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Posted by: nubian

Please pray for me, for the state of pain i am in I just want god to take it away, I am a single mother of two, and i am still in love with my sons father, who broke up with me 3 years ago, and is seeing someone else, and is with her and her child (that is not his) my heart cant understand why he does not want to be with us. I have moved on with my life as far as dating, but my heart is still with him,I have prayed for us to be able to work things out and for god to work with my spirit & put my family back together but it has not happened, I want my two kids to grow up in a family oriented home with both there parents (preferably married) that is the way it should be. i came from a broken home and never wanted this for my children, I have told my kids father how i feel about him, and he said he cant come back because arguments & things that have been said since he left. i can not find the right way to tell him that i;m angry at the way he has treated me by just leaving me, (not the kids) and i am hurt. I have prayed for god to remove this pain. i dont know what to do, am I praying wrong? .signed confused and unhappy.


Posted by: bjc

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Originally Posted by nubian
Please pray for me, for the state of pain i am in I just want god to take it away, I am a single mother of two, and i am still in love with my sons father, who broke up with me 3 years ago, and is seeing someone else, and is with her and her child (that is not his) my heart cant understand why he does not want to be with us. I have moved on with my life as far as dating, but my heart is still with him,I have prayed for us to be able to work things out and for god to work with my spirit & put my family back together but it has not happened, I want my two kids to grow up in a family oriented home with both there parents (preferably married) that is the way it should be. i came from a broken home and never wanted this for my children, I have told my kids father how i feel about him, and he said he cant come back because arguments & things that have been said since he left. i can not find the right way to tell him that i;m angry at the way he has treated me by just leaving me, (not the kids) and i am hurt. I have prayed for god to remove this pain. i dont know what to do, am I praying wrong? .signed confused and unhappy.

DEAR NUBIAN,I KNOW HOW HARD IT IS TO LEAVE IT ALONE AND LET GOD HAVE IT.IF YOU WANT THE LORD TO MOVE,YOU MUST GIVE THIS SITUATION TO HIM,COMPLETELY.TRUST HIM.WHEN YOU GET THESE FEELINGS OR NOTIONS,TELL THE LORD,FATHER HELP ME THROUGH THIS DAY FOR IT IS A SLOW PROCESS.PRAY FOR HIM.PRAY FOR HIS SALVATION.PRAY FOR DISCERNMENT.EXPEL ALL HURTS,ANGER AND ASK GOD TO HELP YOU TO FORGIVE.THAT IS THE KEY.FORGIVE.YOU MAY HAVE TO STOMP YOUR FEET OR CRY OR BITE YOUR TONGUE WHILE SAYING IT, BUT GOD UNDERSTANDS AND SOON YOU WILL GET THROUGH A DAY, A WEEK, A MONTH,MAYBE MONTHS AND YOU WILL WONDER HOW YOU MADE IT THROUGH.THEN YOU WILL REALIZE GOD DID IT AND YOU WILL BE ASTONISHED AND AMAZED AT THE PEACE.TRY GOD.PUT YOUR MIND ON HIM,YOUR KIDS AND YOURSELF AND SEE GOD IN ALL HIS GLORY AND COMPASSION .WITH HIS LOVE AND HELP, YOU CAN MAKE IT.bjc