abuse

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Posted by: diamondcreates

FATHER GOD, PROTECT MY HUSBAND AGAINST HIS MOTHER'S MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL ABUSE TOWARDS HIM. FATHER GOD, THIS MOTHER/ SON RELATIONSHIP IS NOT HEALTHY FOR HIM, HIS IS CONSTANTLY THE 'TAIL' IN HER EYES, AND NEVER THE HEAD. SHE WOULD CONSTANTLY SAY MEAN AND VERY NEGATIVE STATEMENTS TO HIM TO ON PURPOSE TO REMOVE ANY GOOD SPIRITS HE MIGHT BE IN. IT IS A CONSTANT STRUGGLE FOR HIM TO EVEN SPEAK TO HER ABOUT LITTLE THINGS YET ALONE BIG THINGS. FATHER GOD, ALLOW THIS MOTHER SEES HOW MUCH SHE IS HURTING THIS SON (EVEN THOUGH SHE STATED TO HIM SHE ONLY HAD HIM BECAUSE SHE THOUGHT HE BELONGED TO HER HUSBAND AND NOT HER LOVER) AND STOP QUICKLY. AND EMBRACE HIM WITH LOVE AND NOT HATE AND HURTFUL WORDS. THIS I PRAY IN YOUR HOLY EVER LASTING NAME FATHER GOD, THAT THY'S WILL SHALL BE AND WILL BE DONE FOR THESE TWO. BE BLESS FAMILY OF GOD, FOR THROUGH HIM AND WITH HIM ALL THINGS ARE INDEED POSSIBLE BY CALLING UPON HIS HOLY NAME.


Posted by: Rachel R

Hurt People Hurt People.
She's a wounded wounder.

My mother used to say that her sister wasn't just crazy, she was contagious. She made OTHER people crazy.

My girlfriend's Mom was so much like his mother. When her Mom passed away a few years ago my friend had her body cremated, buried the ashes and had concrete poured and a large headstone placed on top. She said she just felt better knowing she was GONE. HA!

I don't mean to make light of an AWFUL situation.

His mother is banging around in darkness and lashing out at people. Let's pray for her again...
Lord, I come to you in prayer for this broken woman and her dear family.

I ask for you to rush to help her.

I ask you to open her ears so that she will HEAR what she is saying and KNOW how hurtful it is.

Please give her new life and let the healing begin!

In Jesus' Name, Amen.

It was a comfort to me with my family to know that the 'curses' that are on families are only good for four generations, and the 'blessings' on families go on for a thousand generations!

I took it literally and broke off a ton of junk and stopped it right here.

Sounds like his family has had a least FOUR broken generations!

Break off all of the curses and bless them with new blessings!

Rachel R



Posted by: diamondcreates

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Originally Posted by Rachel R
Hurt People Hurt People.




She's a wounded wounder.

My mother used to say that her sister wasn't just crazy, she was contagious. She made OTHER people crazy.

My girlfriend's Mom was so much like his mother. When her Mom passed away a few years ago my friend had her body cremated, buried the ashes and had concrete poured and a large headstone placed on top. She said she just felt better knowing she was GONE. HA!

I don't mean to make light of an AWFUL situation.

His mother is banging around in darkness and lashing out at people. Let's pray for her again...

Lord, I come to you in prayer for this broken woman and her dear family.


I ask for you to rush to help her.

I ask you to open her ears so that she will HEAR what she is saying and KNOW how hurtful it is.

Please give her new life and let the healing begin!

In Jesus' Name, Amen.


It was a comfort to me with my family to know that the 'curses' that are on families are only good for four generations, and the 'blessings' on families go on for a thousand generations!


I took it literally and broke off a ton of junk and stopped it right here.

Sounds like his family has had a least FOUR broken generations!

Break off all of the curses and bless them with new blessings!

Rachel R

THANK YOU DEAR SISTER FOR YOUR WONDERFUL BLESSINGS AND INSIGHT. PLEASE DON'T THINK OF ME BEING IGNORANT - BUT WHERE DO I BEGIN? EVERY TIME I HELP HIS FAMILY OUT -- I AM ALWAYS IN THE LOSEING BATTLE. MY CREDIT IS BAD NOW DUE TO HIS MOTHER, I AM CONSTANTLY BROKE DUE TO HIS MOTHER AND OTHER FAMILY MEMBERS. WHERE DO I BEGIN? FOR EVERY TIME I TRY TO BLESS THEM I FEEL AS THOUGH I AM BEING DRAINED EMOTIONALLY,MENTALLY, AND FINANCIALLY AND DURING ALL THIS DRAINAGE I AM ARGUING WITH DION ABOUT HOW MUCH THEY ARE DRAINING ME/US WHILE AT THE SAME TIME HE IS CONTINUEING TO TELL ME THIS ISN'T GOING TO LAST LONG TOO MUCH LONGER. I FEEL AS THOUGH EVERY THING I HAD PLANNED FOR THIS FAMILY HAS LITERALLY WENT DOWN THE TUBE DUE TO HELPING HIS FAMILY SO MUCH AND NO ONE WANTS TO STEP UP AND HELP US OUT. WHERE DO I HONESTLY BEGIN WHEN YOU ARE ALL TAPPED OUT DEAR SISTER?


Posted by: Rachel R

I guess no one ever knew I was breaking the curses off of the family except me.

I just spoke it, when I was alone, and not to anyone.

I went around my house and declared that Jesus is Lord over my home, my family, my property, my finances and most of all, MY CHILDREN.

I blessed each room, each door and each wall. I played praise music and let the house soak in it.

I walked around my property outside (I made this look like watering, or weeding or gardening. I did it once while I painted the fence. Better not to look TOO wierd!) and declared that Jesus is Lord over my property, and that everything else had to go away.

I blessed the laundry as I did it. I wept over little items of clothing as I blessed my children and prayed protection over them.

I blessed their beds and pillows and blankets as I changed sheets, that they would always have safe haven here and not be afraid and that their hearts would be open and here Jesus speak to them in their rest.

I swept out negative things as I dusted and swept and vacuumed. I cleaned the spiritual dirt out!

I took dominion over things that tried to attack us and commanded them to go.

I spent a quite a while at one house we bought just clearing out the fear that had been stored there before we came.

To me, our family is our own personal Garden of Eden and we are to responsible for working it, aggressively, and turn ordinary ground into Holy Ground.

I hope that helps...

You have been through so much.

I am so concerned for you.

Love and prayers to you, dear one. Love and prayers to your family.


Posted by: diamondcreates

DEAR SISTER IN CHRIST, MY HUSBAND IS CONCERNED ABOUT MY WELL BEING AS WELL. WITH SO MUCH WE HAVE ENDURED THIS PAST YEAR, IT SEEMS AS THOUGH EVERY TIME WE GET A STEP AHEAD SOMEONE WHOM IS JEALOUS OF US, IS TRYING EVERY POSSIBLE THING TO KNOCK US BACK DOWN. TO BE ON THE SAME LEVEL AS THEM. IT HURTS EVERY BONE IN MY BODY TO SEE THIS MOTHER TREAT HER YOUNGEST SON THE WAY THAT SHE DOES BECAUSE HE DIDN'T BELONG TO HER HUSBAND. BUT YET IN STILL THIS IS THE CHILD WHOM SHE CONSTANTLY CALLED UPON -- THIS IS THE CHILD THAT IS TREATED AS IF HE IS A FOSTER CHILD INSTEAD OF HER OWN BIOLIGICAL CHILD. IT HURTS TO SEE THAT THE PEOPLE MY HUSBAND LOVES AND ADORES DOESN'T TREAT HIM THE SAME WAY IN RETURN BUT CONSTANTLY GIVE GUILT TRIPS. SHE WOULD TALK DOWN AND DISRESPECT DION BEFORE SHE PRAISE HIM. NOT ONCE IN THE MONTHS THAT SHE HAS BEEN HERE HAVE I EVER HEARD HER PRAISE HIM AND SAY HOW PROUD SHE IS OF HIM. NEVER HAVE I HEARD ANYTHING POSITIVE FROM THIS WOMAN TO THIS CHILD, INSTEAD I HEAR -- IF I KNEW YOU WERE FROM MY LOVER I WOULDN'T HAD YOU. MAYBE I COME OFF TOO AGRESSIVE/ PROTECTIVE OVER MY HUSBAND AND FAMILY. AND THAT IS SOMETHING HE IS NOT USED TO -- BECAUSE SHE HAS NEVER CAME TO HIS AIDE.


THANK YOU DEAR SISTER FOR YOU WORDS OF WISDOM AND COMFORT TO DISPELL THE NEGATIVE SPIRITS THAT IS SURROUNDING MY HOME AT THIS PRESENT TIME. I THINK IT WAS HER SPIRIT THAT ALLOWED ME TO STAY AWAY FROM HER PREVIOUS APARTMENTS. NOW ALL HER HATE, ALL HER ENVY, ALL HER JEALOUSY, IS PILED UP IN MY HOME, AND I AM TRYING SO DESPERATELY TO GET OUT.

FATHER GOD, IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF JESUS, I AM ASKING YOU TO REMOVE ALL NEGATIVE SPIRITS THAT IS SURROUNDING MY HOME DEAR LORD. FATHER GOD, BIND AND REMOVE ALL NEGATIVE FORCES THAT IS IN THIS HOUSE THAT IS NOT FOR US BUT CONTINUE TO BE AGAINST US. REMOVE ALL ENVY, JEALOUS, GREEDY SPIRITS DEAR LORD -- REMOVE THESE SPIRITS WITH A SWIFTNESS. CLEAN MY HOME DEAR LORD, BRING LOVE, GRACE, MERCY AND COMMUNICATION BACK INTO MY MARRIAGE ONCE AGAIN DEAR LORD. WASH THIS HOME DEAR LORD WITH THE BLOOD OF JESUS FROM THE ROOF TOP TO THE BASEMENT FLOOR. THIS I PRAY IN YOUR HOLY EVER LASTING NAME DEAR LORD, AMEN, AMEN, AMEN, BE BLESS FAMILY OF GOD. FOR THROUGH HIM AND WITH ALL THINGS IS INDEED POSSIBLE.


Posted by: Rachel R

I come into complete agreement with you!

I bless your home and family!

I command that only truth be spoken and that liars will be silent.

I drain off the pain and sorrow and pour on the freedom and joy.

I bless your home and family with light and love and order.

I speak that dominion will come to you and YOU will be in charge of your own home and life.

Lord, please send the destroyer packing and bring freedom to their home.

Please show her each step she can take to turn this around.

In Jesus' Mighty Name, Amen.


Posted by: FriendOfGod

O dear Lord God, please intervene on this matter! Please bring peace between this mother and son. Please bring a halt to this discord and strife! I ask of You in Jesus name I pray, Amen.


Posted by: diamondcreates

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Originally Posted by FriendOfGod
O dear Lord God, please intervene on this matter! Please bring peace between this mother and son. Please bring a halt to this discord and strife! I ask of You in Jesus name I pray, Amen.

FATHER GOD, I STAND IN AGREEMENT WITH THIS PRAYER FOR MOTHER TO LOVE, NOT LOTHE THE SON, OR USE HIS LOVE, FOR HER AS A TOOL AGAINST HIM. TO BE PROUD OF HIM, INSTEAD OF JEALOUS OF HIS BLESSINGS. FATHER GOD, BIND ALL NEGATIVE HURTFUL WORDS OR ACTIONS FROM THIS MOTHER TO THIS SON. BRING PEACE AND HARMONY BACK INTO THIS SON'S LIFE ONCE AGAIN WITH HIS MOTHER. AND IF THERE WAS NONE DEAR LORD, BRING IT NOW. THIS I PRAY IN YOUR HOLY EVER LASTING NAME, AMEN, AMEN,AMEN... BE BLESS FAMILY OF GOD, FOR ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE WITH THE CALL ON HIS MIGHTY NAME. AMEN!!


Posted by: meJane

My heart cries out to you diamondcreates, for I have been in your shoes also.
I think about your name 'diamondcreats' and I see diamonds all around you....and God sees a diamond in the ruff.....he is refining you to love the unlovable.

Many times I had to ask God to give me "his love" for my MIL.
She hated me with a passion, and her son, my Husband, she liked the least of her 6 sons. ( she was very rude and inconsiderate for years and years, as well as with my children)
Now in her old age, we are the only ones that are there constantly for her, although I stay away as much as possible, the pain is too great at times to hang around her....but she begs and longs for me to come visit. *sigh.

When I asked God to show me how much he loves her, it was unbearable for me to bare, I would see her how HE loves her, and I felt like the prophet Jonah when he didn't feel the people from Nineveh deserved forgiveness and freedom....I had to ask God to stop showing me his love for my MIL, but it did help to see that He loves her much, and I started to love her too...and get over my pain and hurts.

I pray for this release to come over your husband and you, as this is a snare the enemy has over you and he is totally enjoying your misery.
So....don't give him the pleasure of being miserable.
The enemy won't like it, but he'll get used to it, and eventually will leave you alone.
Live has many tests....
The test is yours, will you pass it?


Posted by: diamondcreates

HOW POWERFUL YOUR WORDS ARE DEAR SISTER. FOR JUST TODAY I HAD EMAILED MY HUSBAND SAYING THOSE SAME EXACT WORDS. NOT ALLOWING THE MIL TO CONTINUE TO DRAIN ME ANY LONGER NO MATTER WHAT THE MENTAL ILLNESS IS. I HAVE BEEN DRAINED ENOUGH AND I HAVE TO MAKE THE VERY BEST OUT OF THE SITUATION NO MATTER HOW MESSED UP IT IS. I CANNOT WAIT FOR MIL TO CHANGE, I HAVE TO CHANGE AND STAY ON THE PATH FOR ME AND MY FAMILY'S SAKE. BECAUSE IF I DON'T I WILL BE CONTINUING TO BLOCK OUR BLESSINGS. AND THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT THE ENEMY WANTS. FOR ME TO BE FUSTRATED AT HER SILLNESS, AND OFF THE WALL HURTFUL SAYING AND ACTIONS TO MY HUSBAND, AND WANT ME TO HOLLER AND SCREAM UNTIL I TURN BLUE IN THE FACE ABOUT WHAT HIS MOTHER HAS SAID AND DONE TO BRING THIS FAMILY DOWN, BECAUSE SHE DON'T HAVE A PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD, AND IF SHE DID, I DOUBT SERIOUSLY SHE WOULD CONTINUE TO BEHAVE THE WAY THAT SHE DOES TOWARDS THIS CHILD, WHOM IS ALWAYS THERE FOR HER EVEN WHEN HE DON'T HAVE IT - HE WILL GET IT SOME TYPE OF WAY FOR HER TO HAVE. AND SHE TREAT HIM WORST THAN PEOPLE IN A 3RD WORLD COUNTRY ARE TREATED. SHE DON'T RESPECT HIM, NOR LOVE HIM THE SAME WAY HE LOVES HER AND SHE DON'T HAVE HIS BEST INTEREST AS HE DOES HER'S.

FATHER GOD, CONTINUE TO ANOINT MY HOME, MY FAMILY, REMOVE ALL NEGATIVE WORDS AND ACTIONS THAT HAS BEEN SURROUNDING THIS HOME FOR QUITE SOME TIME NOW DEAR LORD. FATHER GOD, ANOINT THIS HOME FROM THE ROOF TOP TO THE BASEMENT FLOOR. BIND ALL NEGATIVE WORDS AND ACTIONS OF THIS HOME FATHER GOD, ALLOW NO WEAPONS TO BE FORMED AGAINST THIS FAMILY AND NO WEAPON SHALL PROSPER AGAINST THIS FAMILY DEAR LORD. RAISE A HEDGE OF PROTECTION AROUND MY HUSBAND DION FROM THE SNARES OF THE HURTFUL WORDS OF HIS MOTHER KATIE DEAR LORD. WASH OVER HIM WITH THE PRECIOUS BLOOD OF JESUS TO BE HIS SHIELD AND SWORD AGAINST THE ENEMY. FOR THE DEVIL ATTACKS US THROUGH THOSE THAT WE LOVE THE MOST, AND HE HAS DONE THAT THROUGH KATIE TO DION. FATHER GOD, BIND AND REMOVE ALL NEGATIVE WORDS, AND ACTIONS IN THIS HOME FROM THIS MOTHER AND BROTHERS. THIS I PRAY IN YOUR HOLY EVER LASTING NAME DEAR LORD, THAT THY'S WILL SHALL BE AND WILL BE DONE WITH AND FOR THIS FAMILY. IN JESUS' PRECIOUS NAME I PRAY, AMEN, AMEN, AMEN... BE BLESS FAMILY OF GOD FOR ALL THINGS ARE INDEED POSSIBLE WITH THE CALL ON HIS MIGHTY HOLY NAME. AMEN!!!


Posted by: Trinitylove

God in the name of Jesus,

I pray that you change this family heart and feel them with love.

Change this mothers heart towards her son, give her a new heart and deliver her from the abusive spirit that is with in her. Save her God in the name of Jesus.

God I pray that you remove any and every thing, including relationships that you would not have in Dimondcreates and her husbands life.

I believe it was apostle paul who said, Lord we have left all to follow thee, and Jesus said, there is not one that has left children, land, family, parents for my name sake that shall not have manifold at this present time, and inherit eternal life.

Let thine will be done in the name of Jesus.


Posted by: diamondcreates

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Originally Posted by Trinitylove
God in the name of Jesus,

I pray that you change this family heart and feel them with love.

Change this mothers heart towards her son, give her a new heart and deliver her from the abusive spirit that is with in her. Save her God in the name of Jesus.

God I pray that you remove any and every thing, including relationships that you would not have in Dimondcreates and her husbands life.

I believe it was apostle paul who said, Lord we have left all to follow thee, and Jesus said, there is not one that has left children, land, family, parents for my name sake that shall not have manifold at this present time, and inherit eternal life.

Let thine will be done in the name of Jesus.

THANK YOU TRINITYLOVE FOR YOUR AWESOME SPIRITUAL ENLIGHTENMENT AND ENCOURAGEMENT FOR ME AND MY HUSBAND. THE SCRIPTURE THAT YOU HAVE USED HAS INDEED FILLED MY HEART WITH JOY FOR THINGS TO COME OUR WAY.

FATHER GOD, I STAND IN THE GAP OF AGREEMENT WITH THIS PETITION BETWEEN MOTHER AND SON DEAR FATHER. THAT THE CYCLE OF MENTAL, AND EMOTIONAL ABUSE FROM MOTHER TO SON SHALL AND WILL STOP RIGHT NOW DEAR FATHER. BIND ALL NEGATIVE THOUGHTS, WORDS AND ACTIONS FROM THIS MOTHER. REMOVE ALL HURTFUL WORDS, AND ACTIONS FATHER GOD FROM KATIE TOWARDS DION. FILL HER WITH WISDOM DEAR LORD, AND UNDERSTANDING DEAR LORD THAT ALL THE WORDS AND ACTIONS THAT SHE HAS DONE TO DION IS NOT CHRISTIAN LIKE, AND WANT TO HAVE A MORE CLOSER WALK WITH YOU LORD. THIS I PRAY IN YOUR HOLY EVER LASTING NAME DEAR LORD, AMEN, AMEN, AMEN... BE BLESS FAMILY OF GOD. FOR INDEED THROUGH CHRIST ALL THINGS ARE INDEED POSSIBLE. AMEN!!!


Posted by: diamondcreates

FATHER GOD, ANOINT THIS HOME AGAINST THE SNARES OF THE DEVIL THAT IS IN THIS HOUSE DEAR LORD. FATHER GOD, ANOINT US WITH A PATH WAY WHERE WE WILL BE FINANICALLY SOUND WHERE WE DO NOT HAVE TO RELY ON KATIE'S PORTION OF THE MORTGAGE NO LONGER DEAR LORD. FATHER GOD, I DON'T KNOW WHAT GOT INTO KATIE BESIDES THE DEVIL HIMSELF, DEAR LORD. FOR SHE WAS SCREAMING AT THE TOP OF HER LUNGS IN DION'S FACE THIS EVENING BECAUSE HE ASKED NOT TO QUESTION HIS FRIENDS WHOM COME TO HIS HOUSE TO VISIT HIM. LORD I HEARD HER ALL THE WAY UP ON THE 3RD FLOOR IN THE HOUSE AND THEY WERE ON THE FIRST FLOOR IN THE KITCHEN. FATHER GOD, SHE DID THIS BEHAVIOR IN FRONT OF HIS FRIENDS ALL WEEKEND LONG BUT THE YELLING SHE DID IN FRONT OF SOMEONE THAT DION IS TRYING TO HELP GET THEIR LIVES BACK IN ORDER TO THEIR FAMILY SITUTATION DEAR LORD. FATHER GOD, BIND ALL NEGATIVE SPIRITS IN THIS HOUSE AND REMOVE THEM ALL DEAR FATHER. RAISE A HEDGE OF PROTECTION SURROUNDING DION FROM THE HATEFUL AND HURTFUL WORDS FROM HIS MOTHER DIRECTED AT HIM. THIS I PRAY IN YOUR MOST HOLY AND GLORIOUS NAME FATHER GOD, AMEN, AMEN, AMEN... BE BLESS FAMILY OF GOD FOR THROUGH HIM AND WITH HIM ALL THINGS ARE INDEED POSSIBLE WITH THE CALL ON HIS MIGHTY NAME. AMEN!!!