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"Revolving Door"

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Posted by: tharris

I need someone to pray for me, my husband and our four children. My husband has once again abandoned us and he's having an affair w/a young girl who is 18yrs old. I'm 33yrs old and my husband is 22. We've been married for 3yrs and together for 6yrs. My two younger children are his biological children. To give you a little insight on my situation, my husband has been in and out of our lives throughout this 6yr period. He has a drug addiction and he keeps having affair after affair, but mostly he goes back and forth to this same girl. I always forgive him and accept him back in our lives and then he decides that he wants to walk out and he hurts me again. He's even went as far as leaving messages on my answering service telling me that it's over between us and that the young lady is his chic, and he know longer wants me. This whole situation has been very stressful. To top it all off, the young lady has been coming to my second job calling me outside of my name and telling me that my husband don't want me. She makes advances as if she wants to fight, but I don't take it that far. I'm not into violence. I've been praying that my husband will do a 360 degree turn and give his life to God and focus more on the children and I. Some, say that I would be a fool to ever take him back into me and the children's life, but what can you do if you truly love a person. Am I foolish to want this man back???? Could us being apart, be the Lord's way of telling me to move on??? I need some spiritual advice. Please help me......



Posted by: booklady

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Originally Posted by tharris
I need someone to pray for me, my husband and our four children. My husband has once again abandoned us and he's having an affair w/a young girl who is 18yrs old. I'm 33yrs old and my husband is 22. We've been married for 3yrs and together for 6yrs. My two younger children are his biological children. To give you a little insight on my situation, my husband has been in and out of our lives throughout this 6yr period. He has a drug addiction and he keeps having affair after affair, but mostly he goes back and forth to this same girl. I always forgive him and accept him back in our lives and then he decides that he wants to walk out and he hurts me again. He's even went as far as leaving messages on my answering service telling me that it's over between us and that the young lady is his chic, and he know longer wants me. This whole situation has been very stressful. To top it all off, the young lady has been coming to my second job calling me outside of my name and telling me that my husband don't want me. She makes advances as if she wants to fight, but I don't take it that far. I'm not into violence. I've been praying that my husband will do a 360 degree turn and give his life to God and focus more on the children and I. Some, say that I would be a fool to ever take him back into me and the children's life, but what can you do if you truly love a person. Am I foolish to want this man back???? Could us being apart, be the Lord's way of telling me to move on??? I need some spiritual advice. Please help me......



my heart goes out to you sister, you have a very tough situation to go thru. Fool you are not, but you are in an abusive situation and God does not like to see his children being mistreated. sometimes we have to lose all and die to self in order for God to get thru to us. He wants us built up not tore down as I feel that you are at this time in your life.
so I will keep you in my daily prayers for as long as it takes to get a breakthru.
God I humbly come to you and ask that you heal this marrage and I bind the demonic lustful influences that are trying to tear my sister in Christ
world apart, I pray for her husbands salvation and I ask lord that you show him how to be a good father and husband. I ask god for my sister to stand firm in the word and prayer. Amen