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Posted by: ptcarol514
Fathers day is here: We are not divorced, however we have been seperated for over nine months. We also have not talked at all in this time. Well i was going tosend my husband a fathers day card. Honestly I am petrified, What if I get rejected or he thinks He was right I can't make it on my Own and that is why I am sending the card. Grant it Yes I do want him back, But not because I can't make it on my own. I love him I am still after 22 years crazy in love with him. Besides How do I know if it is the Lord's will. I mean he doesn't even know the Lord. I don't want our marriage the way it was THe LOrd said he was going to do a new thing. Help!!!!!
anyone please so advice please
Posted by: Rachel R
Why would you send him a Father's Day card?
His children can make that decision, but why would you send one?
He's not your father.
Why would you initiate any contact?
That wouldn't make sense to me.
Vanish.
He needs time to think.
Everytime you invade his space he resets and has to start over.
My opinion?
No card.
Rachel R
Posted by: JeriRose12
I don't know the entire situation.
But gut feeling (which I was told is the Holy Ghost) -- don't send him a father's day card.
He willingly chose to leave you, and the Bible says to let the unbelieving partner go.
So: Let him go!
It is time for you to HEAL in The Lord. You need to be SEPERATE from ths man, let this man GO, become WHOLE in the Lord.
Don't send the card and open old wounds through letting him reject you again.
If he left you, he will feel like you are trying to force him to like you, come back, etc.
Do not give a man a chance to perpetrate feelings of rejection. He has already said (by leaving) that he doesn't want you. Why send a card only to have him tell you that again?
If he has already left, you must leave it at that. Romans says plainly to let the unbelieving partner go. It does not say to go seeking after him, trying ot bring him back. . . .
Could you love God enough, be totatlly crazy in love with HIM enough to just let go? To just let God be the love of your life? To let him fill the place in you you think this man filled?
It is truly time to move on, to leave this man in God's hands.
Don't try to fix him or the marriage. YOU are not capable of either.
LET GO, LET GO, LET GO.
~JeriRose~
Posted by: Christian Commando
Well, when it comes to couples becoming seperated, what does God say about forgiveness? It has to start somewhere.
People are going to think, according to whoever they allow to influence them be it God or satan. What is wrong in showing God's forgiving nature thru a person by sending a card or note. After all, God, thru Paul declares, nothing is worth anything, if not done in love.
Besides, I know of several couples who'd been legally divorced for some years and yet, God reunited them even stronger, more joyful and satisfied later, after God brought each mate to thier proper place to bring them back together.
Thats my toughts anyways-
God Bless!!
Posted by: BrendaMagana
It is not going to be easy to quit a marriage of 22 years.
Before you let go talk to God. Enlist the help of the Holy Spirit. He is an excellent Intercessor who knows the mind of God.
Allow Him to search and identify problems in your marriage and to present them to God in accordance to the will of God for you and your husband.
And remember to pray on even as the Holy Spirit of God interceeds for your marriage.
Do not let love and forgiveness depart your tents!
God will certainly hear your cries for help!