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Parents loss of Authority over teens
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Posted by: Rmartel
There is a wide spread epidemic going on with the loss of Authority with parents who have proven with facts chidren who are on drugs and also purchasing drugs on sites. I am with holding the names of the sites for legal reasons.
We have been investigating for 6 months now and have released imformation to the Rcmp Okotoks Alberta ;with supplied photo copies of a teen setting up a drug deal. One site has been very cooperative in this matter as they cannot police all of it members.
This has to rely on the Parents to do so. We have found that the responsible parents have less problems by having their(Teens) passwords as their is an age requirement to go on that site.
If teens have nothing to hide then their should be no problem.
We have supplied info to parents who are unaware of what their children are up too.Some are thankful yet some remain in denial.
Some will have to wait until their teen hits the wall.
We have supplied info to the certain schools where certain children are going to get beat up the next day on school property. We have info on houses been broken into. We also have info on drug purchases by a teen and the meeting dates for such. This may be alarming to to some Parents .
The local Newspaper will be doing 3 articles on this to help parents to be aware of what is going on. This will be in the Western wheel Okotoks Alberta ,Canada.
It is also on the subject of the Diminished Authority of the parents who feel help less and have only a 5 day program to enlist children into.
Some of these children have bolted from home already.
We have made the Premier Of Alberta'S Office aware of the Articles that will be printed. Even the Social workers state under the Mandate of child
abuse they cannot stop the children from doing drugs even if you have info like we do .
Quote "unless you catch them in a crack house with a pipe in their mouth
or on the street you cannot do anything" here in Canada."Or prostituting themselves on the street" We are presenting this problem to the Local churchs who are Identifying with this problem as well ; and one Pastor in particular will be commenting as well finding himself in this situation too.
I believe the Lord Jesus has given us an avenue to present this reasoning to unaware parents as to what their children are up too.
And also to those who find themselves in similar situations without any avenue and powerless to do anything while the teen is screaming murder
because the cell phone is taken or they are discovered breaking the law.
So some ride the coat tails of the truly abused children. And to those we also have supplied info to the paper of children attempting to set their parents up; via taped coversations.
Abused parents have rights too do they not? when you only have child abuse the scales of our Lady Justice topple over to one side and you have true Anarchy. I truely believe the Lord wants to restore the Family.
But that take true Justice. How is it in Calgary Alberta you a man gets charged for preaching the word of God yet simultaneous they have the fringe going on that is the fortune tellers the astrologers and the occult on the streets but you cannot have on christian speaking.
Are we truly in the days of Noah ;where in Noahs time it said and the Lord gave them up to their Depravity of mind.What has happened to reasoning.
I do not know how the Laws are working in the States but I did watch Nancy Grace where their was a story of 6 teens beating one teen up ;and she commented where were the parents. Nancy if it is like Canada their is no right to do anthing with your children. They just need to cry I'm abused
as our records show; after six months of investigation. Please pass this onto Nancy if you can?
We also have seen video of a teen beating up a teacher with all the other teens taking pictures to post on YOUTUBE.
On broadcast news in Canada a parent was charge with physically attenpting to stop his daughter from meeting a drug dealer in Ontario.
He was found guilty but his lawyer argued under Sec 43 of the Canadian
Criminal Code; he had a right to do so .
He won this case at the Supreme Court of Appeals ;Level in Ontario in his appeal.
This was a large step; but truthfully how many CARING PARENTS
want to go as far as being charged ,to prevent the teen ,from Inappropriate behavoir.Their are many more cases I can quote ;and most of you are aware of this. We are doing our part up here with the Lord's help. We are also attempting to change legislation here; so as to balance Justice for both the teens and the parent.
An interesting point is the Unsuspecting Powerless Parent is responsible for damages by the Teen even if the child is a runaway.
We look forward to your prayers in this matter.
We need to act now.
Rmartel
Posted by: Christian Commando
Well, we have a rampant, out of control drug use situation that extends from inter Canda, down thru the US into Mexico.
This is not because Law Enforcement can't handle it. They are tied by specific laws that have been challenged and beaten here in the US considered in the realm of "entrappment".
The real problem, stems from not a loss of authority of parents over thier children, but a lack of parents taking the authority needed to help quell this problem.
In todays civilized advanced technological world, both parents now, have to work to support the family. Because of this, its not the lack of authority parents have, but the lack of parental raising of children. The lack of home raised morals.
Statistics show, more than half of all working families, the children come home from school, (or don't come home), to an empty house with no parent or good legal guardian to meet them and be an authority figure.
Without this type of structural teaching and guidance for children, they basically "fend for themselves", thus do as they please. Thus, this results in so many parents wondering why thier children are so rebellious to authority figures.
As such, being free or loose to do as they please. plenty of children start running around with friends to other places or areas, meeting others and eventually drawn into evil offers, temptations and or activities.
If we want future children to come back to good moralized living inline with God, the original family structure has to be returned to, where one parent at the least was always there for children when they came home. This new system that been adopted, of parents leaving children off at strangers places to be raised by them is producing independant rebellious generations, no longer recognizing authority over them.
This became clear in two "landmark" cases to set a new precidence, of children being able to legally divorce thier parents, a number of years ago.
Fact is, a high percentage of parents admit they don't know thier kids anymore. My guess is, they never really got to know them to begin with. As soon as old enough and the mother recovered enough, babies go to daycare, and mother's back to work.
Then after starting school, if a child happens to mention they were paddled, the school can have the parents investigated and possibly jailed for abuse and child in foster care. Even if a simple punishment that was desrved was administered.
And most parents have little idea what thier children are doing until they get home from work. Its no wonder children raised in the last 15 years or better are so independant they are rebellious and getting into drug, alcohol and sexual situations.
Parents, as a whole, need to decide if should have kids, if they can't be proper parents for raising them. A child is a Gift of God to a couple, as a Blessing, entrusted to the parents to raise them in God's ways. This cannot happen without at least one parent home most the time to do this.
Thats where the problem is. Its either that, or Churches need to take responcibility for thier flocks, by instituting buildings and programs to help give the children a place they can be watched over and Godly guided by other Elders who can invoke Godly guidelines and teachings for them until parents get home.
My old Home Church here has recently begun this since last year. The building and activities will open in May now. They saw the same thing happening and decided to do something for the parents and thier kids.
God Bless!!