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my marriage
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Posted by: JeffE
This is an urgent prayer request for my marriage.
Two prayer requests. One for myself, J E to stay Holy, Obedient, and Praise focused while the attorneys work together in unison.
2nd-For God to soften my wifes’ heart, C E, towards reconciliation.
C E has filed lies on an injunction to keep me away from our children, 5 & 2. She has said I have never threatened her physically or verbally before yet she is scared because of everyone telling her about the Biblical consequences of breaking up our marriage and family. The judge said to let the attorneys handle it until the hearing in December. Her attorney, who is a Christian like mine, J K and D K, need to talk today or at latest, by Wednesday.
She is the one that crossed a line with an e-mail affair with a much older married man and then deceived me about it until I found all the e-mails. Then she said two things that were significant.
First, she said if I love him I must not love you – love is a choice so I choose not to love you (She ended it with him, he lives 500 miles away and she only met him when she and I sat with him and his second wife at a reunion several months ago.)
–She then said, I am taking the children and moving out –then her ungodly mother flew down and has lived in our home and then her place for two months breathing all kinds of lies and deceit in her, C T, and she is paying for everything, close to $8,000 so far, is doing the cooking, cleaning, and babysitting. C E cut off ALL of our friends, (Almost all Strong Christian couples), switched churches, and wants a new life with the new C E. (She just had her tubes tied with female surgery added in, cut her hair real short, lost 13-15 pounds and her mother has said to find a rich man and you will be happy) Friends that have seen her have said she is miserable yet her heels are dug in FOR NOW! She wrote in some notes that she needs her mother, (who has no conscience or fear of the Lord) to help her through this.
Secondly, to show her level of deception, she wrote him a love letter, (I have a copy)
that said in part, “The Lord wanted to show His love for you through me and in the process I fell in love with you. This was a risk the Lord was willing to take to show His love for you.” (The Lord wouldn’t have two married people put in a situation like that.)
She did say that she couldn’t go down that path of destruction with him though.
Please lift us up, Prayer is the only weapon, (although so very powerful) that I have and can ask for. I have been faithful, gentle, loving, but haven’t provided the high income that she now all of a sudden wants.
This can be a great victory for the Lord. We have been prominent in ministry in Florida, have had a loving relationship for over 11 years, and just in fact renewed our wedding vows with family and friends there last year and had covenant rings flown in from Jerusalem with Yahweh and Yeshua on the them to glorify Jesus.
She has gone from a loving wife and mother to a bitter, deceitful, hard-hearted person I don’t even know in just a few weeks.
Please lift up the two request I asked for at the top of the page. Bless you
Posted by: Dani
Loving Lord,
In Jesus' name I pray that your will be done in Jeff's and his wife's lives. I pray that whatever needs to be worked on, you give wisdom and direction in. I pray that this total mess be worked out QUICKLY for the sake of these beautiful little children. Lord, please work this out for your glory. Please soften hearts and work them toward your will. I pray for all marriages involved in this and especially for the children. I praise you that we are able to pray for these children of yours, Father. We love you so much.
Amen